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Tslaveboy -> Telling Mom (10/18/2008 11:39:04 PM)
What do you tell your Mom when she comes to visit and accidentally snoops your toy chests?

yourMissTress -> RE: Telling Mom (10/18/2008 11:48:53 PM)
Mooooooom!!! Get out of my room!!! Really.

Aileen1968 -> RE: Telling Mom (10/18/2008 11:49:54 PM)
Ask her nicely to pass the butt plug and lube?

slavelet -> RE: Telling Mom (10/18/2008 11:52:39 PM)
Tell her they arent your toys... you are just holding them for a friend! slavelet

UmbraDomina -> RE: Telling Mom (10/19/2008 12:00:39 AM)
just ask her...... are you sure you would like to know about my sex life mom? trust me as a parent those would be the words that would make me go...... ahhhhh no thanks ... how about the weather? You also might ask her to stay out of your personal things, and next time you have company that is not kink friendly find something with a lock to put things in...... if need be the trunk of your car for their visit.

zakkan -> RE: Telling Mom (10/19/2008 12:01:59 AM)
"I played with some weird things when I was little eh?"

GoodgirlFind -> RE: Telling Mom (10/19/2008 12:07:27 AM)
I (recently discovered) am a lesbian who has come out to my parents and they accepted me the way that i am, they have supported me and love me just the way I am now. But think of the relief you would feel if you finally told your mother.

yourMissTress -> RE: Telling Mom (10/19/2008 12:09:41 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Tslaveboy What do you tell your Mom when she comes to visit and accidentally snoops your toy chests? Wait, I just read your profile...dude, you are 53 and not only is your mom snooping in your room but you don't know what to tell her about what she found? WTF?

lemmebeYourMine -> RE: Telling Mom (10/19/2008 12:10:28 AM)
haha, That's why it's a toy Chest, comes equipped with a lock, and the padlock closes, i-magine that. I doubt I would have to worry, I think if my mom came over she'd stay out of the bedroom (if I had my own place et al.)

NuevaVida -> RE: Telling Mom (10/19/2008 12:24:21 AM)
Accidentally snoops? Is that possible? I always thought snooping was an intentional act. You tell her she shouldn't snoop because she might find things she doesn't like. Other than that, you tell her "Yeah, I'm kinky. So what's for dinner?"

JustDarkness -> RE: Telling Mom (10/19/2008 12:29:48 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Tslaveboy What do you tell your Mom when she comes to visit and accidentally snoops your toy chests? wash your hands mom but seriously..as soon..she starts to walk around the house...tell her that it is not needed for her to go anywhere..that you see as private rooms.

LFAFanatic -> RE: Telling Mom (10/19/2008 12:47:29 AM)
if she sees it, she sees it. she is older then you and has most likly seen or done something similar in the past. i think if your "INTO IT" that's how you where made! JK. my moms has seen all my things....i dont even worry about it anymore. she just says "if thats what you like..go for it!, i cant stop ya." so thats what i do. and here i am!

moonvine -> RE: Telling Mom (10/19/2008 1:01:51 AM)
fast reply I don't let my mom in my house, or, more accurately she does not want to come in. She doesn't like the cats and they live here and she doesn't. So I can have anything out I want anywhere I want it:p

Motionflipotion -> RE: Telling Mom (10/19/2008 2:09:10 AM)
My Mother already knows, she snoops through my partners. Now I have learned not to introduce them to my mother.

PhoenixAscendant -> RE: Telling Mom (10/19/2008 4:09:02 AM)
Knowing my family the correct response would be: "So, found anything you'd like to play with Mom?" Which would stop her in her tracks if I caught her at it. If I didn't catch her and she brings it up, I might ask the same thing. That or go "Jeez Mom, I thought we had been over this. Your little girl likes handcuffs and bondage rope. Get over it. Remember that time when me and the sib were talking about that stuff at the dinner table? I know it was a few years ago..." That being said, snooping is an intentional act. What she may come across might have been on accident, but seriously. If you have a toy chest, I would suggest locking it. If she cannot respect privacy then make her not welcome. Cruel? Maybe. But privacy should be respected.

sunshinedreams -> RE: Telling Mom (10/19/2008 4:48:08 AM)
My mom and I have developed a don't ask, don't tell policy, since she usually doesn't like the answers she gets when she does ask. I would probably just give her 'the look', that one that says we are not even discussing this.[8\|]

Cyis75 -> RE: Telling Mom (10/19/2008 5:56:25 AM)
Easy... wouldn't be much of an issue of that happening with me. For one my mother lives over 15 hours away so she's not going to just be dropping in and for another I already came out and told my family what I was involved in before I went through an ugly divorce that I was certain my bitter ex-wife would use my lifestyle against me. Then again that all goes under the premise that my mother and I have a good relationship and can talk openly about anything.

lally3 -> RE: Telling Mom (10/19/2008 5:57:47 AM)
i have a 12 year old son who expects and gets a degree of privacy. if i was snooping around in his things and found something i wasnt comfortable with id be in a difficult position straight off for being privvy to something i had no right to. (this btw would exclude anything really important like drugs or me checking his 'browsing history' and finding out he'd been on sites id banned him from) but if it was private personal stuff id have to keep quiet on it or lose his trust - so id have to deal with it myself and let it go. if your mother has made herself privvy to private personal stuff to do with you she should do the same and deal with it and trust that youre ok and happy and still her son, no matter what. but youre a grown up and your mother has absolutely no right to go snooping anywhere, if she finds something in your toy box then let her approach you about it. otherwise dont say anything. she shouldnt have been snooping. if that was my mum, she'd get a flea in her ear and the very clear message that it had absolutely nothing atall to do with her.

sirsholly -> RE: Telling Mom (10/19/2008 5:58:59 AM)
i would not have had to say much other than "Rest in peace'. She would have tossed a clot[8\|]

beargonewild -> RE: Telling Mom (10/19/2008 6:00:31 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: UmbraDomina just ask her...... are you sure you would like to know about my sex life mom? trust me as a parent those would be the words that would make me go...... ahhhhh no thanks ... how about the weather? You also might ask her to stay out of your personal things, and next time you have company that is not kink friendly find something with a lock to put things in...... if need be the trunk of your car for their visit. grins That's exactly what I say to my family members if they come over to visit and spies one of my toys. It's amazing how they quickly change the subject when I ask if they really want to know why I own a flogger or the handcuffs I forgot to put away!

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