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RE: Rorschach, Word Association and BDSM - 11/1/2008 3:59:08 PM

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ORIGINAL: JustDarkness

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so...what can we do with what we did ?

Good question ... I don't know, lets see what comes of it ... but does there really have to be a reason?

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RE: Rorschach and BDSM - 11/1/2008 4:01:39 PM

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ORIGINAL: everhope

a few months back, i started to be able to make myself squirt via masturbation. i was amazed the first time it happen (still am actually) and was so intrigued by the patterns my squirting left on the sheets. the first one was an exact replica of the rock formations in Cabo San Lucas (the arches ..i think they call them) with a bird in full flight above them. ResidentSadistSir nicked them my Rorschach blots...not that this had anything to do with your thread, but
so ummm...here's my answers to your questions.

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ORIGINAL: theobserver

.1. Bondage
captive

3. Slave
selfless

4. Flog
ahhhhh if thuddy
    ow ow if stingy

5. Dominant
focused control

6. Knees
home

. Limits
trust

8. Security
  a sense of feeling safe physicallly and emotionally

9. Trust
     love

10. Confidence
    comfortable with ones power

11. Submission
    joy

12. Satisfaction
    helping even in the smallest of ways.

13. Fulfillment
  when i am allowed to serve and when my heart touches anothers heart.

14. Respect
stands behind their words through actions

15. curiosity
always

16. Bind
rope and intimacy

17. Intelligence
    stimulating

18. Society
    roles and rules

19. Fringe
   the 60's.

20. Normal
    what is this?

No, please, thanks for sharing, that's interesting. To be honest, I am reading through the responses and I see some similar themes. I also see (and this is only my opinion) that people take on the challenge in different ways. I'm not a psychologist, by any means, but it seems like some have taken a more outward approach in word association while others are taking a inward approach.

Does that make sense?

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RE: Rorschach and BDSM - 11/1/2008 4:04:13 PM

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ORIGINAL: BLGirl

Um, Rorschach is actually an inkblot test, but I love the idea of word association, so here goes.

1. Bondage = hogtied
2. What happened to number two?
3. Slave = Charleton Heston (sorry, Planet of the Apes fetish)
4. Flog = please
5. Dominant = nope (only in the real world, never at home)
6. Knees = sore
7. Limits = Sammy Hagar (can't drive 55)
8. Security = handcuffs
9. Trust = love
10. Confidence = power
11. Submission = freedom
12. Satisfaction = floating
13. Fulfillment = happiness
14. Respect = honor
15. Curiosity = kittycat
16. Bind = collar
17. Intelligence = conversation
18. Society = everyone else
19. Fringe = edge of jeans
20. Normal = fantasy

There, honestly...

Fuck I just noticed that! Let's pretend I intended to do that. *whistles and walks away*

Okay I thought about it, number 2. Collar Me

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RE: Rorschach, Word Association and BDSM - 11/1/2008 4:05:45 PM

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at OP

so...what can we do with what we did ?

Good question ... I don't know, lets see what comes of it ... but does there really have to be a reason?

well..normally I don;t fill in lists.
I hoped for a learning moment grin

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RE: Rorschach, Word Association and BDSM - 11/1/2008 4:08:38 PM

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ORIGINAL: JustDarkness

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at OP

so...what can we do with what we did ?

Good question ... I don't know, lets see what comes of it ... but does there really have to be a reason?

well..normally I don;t fill in lists.
I hoped for a learning moment grin

Everything can be considered a learning moment, don't you think? Even trivial things that seem inconsequential. I guess it's all about how you look at it. What do you see, when you read the responses?

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RE: Rorschach, Word Association and BDSM - 11/1/2008 4:11:37 PM

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Everything can be considered a learning moment, don't you think? Even trivial things that seem inconsequential. I guess it's all about how you look at it. What do you see, when you read the responses?

hé don't trick me in answering my own question. ;)

I didn't compare them yet. I was mostly thinking what you tried to accomplish.
It is already midnight here...I will compare tomorrow. TO tired now.
So what were you thinking about when posting this..what goal?

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RE: Rorschach and BDSM - 11/1/2008 4:14:03 PM

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This is Darcy

Here are my answers.....

