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RE: Why are women only perverted behind doors??? - 10/24/2008 7:38:42 PM   
juliaoceania


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I really am baffled by the majority opinion that women should be lady like when it comes to discussing sex in public.


I would talk about sex in public in the right place... but I do not usually go to those sorts of places...

This is a matter of safety to me. If some stranger comes up and completely ignores my boundaries without considering my feelings and starts talking about eating me out... that person is probably not mentally well, or a sex offender.

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RE: Why are women only perverted behind doors??? - 10/24/2008 7:47:18 PM   
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how can you find out a woman is kinky in public.



We have signs on our foreheads saying, "pick me I'm kinky." NOT!

My bet is that you can find out if a woman is kinky by getting to know her. Speaking for myself, I don't open up to just anyone about my kinks... it takes time and trust to get in this dirty ol' mind of mine.

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RE: Why are women only perverted behind doors??? - 10/24/2008 7:53:39 PM   
bernardogui


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Status: offline 		I often wonder if men would consider it kinky if women did these acts in front of doors.

This does not in any way consider if they might do it out of doors, it might unhinge one to consider that in its entirety.

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RE: Why are women only perverted behind doors??? - 10/24/2008 7:54:30 PM   
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ORIGINAL: juliaoceania
If some stranger comes up and completely ignores my boundaries without considering my feelings and starts talking about eating me out... that person is probably not mentally well, or a sex offender.


I should put your quote in my profile, there are some men around who need this pointed out to them before they message people!

I think the issue is, like others have pointed out, that you have to get to know a woman before you can expect to know her kinks. You wouldn't expect a random vanilla woman to come up to you and announce how she wants you to go down on her (though you might love that) and so you can't expect a kinkster to open up immediately. It's an intimate discussion.

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RE: Why are women only perverted behind doors??? - 10/24/2008 7:59:37 PM   
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Behind closed doors? I was wondering why "women" are only perverted on the Internets. I must be hanging out behind the wrong doors. 


Come hang out behind my door! 

Betcha I could teach you a few things....


lol. I can be in Tampa in 10 hours. Why do I have the feeling that if I showed up, what I'd learn would not involve any sort of sexual perversion?


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RE: Why are women only perverted behind doors??? - 10/24/2008 8:08:06 PM   
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ORIGINAL: juliaoceania
If some stranger comes up and completely ignores my boundaries without considering my feelings and starts talking about eating me out... that person is probably not mentally well, or a sex offender.


I should put your quote in my profile, there are some men around who need this pointed out to them before they message people!

I think the issue is, like others have pointed out, that you have to get to know a woman before you can expect to know her kinks. You wouldn't expect a random vanilla woman to come up to you and announce how she wants you to go down on her (though you might love that) and so you can't expect a kinkster to open up immediately. It's an intimate discussion.


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RE: Why are women only perverted behind doors??? - 10/24/2008 8:18:28 PM   
Elenaconfined


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Status: offline 		Its about comfort for me. If the situation alowes I'll be the dirty little perv I am. If im out wtih my Mother or Daughter its not the same. Women also have to live with a dubble standerd. Its not as bad as it used to be but for the most part women who are openly sexual are also leaving themselves open to ridicule. If a man talkes about his wild weekend with three chicks he is a hero to his friends. More commonly if a women does the same she is a slut.

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RE: Why are women only perverted behind doors??? - 10/24/2008 8:32:39 PM   
Maya2001


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Status: offline 		take a trip to Toronto this weekend and attend "the Everything to do with Sex show" 
http://toronto.everythingtodowithsex.com/

and judge for yourself how many males appear openly kinky there and how many females do .... I think you will note that far more females with appear so

as for seeing other kinky people in public   attend the swinger and fetish  clubs, BDSM groups there are lots around  pretty much from  niagara  thru hamilton and Toronto, guelph kitchener london and windsor.. the key is knowing where to look because mainstream society is not that accepting ... plus the lifestyle is based on mutual consent..if you are flaunting your kinks in front  of  the general public who has no desire to see .. then you are disrespecting them and  it becomes offensive and rude.. it would be no different than if a married couple made out in the middle of the grocery store most people including kinksters would find offensive ..there is a time and place for everything  including kink.

get a bunch of single males together and they have often have no problems setting there talking about sex..... but that same thing can happen when you put a bunch of females together... in a mixed group it does not happen as often unless they all know each other very well ... like for example at my workplace which is mostly males , sexual harassment/discrimination laws are very strict in a work place and can easily lead to termination so before the guys start talking  and joking around about sex they need to know that any females around are going to be tolerant and even other males because even some of them will get offended ... so even though the workplace rules forbid  ..it still happens as long as all are consenting and not offended by


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RE: Why are women only perverted behind doors??? - 10/25/2008 10:56:56 AM   
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Status: offline 		I suppose I tend to joke about sex more than I actually talk about specifics of it... If the conversation is about sex, I'm comfortable offering serious input, but more often than not, I'm just making dirty jokes with my friends

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RE: Why are women only perverted behind doors??? - 10/25/2008 11:09:15 AM   
SimplyMichael


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RE: Why are women only perverted behind doors??? - 10/25/2008 11:25:00 AM   
pinioned14Me


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Status: offline 		I will assume you've never sat in amongst a group of women who feel very comfortable in your presence. Men are dissected, sex and pleasures discussed, clothing is praised ridiculed and reviled...and a cocktail or two to everyone at the table and you will soon learn: women are discreet to a point beyond that....wear a seat belt.

