NuevaVida
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ORIGINAL: sambamanslilgirl different strokes for different folks, Vida. Of course, sambamslilgirl, And I wasn't knocking those who don't like the idea - I just found it interesting that people assumed at the get-go that it was being used because of trust and insecurity issues. My former Master, for example, didn't have the time to track my every movement, but he liked that I knew he could and would, if he felt like it. It was a mental thing for us. I told him where I was all the time, anyway. But part of our dynamic was for me to feel absolute power over me - that gave me a rush. And he enjoyed providing me that rush. That had nothing to do with trust and security, and everything to do with the way we enjoyed interacting. I can understand your feeling that if the device were used on you, you would feel he didn't trust you, but as you said - different strokes - and a blanket statement telling someone if they want/need this on their slave, "there's no trust involved in the relationship" is placing a false description of other people's relationships. That's the only part of what you said that I'd disagree with. I don't know the level of trust in your relationship, just as you don't know mine, and so on.
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