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RE: Telling Mom - 10/19/2008 6:05:03 AM   
lusciouslips19


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Status: offline 		Well my father did find my profile on an adult site and told me. i said,"hey, dad what were you doing there and does mom know?"
When they ask me questions I say, "I'm 46 and do you REALLY want to know the answer?"

Well, you can always say<"none of your business also".

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RE: Telling Mom - 10/19/2008 6:45:44 AM   
littlewonder


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Status: offline 		I'd ask her why she was snooping in the first place and tell her that if she can't handle finding such thing she should think twice about going through people's things in a home that doesn't belong to her.

If you're concerned about her finding stuff in your home though try locking it up.

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RE: Telling Mom - 10/19/2008 7:04:05 AM   
tweedydaddy


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Status: offline 		I used to show her everything I got so she didn't have to snoop.
My Mother in law borrows whips and cuffs from us all the time.
Since I have whips in the staircase wall, why bother hiding anything?

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RE: Telling Mom - 10/19/2008 7:22:41 AM   
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What do you tell your Mom when she comes to visit and accidentally snoops your toy chests?


"I like to tie men up and whip them."

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RE: Telling Mom - 10/19/2008 7:39:33 AM   
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Status: offline 		Ok, lets reverse the situation. What would you say if you were doing the snooping and saw your mom's toy chest?

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RE: Telling Mom - 10/19/2008 7:53:56 AM   
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Ok, lets reverse the situation. What would you say if you were doing the snooping and saw your mom's toy chest?


"You had what in your closet..WHAT?!?! Why the hell did you make me explain what a blow job was if you KNEW?!?!""

....somethings you just NEVER get over.


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RE: Telling Mom - 10/19/2008 7:55:28 AM   
Lordi71


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Status: offline 		say you found them in dad's car

seriously tho I owuld take the direction of well if you really want to know etc etc etc....


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RE: Telling Mom - 10/19/2008 10:21:44 AM   
azropedntied


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Status: offline 		Did dear ole mom ask a question in her snooping ?If so tell her , if she does not like the  answers perhaps she shall stop  poking around .At the Op's age  i would think this would be a non issue , unless your still living at home with mommy , then its her house .

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RE: Telling Mom - 10/19/2008 10:34:46 AM   
spankablemilf


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quote:

ORIGINAL: Tslaveboy

What do you tell your Mom when she comes to visit and accidentally snoops your toy chests?


Wait, I just read your profile...dude, you are 53 and not only is your mom snooping in your room but you don't know what to tell her about what she found?  WTF?


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RE: Telling Mom - 10/19/2008 10:37:22 AM   
momandaughter


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Status: offline 		Surely, it depends on your mother...?
My own dear, long departed mother would have very quietly ignored the whole subject for ever.

.. but I know a lifestyle family who recently brought mother to a play party...  turns out she used to work at one of those
famous "ranches' in Nevada..

So, really, only you can judge.

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RE: Telling Mom - 10/19/2008 11:01:10 AM   
NihilusZero


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Status: offline 		At this point, she wouldn't be surprised anymore.

A slight roll of the eyes and a short story about wishing I would "find a nice girl" ("nice" translating to "stereotypically vanilla") would ensue, and then we'd move on to other topics.



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RE: Telling Mom - 10/19/2008 11:09:04 AM   
slavekal


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Status: offline 		Milady has kind of the opposite problem.  Her very smart eight year old is slowly figuring things out. 

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RE: Telling Mom - 10/19/2008 11:13:56 AM   
WhiplashSmile2


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Status: offline 		I broke the news to my mom a couple of years ago, that I'm into BDSM.  So I think she knows better then to even think about snooping.  Besides I don't keep everything locked away in one single chest or place.   Just open up my second dressor drawer for instances, and there laying in it are ankle and wrist restaints, my guitar case contains a small flogger, Ummm.. there's a pair of nipple clamps in my night stand along with other crazy things.   I have big storage container with an assortment of things in it, that I've not used in while.   No locks on it.   Just things mixed in with some of my regular stuff.   Anybody going through my stuff, would quickly see and know... I'm a kinky bastard.

I really don't try to hide anything very hard, then again, I really don't have any reason to either.   Anybody that is close to me, is aware that I'm at least into kink, they might not know to what depth or level.

I do know this, I have not reveal the level of kink I'm into with my mom.  For instance, she thinks watersports is disqusting.  She's very accepting about bondage, S&M and rough sex.

Anyhoo, I broke the news ahead of time to her.  If she ever finds anything, well it's not like she was not warned ahead of time about it.  It's her own issue if she finds something and she has a hard time dealing with it.  Not mine.

