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RE: second slaves - 11/7/2008 8:31:00 PM   
mc1234


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ORIGINAL: Twicehappy2x

 
OK, so curiosity killed the cat, but....
 
I have to ask, am i the only poster who disagreed with the OP who got a cmail from (supposedly) her Master MrTrouble?


I didn't get one ...

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RE: second slaves - 11/7/2008 8:52:03 PM   
YourhandMyAss


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quote:

ORIGINAL: Twicehappy2x

 
OK, so curiosity killed the cat, but....
 
I have to ask, am i the only poster who disagreed with the OP who got a cmail from (supposedly) her Master MrTrouble?
 
Or did some of you who disagreed also get the name calling hate mail demanding to speak with your Master?
 


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RE: second slaves - 11/7/2008 9:06:21 PM   
sambamanslilgirl


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Status: offline 		nope i didn't receive anything from op's "master" however like you, i don't take kindly to threats/demands for apologies or to speak to Daddy.  if you have something to say, then you directly deal with me.

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  If you make a post on a public forum board or keep a public journal, people are going to read them. You have to expect to get other folks opinions, good bad or indifferent. If this is going to be an issue for you then perhaps you should not post these things publicly.


i agree - not everyone is going to share the same opinion or pov that you do.



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RE: second slaves - 11/7/2008 10:23:35 PM   
allthatjaz


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ORIGINAL: sambamanslilgirl

to be honest, i wouldn't like being the 2nd submissive in an already established D/s relationship.  i'm the jealous type ...someone who still hasn't learned how to share. i prefer being the only submissive in the relationship.

Daddy talked about having a sister submissive joining us before however i told Him i didn't like the idea. i enjoy the closeness our little family has ...adding another person will certainly complicate things.



I am presently in a poly relationship.. there are three of us and I have been in poly relationships in the past. You used the word jealousy and that is the one emotion that will kill 'poly' stone dead.

You both have to want a third person and not just go along with your partner to please him. You (as a woman) have to fancy that third person and more importantly she has to fancy you, perhaps more than she does him. You have to know you have his head and be secure knowing that he is not about to run off with that third person or have some secret liaison. You all have to know your position within the group and you all have to be totally open in your talk and emotions.

It can work but not often. When it does its awesome

Edited to say

It was me that wanted a second fem and to begin with it was him that had serious doubts about it working.


< Message edited by allthatjaz -- 11/7/2008 10:31:20 PM >

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RE: second slaves - 11/8/2008 7:31:46 AM   
sambamanslilgirl


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Status: offline 		you're responding as if we're still looking for a 3rd.

we're not.

my jealousy stems from being an only child (spoiled rotten) most of my life (i didn't have younger sibs until my teens) and Daddy completely understands that. i've always wanted a sister however now looking back on my childhood, i'm extremely happy i had only brothers.

i know myself very well and can honestly say sharing Daddy with anyone else is definitely not in the cards. i'm quite secured in my place with Him knowing that He's never going to run off with the 3rd if we were looking. He didn't take my feelings for granted as i told Him why it would be a very bad idea. both of us really didnt want a 3rd even though He made the suggestion.

i'm happy it's so awesome and working for you ...it would never work for us.

< Message edited by sambamanslilgirl -- 11/8/2008 7:32:57 AM >

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RE: second slaves - 11/8/2008 8:26:49 AM   
lilmisssubmiss


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Status: offline 		lol i just can't do that
i think a relationship should be just between two people if there is more it's uncomfortable and i think tacky...again thats just me.

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RE: second slaves - 11/8/2008 8:29:27 AM   
LaTigresse


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Status: offline 		Tacky?

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RE: second slaves - 11/8/2008 8:37:16 AM   
allthatjaz


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quote:

ORIGINAL: sambamanslilgirl

you're responding as if we're still looking for a 3rd.

we're not.

.


Not at all but that is how you read it. I picked up on the word 'jealousy' because of the negative connotations it has within a polly household. I was not talking directly to you but to the forums so forgive me if I used the word you used, it was not directed to you personally.


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RE: second slaves - 11/8/2008 8:43:03 AM   
allthatjaz


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ORIGINAL: lilmisssubmiss

lol i just can't do that
i think a relationship should be just between two people if there is more it's uncomfortable and i think tacky...again thats just me.


Then this shows your intolerance towards others.

If your uncomfortable with it then don't do it but live and let live because most of what you and I and everyone else do within this lifestyle would be madness, perverted, distasteful and abhorrent to the vanilla kingdom. We have to accept they would look at us this way because of there lack of understanding (ignorance) but then they are vanilla aren't they?

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RE: second slaves - 11/8/2008 11:33:48 AM   
ShiftedJewel


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ORIGINAL: LaTigresse

Tacky?


We're not tacky!
 
Are we?
 
Well, maybe sometimes, but I think that has more to do with the biker thing then the poly thing.
 
Wow... that's a first for me. I've been called a lot of things but that isn't one of them.
 
Jewel

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RE: second slaves - 11/8/2008 11:37:32 AM   
Twicehappy2x


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quote:

ORIGINAL: LaTigresse

Tacky?


OK, sometimes we are tacky but i think that has more to do with our sense of humor. Or maybe Scooter's taste in our clothes(not everybody enjoys grandmas in see through tee shirts).

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RE: second slaves - 11/8/2008 11:43:11 AM   
stef


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ORIGINAL: LaTigresse

Tacky?

Kids these days.  At least she didn't say "ewww, that's icky!"

~stef


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RE: second slaves - 11/8/2008 5:08:01 PM   
LaTigresse


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Status: offline 		Thank you for the laughs ladies. I was thinking the same sorts of things.

Stef, some people really are like Slinkies.

Of all the things, I never thought my being open to the idea of more than one slave, made me tacky. Greedy maybe.....

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RE: second slaves - 11/8/2008 5:55:58 PM   
KatyLied


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Status: offline 		Tacky?  That is a first.  I don't get poly and doubt I could ever do it happily, but I can appreciate the fact that some people enjoy liking/loving many at the same time.

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RE: second slaves - 11/8/2008 6:07:23 PM   
LaTigresse


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Status: offline 		Maybe she really meant tacky as in sticky. Those pesky slave sticking to their dominants like flies to fly paper.

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