1. Bondage
Ropes, handcuffs and silk scarves

3. Slave
A willing prisoner of wills

4. Flog
Cat o'nine tails

5. Dominant
One who wields power and authority

6. Knees
Scabs and bruises

7. Limits
The point at which it becomes unacceptable

8. Security
Keeping 'them' out

9. Trust
The basis of a relationship - without it, there is no relationship

10. Confidence
Being comfortable in my skin

11. Submission
what the.dark. does for me

12. Satisfaction
Jagger and Richards

13. Fulfillment
Achieving my goals

14. Respect
what I desire from others, and what I give to others who have earned it from me

15. curiosity
A wonderful and dangerous thing

16. Bind
A knotted rope

17. Intelligence
Something I find intoxicating in others

18. Society
A bizarre and twisted movie

19. Fringe
Something that happens annually in Edinburgh

20. Normal
Something I am not nor desire to be

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RE: Rorschach and BDSM - 11/1/2008 4:15:49 PM

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11. Submission
what the.dark. does for me

we might need pictures and movies for a better analyzes

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RE: Rorschach, Word Association and BDSM - 11/1/2008 4:26:07 PM

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ORIGINAL: JustDarkness

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Everything can be considered a learning moment, don't you think? Even trivial things that seem inconsequential. I guess it's all about how you look at it. What do you see, when you read the responses?

hé don't trick me in answering my own question. ;)

I didn't compare them yet. I was mostly thinking what you tried to accomplish.
It is already midnight here...I will compare tomorrow. TO tired now.
So what were you thinking about when posting this..what goal?

*laughs*

I guess the goal was for one, to see if anyone would respond. Then if they did, what I would gleam from their initial responses. You know, like ... when you ask someone to answer a question right in the moment and not think too much about it, usually you get to the core truth of what they really think and feel. What is the first thing that comes to their mind?

If many people answered the same, is it because their is a general idea of what each word represents because of what they've been told at some time in their life ... or do they connect it in some other way?

In one of my other replies, I said how it was interesting that some people responded in an outward way; like they were writing a definition (I responded mainly in that way as well), then others associated the words on a personal level - like with their love, significant others or a 'feeling'.

I just like seeing how people think and if I have similar thought processes. So I had really no deeper intentions than that. Just curiosity - oops there's that word again.

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RE: Rorschach, Word Association and BDSM - 11/1/2008 4:28:51 PM

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curiosity...mmmm I have that a lot too
I am curious what word...will have the same meaning to many of us.

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RE: Rorschach and BDSM - 11/1/2008 4:39:55 PM

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1. Bondage - safe

3. Slave - his

4. Flog - yummy

5. Dominant - power

6. Knees - belonging

7. Limits - edge

8. Security - safety

9. Trust - necessary

10. Confidence - sexy

11. Submission - fulfilling

12. Satisfaction - job well done

13. Fulfillment - happy

14. Respect - mutual

15. curiosity - play

16. Bind - hold

17. Intelligence - necessary

18. Society - friends

19. Fringe - edge

20. Normal - doesn't exist

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RE: Rorschach and BDSM - 11/1/2008 5:24:52 PM

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And the purpose of this exercise? Is there a yardstick? What are you hoping to measure?

In any test, there is a definition of the test, and the parameters are given. Perhaps you have that - without, this is a meaningless exercise.

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RE: Rorschach and BDSM - 11/1/2008 5:29:04 PM

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And the purpose of this exercise? Is there a yardstick? What are you hoping to measure?

In any test, there is a definition of the test, and the parameters are given. Perhaps you have that - without, this is a meaningless exercise.

You are such a grouch.

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RE: Rorschach and BDSM - 11/1/2008 5:39:11 PM

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Here's mine

1. Bondage -- Play
3. Slave -- Property
4. Flog -- Tits
5. Dominant -- Me
6. Knees -- Pads
7. Limits -- Conditions
8. Security -- Control
9. Trust -- Predictability
10. Confidence -- Experience
11. Submission -- Surrender
12. Satisfaction -- My way
13. Fulfillment -- Inevitable
14. Respect -- Expect
15. curiosity -- Imagination
16. Bind -- Hold
17. Intelligence -- Uncommon
18. Society -- Sheep
19. Fringe -- Border
20. Normal -- Majority

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RE: Rorschach and BDSM - 11/1/2008 5:47:18 PM

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Bondage: restrained
Slave: property
Flog: beat
Dominant: strong
Knees: ouch
Limits: lines
Security: self-defense
Trust: family
Confidence: arrogance
Submission: adoring
Satisfaction: happiness
Fulfillment: goals
Respect: trust
Curiosity: living
Bind: restrain
Intelligence: wisdom
Society: people
Fringe: edge
Normal: impossible

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RE: Rorschach and BDSM - 11/1/2008 6:57:46 PM

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1. Bondage

(my answer - heavenly escapism)

3. Slave
(My answer - complete surrender)

4. Flog
(my answer -sprouting wings and fly)

5. Dominant
( my answer - dominant energy male or female a person who respects submission and has the ability to take you on an incredible journey)

