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RE: guidance to a slave from experienced Masters - 10/29/2008 2:06:41 PM

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While I'm not as inclined to be as condescending as barelynangel, I do think the op is part at fault here.

stilllearning - If he means that much to you, why are you so quick to throw him away the next time you see him - and, without really communicating what's going on in your heart and mind? Does he realize that this is a large enough issue that you feel that you may need to end the relationship?

If he Knew this was a hard limit, he wouldnt have even suggested it as a punishment in my opinion. I think that (through common sense) if he felt that this were an absolute hard limit, he wouldnt have gone there. That means, he was unaware that you would feel that strongly about it. There was not enough communication here, and the blame for that is shared.

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RE: guidance to a slave from experienced Masters - 10/30/2008 11:40:23 AM

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screw him! he sounds like a total ass. if this is a limit, tell him that it is not allowed...as i have said in the past, no one is truly a "no limits slave" and him being with another woman can truly be a limit. i would kill Master if he even suggested that as a punishment.

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RE: guidance to a slave from experienced Masters - 10/30/2008 1:42:10 PM

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Issue solved...we did talk about many times before i put the post on and i just found out the final verdict of my punishment...

It will be a week of beatings every evening and something else that puts a burden on me...he is wonderful Master who respects his slave's limits and feelings...

thanks to all who posted...

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RE: guidance to a slave from experienced Masters - 10/30/2008 2:05:01 PM

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Why do I feel as though we've all been "had"?

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RE: guidance to a slave from experienced Masters - 10/30/2008 2:57:59 PM

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ORIGINAL: stilllearning98

I am posting this to gather the opinion of a Master. I am an owned slave in a 2 year LDR who has made a mistake and misunderstood a rule that was given to me by my Master. I had gone out of town to be with family and was told to keep my Master informed of what I was doing, now I have traveled in the past and only have had to ask permission and keep Master informed on my whereabouts if I left the house. So when Master told me to keep him informed, I did just that, when I left the house I asked permission before I went if I was able to go and then when given permission, I made sure to inform Master of my whereabouts when away from the home.

Once I got back in town to my own home, I was surprised to have Master tell me that I had not followed his rules and disrepected him and would be punished. Since this time, Master has banned me from leaving the house to go anywhere other than work while he coordinates my punishment. I am to update him every hour as to what I am doing when I am in the house on punishment.

My punishment will be that I will have to watch my Master be intimate with another woman. This is something that Master has promised would never happen as this is a HUGE insecurity for me as I was cheated on in my vanilla marriage and so I have huge insecurities about this.

I guess what I am asking, is this is a fair punishment that I should just suck up and accept for my wrong doing or is this the point where I have to weigh that this is deliberate meanness and something that my Master has now lied about to me as he said this would never happen.

Edited cause I just finished reading the Thread and I'm with kyra and John.

Got the feeling this is a troll thread *sighs*

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RE: guidance to a slave from experienced Masters - 10/30/2008 4:57:19 PM

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Don't know about it being a troll thread - but i think she was using this thread for affamations(?) while she was waiting to talk to her master. Sort of a way of easing anxiety. And i still think i wouldn't stay with a master that threatened to use a hard limit as a punishment. love is great - self respect is way better.

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RE: guidance to a slave from experienced Masters - 10/31/2008 7:57:24 AM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: Rover

Why do I feel as though we've all been "had"?

John

Not all.... Just you um Experienced ones that posted to this thread!

You went and posted to a thread that fed your vanity and look what happen *G*

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RE: guidance to a slave from experienced Masters - 10/31/2008 8:24:50 AM

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ORIGINAL: KnightofMists

Not all.... Just you um Experienced ones that posted to this thread!

You went and posted to a thread that fed your vanity and look what happen *G*

*LOL* Experience has nothing to do with posting. But experience should have helped recognize the difference between stupidity and outright fabrication.

And in that respect, I am guilty as charged.

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RE: guidance to a slave from experienced Masters - 10/31/2008 9:05:55 AM

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ORIGINAL: Rover
*LOL* Experience has nothing to do with posting. But experience should have helped recognize the difference between stupidity and outright fabrication.

And in that respect, I am guilty as charged.

John

mmmmmmmmmmmm why is it that I thinking your experience is going to get you a lesser sentence for the charge you are guilty of. It would seem.. the experienced ones have silver tongues.

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RE: guidance to a slave from experienced Masters - 10/31/2008 9:13:09 AM

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ORIGINAL: KnightofMists

mmmmmmmmmmmm why is it that I thinking your experience is going to get you a lesser sentence for the charge you are guilty of. It would seem.. the experienced ones have silver tongues.

I'm wasn't aware that I was up on charges. :)

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