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WhiplashSmile2 -> RE: Telling Mom (10/19/2008 11:33:39 AM)
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ORIGINAL: NihilusZero
At this point, she wouldn't be surprised anymore.
A slight roll of the eyes and a short story about wishing I would "find a nice girl" ("nice" translating to "stereotypically vanilla") would ensue, and then we'd move on to other topics.
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I've not got this from my mom at all. However, she has made statements about me being on some of the websites I'm on that I'm probally not going to find a good girl online.
I have been sharing some details with her about the girl I'm currently involved with. Also, I've let it be known to my girl, that my mom even knows about her including some of my friends. I have a cell phone, she calls me and I call her on it. No big secret that I'm involved with somebody.
My mom actually liked my last girlfriend to a certain degree. All three of us even have been out together. The last girl I was dating was a bi-sexual switch girl. The downside was her drinking and anger issues. Her and I split up over 7 monthes ago. When she found out about this new girl in the picture, she went so far to call and talk to my mom for some inside information. It was a little funny and sad at the same time. She was expressing to my mom the fact that I love to play rough and I'm into painful S&M things. My mom, said, I know and fired a smart ass comment back at her. lol...
So it's a good thing that Mom knows these things ahead of time. Considering when things are real time involvement. I'm really not into keeping somebody seperated from my family, however, if they want to attempt to cause Drama or problems, it's nice to be able to have your family, say... "So what?". LOL... Ooooo... like it's going to ruin and trash my mom's image of her little boy that is now a grown up adult.
My last few Ex's have had a few problems, and Mom has been hoping that I meet and find somebody a little more mentally stable without Drinking problems or Nutty Mental issues. She really does like my last Ex, the drunk when she's not been drinking. Tell you the truth so do I, however the drinking and anger issues. It was a little too much for me to deal with. She had her chances, and I had to walk away for my own sanity. I attempted to keep it as a friendship, and I'm posting a lot of crap here.
I'm just trying to express things, in regards to my mother knowing about things ahead of time. She may not know that I'm a member of this website specifically, but she knows I'm on BDSM kinky adult dating websites, and that I have been looking for somebody else that's already into these things.
There have been a few times when somebody was expressing thoughts about hooking their daughter or somebody up with me, and my mom has sat there and told them point blank. I don't think she's his type. Hahahaha.. Even though I appear to be such a nice guy and all.
I think when you are single, and you are looking for somebody, your family and friends often try to fix you up with somebody, or at least make some effort at times. Kind of helps when they actually know a little more about the type of partner you are interested in.
Anyhoo... At least my mom is not trying to hook me up with some Nice Vanilla girl. She knows better then to try.
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