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RE: Why are women only perverted behind doors??? - 10/25/2008 11:27:32 AM   
Lynnxz


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RE: Why are women only perverted behind doors??? - 10/25/2008 11:32:11 AM   
antipode


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Status: offline 		If you didn't know there are a lot of horny kinky women out there, you led a sheltered life... Stuff like "do women on this site" is really unanswerable, "women on this site" is not a class. Same goes for "are women more perverted" - there actually has been academic research into the subject, but otherwise, the question is meaningless, especially if you do not give a specification and threshold for "perverted". So, yes, you have led a sheltered life...

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RE: Why are women only perverted behind doors??? - 10/25/2008 11:37:49 AM   
LaTigresse


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ORIGINAL: steelman1

Hi everyone, this question is mainly directed to the ladies, but men feel free to jump in if you got a good point.

I was surfing this site and thought to myself, WOW THERE ARE A LOT OF HORNY KINKY WOMEN OUT THERE! In society, most women seem to be discusted with the mention of cum, or pernis, or cunciligus. So my question is, do women on this site pretend to be discusted in public about sex, when they really want. And second, how can you find out a woman is kinky in public. Lastly, who are more perverted men or women behind closed doors. My bet is women are more perverted.




Here steelman, let me give you a point of reference.

When was the last time your mother discussed with you, the details of your conception? That she likes or not, getting fucked in the ass? Has she ever told you what position she likes best? Has she ever discussed whether or not she likes giving your dad a blowjob or if she spits or swallows? Did she tell you why she is okay with your dad not liking broccoli (or whatever foods make his jiz taste rank), yet she made you eat it?

Are you getting the point yet?

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RE: Why are women only perverted behind doors??? - 10/25/2008 11:42:01 AM   
yourMissTress


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(or whatever foods make his jiz taste rank),



OMG, LaT said jiz...


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RE: Why are women only perverted behind doors??? - 10/25/2008 11:53:06 AM   
LaTigresse


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(or whatever foods make his jiz taste rank),



OMG, LaT said jiz...



The sad part is, I don't know if it's funny because it's an old outdated thing, a midwestern thing, or if I am in danger of being kicked out of the girl lovers club.............

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RE: Why are women only perverted behind doors??? - 10/25/2008 9:07:18 PM   
AcademyForSlaves


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I think women are only perverted behind closed doors for the same reason why men are only submissive behind closed doors. SOCIETY's biased prejudice. Most men are pressured to be dominant and expect other men to follow suit and most women are pressured to be ladylike and are quickly called a slut if she's sexually open or active.

I've found men to be more perverted and kinky. Not that women aren't but maybe men express it more. Guys know they won't be labelled a slut by society so they can be more sexually open.

But then that doesn't stop me. I love being kinky and dominating men outdoors. hee hee

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RE: Why are women only perverted behind doors??? - 10/25/2008 9:09:56 PM   
Padriag


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Status: offline 		Wow... an here I thought women were only perverted behind closed doors so they could charge admission... man... them strippers been ripping me off!

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RE: Why are women only perverted behind doors??? - 10/26/2008 3:30:48 AM   
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I've found women in general to be far more curious, nasty and sexually charged then men and in an enviroment where there is no fear of her friends finding out, will gladly let it out.

The time between leaving the bar and the beginning of a one night stand is usually spent "pretending" that this just suddenly happened and she would never do this normally.


I don't think this can be accurately gauged when observing the behavior of someone who's been consuming alcohol.  (Assuming the girl was actually drinking while at the bar, of course.)


That assumption would be wrong if you think I am solely referring to women who were intoxicated, because that's only a few.

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RE: Why are women only perverted behind doors??? - 10/26/2008 3:36:21 AM   
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I've found women in general to be far more curious, nasty and sexually charged then men and in an enviroment where there is no fear of her friends finding out, will gladly let it out.

The time between leaving the bar and the beginning of a one night stand is usually spent "pretending" that this just suddenly happened and she would never do this normally.


What kind of women do you hang out with? LOL! I've nailed most of my one-night stands by not pretending I don't do that kind of thing normally. As one of my guy friends put it, "you don't hide it, but you don't flaunt it either". No complaints from the gentlemen. My friends all know I'm a kinky little slut, and we'll discuss that amongst ourselves, but I don't regale most random strangers with my exploits.

Unless, of course, I'm interested in them and the feeling is returned.



While my very honest and straightforward response may not be the PC one, it isn't necessarily a direct insult to you or your friends. Just the truth of my personal experiences.

If you don't like that answer, sorry, but most of the women I've slept with have had some issue with "guilt" in regards to just loosening up and enjoying sex.

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