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sambamanslilgirl -> RE: A Silly Sir (11/5/2008 11:30:50 AM)
Daddy and i have our silly moments - He teases me about melting under the hot spotlights and i get Him back for being a reversed Oreo who digs that brown soulful sound. He still has my respect whether in a playful and/or serious mood. on the flipside, i can be silly with my pet - it's fun teasing him about flying across the US with his other "mistress" (his boss) from one construction site to the next. he recently teased me about losing my voice.

MarcEsadrian -> RE: A Silly Sir (11/5/2008 12:20:59 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: exile509 while i am a dom i tend to be on the silly side. drving in the car, out at dinner, just relaxing, i am usually the first to make a joke (or even worse, a pun.) the truth is i just like have fun and enjoy my self, i love funny and love sharing that with the person i'm with. Here's a question for you, can a Sir/Master/Owner be too silly? Does "serious" command more respect? And if you do have a silly owner, by all means share a little bit of his/her silly side with the rest of us. Interesting question. Many girls have been shocked in the past over my sense of humor, initially assuming I was a perpetually cold Lucius Malfoy type (which speaks somewhat to why they were attracted in the first place). Humor has its importance and appropriate moments, but too much of it can cheapen things and erode the authority structure between Master/Mistress and servant in its own peculiar way. As with all things, there is a time and place. That is how I see it, at least.

leadership527 -> RE: A Silly Sir (11/5/2008 1:39:44 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: exile509 Here's a question for you, can a Sir/Master/Owner be too silly? Too much of a good thing and all... of course you can be too silly, too nice, too whatever else. Being silly at inappropriate moments, like say when your girl receives the call that her mother passed away last night would definitely be "too silly". quote: Does "serious" command more respect? laughs sure, for some people. But stop and consider for a moment. Anyone who offers respect based upon a surface demeanor ... well... I would say that their respect was worth about as much as what engendered it, which is to say "nothing".

AquaticSub -> RE: A Silly Sir (11/5/2008 1:42:27 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Twicehappy2x quote: ORIGINAL: exile509 Here's a question for you, can a Sir/Master/Owner be too silly? Does "serious" command more respect? You should be here on movie night when in between movies Jewel sings the intermission song "Let's go out to the lobby" while Scooter does the dancing hot dog. I do not think i could respect somebody who was not able to laugh and joke. LOL - That is fantastic!

Symbiosis -> RE: A Silly Sir (11/5/2008 2:14:06 PM)
Who would we be and what would our relationships be like if we spent our time in fear of humour and fun? There is a time a place for levity and humour, this is undeniable. But should we not share such a deep belief and understanding of one another that to see our significant other regaling in happiness fills us with joy? There should be laughter in the rain and giggling beneath the sheets. There should be personal jokes and smiling at the antics. There should be fun and joy. Free and uninhibited. As unbridled as the love that binds us together and as fierce as the passion we share. And we should understand one another completely enough to accept our oh so human emotions... This we should embrace as we embrace the understanding that is passed between with nothing more than a look that tells us that now we are what we are and each to their place and standing. Was that too poetic? [:)]

windchymes -> RE: A Silly Sir (11/5/2008 3:40:52 PM)
It's only too silly if your definition of "silly" means making noises with body parts and lighting farts. [8\|]

oceanwynds -> RE: A Silly Sir (11/5/2008 3:49:32 PM)
Sir can be very silly and it is always a nice welcome to see that part of him.

LuckyAlbatross -> RE: A Silly Sir (11/5/2008 4:57:00 PM)
Most chicks won't understand, most chicks will reject it, most chicks want the "low voice intense eyes that make me wet" thing. But the ones who DO get it...priceless.

CalifChick -> RE: A Silly Sir (11/5/2008 5:03:27 PM)
I used to think there was never such a thing as "too silly." Then I got married. He was king of trying to be funny at inappropriate times. We would take the little one to the doctor, and he would joke so much, that doc would get sidetracked and the important stuff wouldn't get addressed. It was such an issue that I had it written into the court documents in the divorce that if he accompanies us on a medical visit, his conversation is restricted to the medical issues at hand. Who would think you would ever have to put that sort of crap in writing???? Cali

Huntertn -> RE: A Silly Sir (11/5/2008 5:33:58 PM)
who said it.."To laugh is to live"...

velvetslave -> RE: A Silly Sir (11/5/2008 7:52:11 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: exile509 Here's a question for you, can a Sir/Master/Owner be too silly? Does "serious" command more respect? And if you do have a silly owner, by all means share a little bit of his/her silly side with the rest of us. As others have said, there is a time for serious and a time for silly or playful. Even in His most playful and silly moods He has my total respect. In some ways i think i respect Him more because He is comfortable enough with who He is and can be both ways. We are constantly being silly and playful with each other. One of us will walk past the other and stick our tongues out. We tease each other all the time. But through it all, He is my Master. i wouldn't have it any other way. Just my opinion, velvetslave

VivaciousSub -> RE: A Silly Sir (11/5/2008 8:28:03 PM)
Bring on the silly! One of my favorite pictures of late happens to be of Sir and me...we're at a friend's party and we're both wearing these ridiculous giant balloon hats. Why? Cause they were fun! We go out to dinner and get the giggles over the most inane things, because we're giant dorks. We love it! He's serious when he needs to be, but other than that? Humor is one of the main things I love in life and I couldn't be with a partner that couldn't laugh with me. Or in some cases, at me.

exile509 -> RE: A Silly Sir (11/5/2008 9:55:29 PM)
quote: silly at inappropriate moments, like say when your girl receives the call that her mother passed away last night would definitely be "too silly". now, what if i say "well, that explains why she didn't kiss me goodnight..." too much?

exile509 -> RE: A Silly Sir (11/5/2008 10:01:09 PM)
quote: at a friend's party and we're both wearing these ridiculous giant balloon hats. Why? Cause they were fun! i so want what you guys have, keep it up!

monywildcat -> RE: A Silly Sir (11/5/2008 10:29:15 PM)
Daddy is silly as all hell. He farts real loud, he bounces on the bed, he tickles me until I am about to pee. (feel free to check out my response on the watersports thread for my thoughts on that whole thing lol) He also was able to hug and cuddle me during my mom's funeral. There is a time or place. Daddy makes the most of the proper place. I love it. The x was way too serious. No whooping and hollering at stranger's birthdays at Chilis, no karaoke at the bar, no tickles. That was sad.

Dnomyar -> RE: A Silly Sir (11/6/2008 7:52:29 AM)
The forums are no place to act silly. The people here are asking serious questions and want serious answers. There should be no sarcasm either.

silkenfire -> RE: A Silly Sir (11/6/2008 8:00:30 AM)
~Fast Reply~ Seriously ((haha I said seriously in a silly thread)) though, it's no different than vanilla dating. Some girls are annoyed by silliness and just want a mature serious man. Some want the playful relationship that while serious can have awesome silly/lighthearted parts. It's a personal thing and I don't think the masterliness shoudl be an issue. Personally, I'm one that builds a relationship first and is in a M/s relationship second. It takes two...

celticlord2112 -> RE: A Silly Sir (11/6/2008 11:34:12 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Dnomyar The forums are no place to act silly. The people here are asking serious questions and want serious answers. There should be no sarcasm either. What if it's not an act?

Twicehappy2x -> RE: A Silly Sir (11/6/2008 6:00:04 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Dnomyar The forums are no place to act silly. The people here are asking serious questions and want serious answers. There should be no sarcasm either. No more dancing bananas? Or hotdogs? That is wrong in so many ways!

AquaticSub -> RE: A Silly Sir (11/6/2008 6:08:31 PM)
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