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RE: Telling Mom - 10/19/2008 11:33:39 AM   
WhiplashSmile2


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quote:

ORIGINAL: NihilusZero

At this point, she wouldn't be surprised anymore.

A slight roll of the eyes and a short story about wishing I would "find a nice girl" ("nice" translating to "stereotypically vanilla") would ensue, and then we'd move on to other topics.




I've not got this from my mom at all.  However, she has made statements about me being on some of the websites I'm on that I'm probally not going to find a good girl online.

I have been sharing some details with her about the girl I'm currently involved with.  Also, I've let it be known to my girl, that my mom even knows about her including some of my friends.  I have a cell phone, she calls me and I call her on it.  No big secret that I'm involved with somebody.

My mom actually liked my last girlfriend to a certain degree.  All three of us even have been out together.  The last girl I was dating was a bi-sexual switch girl.   The downside was her drinking and anger issues.  Her and I split up over 7 monthes ago.  When she found out about this new girl in the picture, she went so far to call and talk to my mom for some inside information.  It was a little funny and sad at the same time.   She was expressing to my mom the fact that I love to play rough and I'm into painful S&M things.  My mom, said, I know and fired a smart ass comment back at her.  lol...

So it's a good thing that Mom knows these things ahead of time.  Considering when things are real time involvement.  I'm really not into keeping somebody seperated from my family, however, if they want to attempt to cause Drama or problems, it's nice to be able to have your family, say... "So what?".  LOL...  Ooooo... like it's going to ruin and trash my mom's image of her little boy that is now a grown up adult.

My last few Ex's have had a few problems, and Mom has been hoping that I meet and find somebody a little more mentally stable without Drinking problems or Nutty Mental issues.  She really does like my last Ex, the drunk when she's not been drinking.  Tell you the truth so do I, however the drinking and anger issues.  It was a little too much for me to deal with.  She had her chances, and I had to walk away for my own sanity.  I attempted to keep it as a friendship, and I'm posting a lot of crap here. 

I'm just trying to express things, in regards to my mother knowing about things ahead of time.  She may not know that I'm a member of this website specifically, but she knows I'm on BDSM kinky adult dating websites, and that I have been looking for somebody else that's already into these things.

There have been a few times when somebody was expressing thoughts about hooking their daughter or somebody up with me, and my mom has sat there and told them point blank.   I don't think she's his type.  Hahahaha..  Even though I appear to be such a nice guy and all.

I think when you are single, and you are looking for somebody, your family and friends often try to fix you up with somebody, or at least make some effort at times.  Kind of helps when they actually know a little more about the type of partner you are interested in. 

Anyhoo... At least my mom is not trying to hook me up with some Nice Vanilla girl.   She knows better then to try. 

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RE: Telling Mom - 10/19/2008 11:43:57 AM   
NihilusZero


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quote:

ORIGINAL: WhiplashSmile2

Anyhoo... At least my mom is not trying to hook me up with some Nice Vanilla girl.   She knows better then to try. 

Oh, my mom doesn't try to hook me up with anyone really and has known about my relationships (including poly, when two exes stayed and the my parents' house years ago) for some time. It's a lighthearted thing at this point, but she still kinda "hopes" in that non-imposing, funny mom way.


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RE: Telling Mom - 10/19/2008 12:13:37 PM   
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My mom's kind of bitchin.

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RE: Telling Mom - 10/19/2008 2:29:00 PM   
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quote:

ORIGINAL: zakkan

Ok, lets reverse the situation. What would you say if you were doing the snooping and saw your mom's toy chest?

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RE: Telling Mom - 10/19/2008 2:32:50 PM   
WildHoneyPie


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Status: offline 		my mom would never snoop, but if she did find out, I don't think she'd be entirely shocked. I'm pretty sure she's already guessed that I've been a major slut since the age of 12.

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RE: Telling Mom - 10/19/2008 2:34:10 PM   
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quote:

ORIGINAL: Tslaveboy

What do you tell your Mom when she comes to visit and accidentally snoops your toy chests?


What were you doing snooping in my things?  I think it's time you left.

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RE: Telling Mom - 10/19/2008 2:59:39 PM   
VivaciousSub


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Status: offline 		"Accidentally" snoops? Isn't that an oxymoron? You don't need to say anything, and if she brings it up, acknowledge what she found and then change the subject.

My mother knows I'm into 'unusual' (to her) stuff, but doesn't want to know any further. She won't even keep a key to my house and she never "drops by" even though my parents live less than 10 minutes from me. I cannot imagine that she would ever go looking around in my stuff. Although there was one time my father came over and saw my sex furniture that I had forgotten to put away, asked what it was for, and I said "Exercise, Daddy!"


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