6. Knees
(my answer - spacial awareness ~ special Dominant ~ long leather boots)

7. Limits
(my answer - negotiated and barriers to go beyond)

8. Security
(my answer -real time relationship with honesty)

9. Trust
(my answer - no breaches of trust and love)

10. Confidence
(my answer - self awareness and standing in one's own light)

11. Submission
(my answer - state of being)

12. Satisfaction
(my answer - when you "hear" good girl)

13. Fulfillment
(my answer - ying & yang, deep peace)

14. Respect
(my answer - is earned and not given)

15. curiosity
(my answer - curiosity kills the cat and osmosis the thirst for wanting more)

16. Bind
(my answer - rope, silk and leather)

17. Intelligence
(my answer - seeing outside of the square, not confined to a university degree and being well read)

18. Society
(my answer - the collective of communities )

19. Fringe
(my answer -festival)

20. Normal
(my answer - a standard or common template)

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RE: Rorschach and BDSM - 11/2/2008 12:21:34 AM

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01. Bondage - Powerless
02. Collar Me - Community
03. Slave - Obey/comfort/peace of mind/complete
04. Flog - Bad girl

05. Dominant - Reward/safe/control/desire/warmth/complete/peace of mind/pride (alot more words came to mind)
06. Knees - Multi purpose
07. Limits - Push
08. Security - Warmth
09. Trust - Not easy
10. Confidence - Dominant
11. Submission - My truth
12. Satisfaction -
13. Fulfillment -
14. Respect - Earned
15. curiosity - Learning
16. Bind - Restrict
17. Intelligence - Sexy when used properly
18. Society - Binding
19. Fringe - Edge
20. Normal - A false standard

I tried for several minutes on 12 and 13 and just came up blank. Most likely because, at this time, the me I'm more comfortable with isn't being fulfilled or satisfied and I have to keep shoving it down. I decided it was more honest to leave them blank then fake answers.

Disclaimer: This post was made in response to the post made by theobserver and is based on my opinion and experiences only.

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RE: Rorschach and BDSM - 11/2/2008 12:44:44 AM

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1. Bondage        – roped, chained, bound, pierced & then violently penetrated
                        -where is # 2?
3. Slave             – see ‘bondage’ above or in the alt, ‘serving tea’
4. Flog               – cot-o-9 and the scent of leather
5. Dominant       - leather vest
6. Knees            - worship
7. Limits            - safety
8. Security          - dedication
9. Trust             - family, love
10. Confidence - faith
11. Submission - surrender
12. Satisfaction - see ‘bondage’
13. Fulfillment    - duty, responsibility
14. Respect        - worship
15. curiosity       - exploration
16. Bind            - pledge
17. Intelligence - capacity & quality
18. Society         - local communities leather and otherwise
19. Fringe          - edge play
20. Normal         - …

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RE: Rorschach and BDSM - 11/2/2008 12:49:14 AM

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#2 is here

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Fuck I just noticed that! Let's pretend I intended to do that. *whistles and walks away*

Okay I thought about it, number 2. Collar Me

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RE: Rorschach and BDSM - 11/2/2008 5:33:06 AM

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ORIGINAL: theobserver

1. Bondage

(my answer - Rope)

3. Slave
(My answer - submissive)

4. Flog
(my answer - leather)

5. Dominant
( my answer - man/strength)

6. Knees
(my answer - release)

7. Limits
(my answer - stop sign)

8. Security
(my answer -trust)

9. Trust
(my answer - love)

10. Confidence
(my answer - personal acceptance)

11. Submission
(my answer - a folded flower)

12. Satisfaction
(my answer - fulfilled in the present)

13. Fulfillment
(my answer - content with circumstances, evironment and being)

14. Respect
(my answer - enough admiration to listen, acknowledge, agree with and maybe emulate.)

15. curiosity
(my answer - a thirst to know more than what we do)

16. Bind
(my answer - to be kept)

17. Intelligence
(my answer - having a curiosity for and ability to relay, knowledge)

18. Society
(my answer - the general bubble we live in)

19. Fringe
(my answer - on the edges of societal norms)

20. Normal
(my answer - what is generally considered acceptable)

1.Bondage   - tied
2.
3.Slave - contentment
4. Flog   - sell   - to flog something is to sell it in some countries
5. dominant   - assertive
6.Knees   -   mother brown- as in knees up - you didn't say it had to make a whole lot of sense.
7. Limits - stop
8. Security - safety
9 Trust   - .banks- as in , safe as
10. Confidence - courage
11.Submission - kneeling before
12. Satisfaction   - peace
13.Fufilment - contentment
14.Respect - love
15. Curiosity - killed the cat
16. Bind - truss - as a turkey - what can i say? - i'm the one that cooks the turkey
17.Intelligence - abstract thinking ability
18. Community - collection of individuals who join for safety and community
19. Fringe   - edge of society, not wholey accepted, marginalized
20Normanl - .me

edited to make easier to read and clarify some answers. its early - my tea hasn't processed yet