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RE: Telling Mom - 10/19/2008 3:01:57 PM   
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Status: offline 		My mother would be too embarassed at being caught snooping to need to say anything.  That being said, I have plenty of kink materials like dvds and books and art always up around the house that it wouldn't be a surprise to her. 

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RE: Telling Mom - 10/19/2008 3:02:47 PM   
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Status: offline 		On one hand I can understand this and on another... wth??  Mom's shouldn't be snooping after one reaches adulthood.  Period.  I always said... I wasn't raising um's... I was raising adults.  When I am done, I don't want um's standing there, I want adults.  My job ends when they are an adult.  The relationship doesn't end, but the job of parenting does.  Adults with no boundries... not good.  If you have a snoop and can't control them... locks work very well.  But my general take on it is.. wth... everybody grow up and let people grow up.  Simple.

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RE: Telling Mom - 10/19/2008 3:08:18 PM   
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Status: offline 		there is no such thing as accidental snooping, first of all.  secondly, why do so many of you people assume mom and dad don't get it, never did it and never thought about it?  how the hell did we all get here if they didn't?  hello!!  my mother hasn't asked me any questions since she saw the eye bolts in the 4 poster bed. 
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RE: Telling Mom - 10/19/2008 3:20:56 PM   
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Status: offline 		dont worry about what to tell her. just hope you dont find her toy box!

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RE: Telling Mom - 10/19/2008 3:29:45 PM   
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and i can't imagine anyones mother asking about sex toys found during snooping

...   and i think asking "why do you want to know" would be a perfect answer.  Puts the onus on her.

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RE: Telling Mom - 10/19/2008 3:49:49 PM   
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Status: offline 		Hey mom. Yes, as I've explained to you, I'm into inflicting pain, and yes, those are the toys. Now, I'm not sure what you were looking for, since that is clearly marked "kinky pastimes", but if you want a movie or book, those are on the regular bookshelves or in the film library. There's not a lot of sex stuff there, since I'm not so much into the sex part, but there is a lot of body-mod, blood, vampire, high-protocol servitude, and fetish stuff, if you're really interested.

(If my mom or dad was snooping around my house, it wouldn't be 'accidental'. Also, I 'came out' to my parents 30 years ago, and have been fortunate not to have to worry about it since. They know I'm pierced, tattooed, kinky, atheist, a domina, have a blood fetish, wear my hair in freaky colors, like wigs and fake eyelashes, and write science fiction/fantasy. My mom passed about 12 years ago, but , because I've been open and honest with my parents, they wouldn't snoop... if my dad wanted to see something or know something or have a different servant taking care of him while he was visiting, he'd know just to say the word.)



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RE: Telling Mom - 10/19/2008 4:07:49 PM   
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RE: Telling Mom - 10/19/2008 4:26:18 PM   
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Status: offline 		My mom and I had very deep talks about sex when we were both dating at the same time.  I could freely tell her things... she tried to teach me, but I ended up teaching her more and we just laughed about it.  My dad is a nudist and a perv, so I didn't talk to him much... but he tried to get me to go to the camps and clubs with him.  My words were... Dad.. I did that shit years ago... not interested now.  Then it was my adult children and introducing them to the idea that mom wasn't just very sexual and open about it... but was dominant in a kinky way.  They knew the dominance well..lol... At first they didn't want to know in a way... exchanged some funny looks between couples but within a year, they were all talking and coming out of their closets so to speak.  I had one male submissive, one domme in waiting and a switch.  Now they buy me bdsm teddy bears and such.  It's great when you can be open and not have to hide! lol

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RE: Telling Mom - 10/19/2008 4:43:59 PM   
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Damn...bad bad visuals on that subject!
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RE: Telling Mom - 10/19/2008 4:46:23 PM   
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What do you tell your Mom when she comes to visit and accidentally snoops your toy chests?


I'd reassure her that the medical staff have been taking good care of her, and she'll be fine after a couple weeks recovering from her cardiac arrest.

Frankly, if someone "accidentally snoops" (an oxymoron?) whatever happens is their own fault. However, since I don't want my mom's brain exploding, or having her worried that I'm going to Hell, I'd make damn certain that there's no way she could find any "incriminating evidence".

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RE: Telling Mom - 10/19/2008 4:48:12 PM   
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ORIGINAL: Marion001

dont worry about what to tell her. just hope you dont find her toy box!


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RE: Telling Mom - 10/19/2008 6:08:24 PM   
BLGirl


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Status: offline 		My mother would never come to my house unannounced (she knows better), but if she did, and found something, um, interesting.... I would probably lift my skirt and show her the stripes that my Daddy left on my ass just this morning, with that very tool.
Honestly, I would love to see her face go white and the whip fall from her hand as she made a mad dash out of the house. The bitch deserves a little tweek now and then.

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RE: Telling Mom - 10/19/2008 7:14:53 PM   
FetishRose


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Status: offline 		My mother personally would never snoop.
If she found something accidentally, she would probably get freaked out, but never say anything.
If I was with her when she actually found something, I am sure she would mumble something about me needing to do what I do, as long as its safe.

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RE: Telling Mom - 10/19/2008 9:18:36 PM   
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Status: offline 		I would be like " NO mom you can't paly with my toys.

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RE: Telling Mom - 10/20/2008 4:57:59 AM   
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ORIGINAL: Tslaveboy

What do you tell your Mom when she comes to visit and accidentally snoops your toy chests?

a. my mother would never come over unannounced or without a phone call first, b. she would never enter and/or snoop in my bedroom and c. it's none of her damn business what i keep in my bedroom/apartment.

when i turned 18, she respectfully stayed (and still does) out of my private life. 

honestly, she doesn't want to know unless i tell her.




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RE: Telling Mom - 10/20/2008 10:28:11 AM   
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Status: offline 		I'm a real asshole when it comes to people snooping around my personal stuff.  It never happens more than once relative or not. Privacy is one of those things that I am really huge on no matter who it is.

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RE: Telling Mom - 10/20/2008 10:33:23 AM   
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I'm a real asshole when it comes to people snooping around my personal stuff.  It never happens more than once relative or not. Privacy is one of those things that I am really huge on no matter who it is.


wouldn't call that "asshole" but more like "normal"
Some one with a little respect wouldn't snoop

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RE: Telling Mom - 10/20/2008 3:48:32 PM   
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when i had 10 days to get out of my matrimonial home my mother came down to help me pack seeing as I still had a contract to finish for work. I came home the one day and she said. "What people do behind closed doors is their business, and you can pack your own bedroom" LOL

I found being honest with people is easiest and most effective but I also only explain as much as they want to know. My parents learned from the time i was a teen that i would answer any question asked but be damn sure you want to actually know the answer before you ask.

I was going down to visit friends in Edmonton alot for a while and one day my mom asked " Are you're friends wierd kinky people?"

I just said "Mom all my freinds are kinky"  and she didn't ask anymore.



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RE: Telling Mom - 10/20/2008 4:14:08 PM   
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Status: offline 		This is what I told my adult son who found pictures of me on my laptop "Hmm, you are a bit old to spank, besides, I think seeing me naked is punishment enough for snooping.." 

When my mother snooped through my trunk of  french maid costume and other BDSM toys I'd left behind when I moved to Michigan, I just said "Yep, I'm kinky....by the way, could you possibly send those back to me by UPS?" 


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RE: Telling Mom - 10/20/2008 5:40:17 PM   
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quote:

ORIGINAL: Tslaveboy

What do you tell your Mom when she comes to visit and accidentally snoops your toy chests?


"I wasn't going to tell you this but...I've been keeping these things here for Dad for the last 5 years".

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