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RE: Vibrator + clitoris = AAAAGGGGHHHHH!!!! - 11/5/2008 1:52:27 PM   
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So everyones pointed out the pain of direct stimulation which is very real there is also the fact that direct/too intense clitirol contact can numb it and the area for extended periods making clitoral orgasaming impossible

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RE: Vibrator + clitoris = AAAAGGGGHHHHH!!!! - 11/5/2008 2:00:47 PM   
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Yeh i find i go numb really quickly!

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RE: Vibrator + clitoris = AAAAGGGGHHHHH!!!! - 11/5/2008 2:04:40 PM   
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I think you have gotten some really good advice here, all of it true, or consistent with my experiences anyway. Bottom line, any kind of direct stimulation of this kind on a clitoris is not often a positive experience, and more likely than not, an extremely mindnumbing and painful one. If you are wanting to torture her, then hell yeah, leave it one there for a minute, hell leave it for two. But if you care for her and want any type of love from her in return, I would advise agaist it. If she is honest with you about everything else, then believe her when she says that it is too much.

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RE: Vibrator + clitoris = AAAAGGGGHHHHH!!!! - 11/5/2008 2:12:59 PM   
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Ive pulled the plug out of the wall with my feet when its gotton to the point of over stimulation, the hitachi is great, the eroscillator is great but if she is  over stimulated use a barrier or move away from the clit tip. I can get pretty peeved  and I like a LOT of rough, I cannot imagine if I was over sensitive. I would probably end up hurting  him, and or losing the mood for a few days.That just makes me grumpier.
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RE: Vibrator + clitoris = AAAAGGGGHHHHH!!!! - 11/5/2008 2:33:17 PM   
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We have a Hitachi wand, and it works pretty well on my slave.  A little too well sometimes, I think.  If I get it on her clitoris, she totally freaks out, and begs me to stop... which of course eggs me on like crazy. She claims it's way too intense and that she could never possibly orgasm.  But I've never held it there for long at all...maybe 10 seconds at the most? 

So do you suppose if I were to hold it there for, say, 60 seconds...would she have an awesome orgasm?  Or a heart attack?  It's really hard for me to tell...

Edit: Keep in mind, this is generally done when she is not in a position to MAKE me stop...



The Hitachi Magic Wand is one of the best vibrators ever. If you hold it there for 60 seconds, from my experience, she'll probably have an intense orgasm but will be able to go in again, shortly after.

It's great!


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RE: Vibrator + clitoris = AAAAGGGGHHHHH!!!! - 11/5/2008 2:46:17 PM   
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not sure what I am supposed to do here, applaud, slap you on the back, give advice? I mean this one is lost on Me.

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RE: Vibrator + clitoris = AAAAGGGGHHHHH!!!! - 11/5/2008 3:16:03 PM   
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60 seconds?  Er.  No.
It wouldn't make me orgasm.  It would make me swear and fucking lot, but not an awesome orgasm.  And even when I do from such usage, the orgasm is pretty sucky.  For a torture toy it rocks, but for orgasm?  Not in that way.
 
Some people just can't take it there.  And misst, seriously - it could cause damage and ruin her normal future orgasms.  The hitatchi isn't an easy stimulator when not used with sense.
 
OP, have you tried it on yourself?  Try it on a hard and sensitive tip and hold it there without removing.  If you don;t ave a sensitive penis tip, of course this isn;t going to be a good guide, but if you do - I promise you - you will find out just how numb you get.
 
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RE: Vibrator + clitoris = AAAAGGGGHHHHH!!!! - 11/5/2008 3:16:28 PM   
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alot of direct stimulation to the clitoris can be uncomfortable because it's TOO MUCH sensation

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RE: Vibrator + clitoris = AAAAGGGGHHHHH!!!! - 11/5/2008 3:35:37 PM   
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A lot of men seem to think more is better when it comes to clitoral stimulation.  It's just not.  A Hitachi can be anything from going numb to agonizing, and not agonizing in a good way.  I was also going to give the male analogy of intense stimulation on the head of the cock right after his orgasm.  You don't like it, and neither do we. 

What you might try is holding the want down near her vagina and slowly moving it up towards her clit, but stopping just BELOW it.  Please don't ever just hold it directly on her clit and just leave it there.  Move it around.  Work her up to it, don't just apply the wand and expect a show.



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RE: Vibrator + clitoris = AAAAGGGGHHHHH!!!! - 11/5/2008 3:45:30 PM   
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My experience with it was awful.  I had an orgasm but it was not a good feeling, in fact, I felt violated.  Then I got angry.  Go ahead if you want to fuck up a good thing. 

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RE: Vibrator + clitoris = AAAAGGGGHHHHH!!!! - 11/5/2008 3:48:35 PM   
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I think the Hitachi has got some bad press here.

I think good orgasms can be achieved with it, if used correctly

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RE: Vibrator + clitoris = AAAAGGGGHHHHH!!!! - 11/5/2008 3:51:37 PM   
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I think the Hitachi has got some bad press here.

I think good orgasms can be achieved with it, if used correctly


 
Since a lot of people buy them, I assume they are wonderful for some—just not for me! 


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RE: Vibrator + clitoris = AAAAGGGGHHHHH!!!! - 11/5/2008 3:53:54 PM   
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Id like to point out that the wand wasnt actually initially designed as a vibrator, its a massager, the reason its praised so much is that it is a lot stronger than a normal vibe because that wasnt its purpose.

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RE: Vibrator + clitoris = AAAAGGGGHHHHH!!!! - 11/5/2008 3:54:10 PM   
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Yeah everyone is different.

It was very intense at first, god i remember lying on my bed and screaming lol a good intense though, like i actually cant think after ive come with it. I think it might be similar to when a man has an orgasm..if that is possible for a woman!

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RE: Vibrator + clitoris = AAAAGGGGHHHHH!!!! - 11/5/2008 3:54:19 PM   
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There are goods and bad points with every vibe.... hitachi is so strong, and we all have different sensations and variations of comfort. its all personal experience and preference:) no wrong or right answer. There are so many to chose from, even tiny bullets now have a lot of power, run on watch batteries and still give me a feeling of two legs up (like a thumbs up but kinky). I have different toys for different times of the month, and moods. expecting everyone to like the same thing is fateful.
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RE: Vibrator + clitoris = AAAAGGGGHHHHH!!!! - 11/5/2008 4:00:13 PM   
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I know that it is a massager...

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RE: Vibrator + clitoris = AAAAGGGGHHHHH!!!! - 11/5/2008 4:01:33 PM   
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It wasnt directed at you Teensub just a general post, sorry

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RE: Vibrator + clitoris = AAAAGGGGHHHHH!!!! - 11/5/2008 4:11:28 PM   
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I have one and it's too intense for cliit stimulation... at least that's my opinion. Well, it stimulates me but not in a way that is going to make me have an orgasm.


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RE: Vibrator + clitoris = AAAAGGGGHHHHH!!!! - 11/5/2008 4:19:54 PM   
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if you use a hitachi on the clit, fine...just draw it out a little as you get aroused, pull it from direct contact until there is barely any sensation, then a little more.. make your clit reach for it.  uh huh....

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RE: Vibrator + clitoris = AAAAGGGGHHHHH!!!! - 11/5/2008 4:34:20 PM   
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My Sir uses it after he has beaten me with a cane, and i am a bit floaty- then beats me while it is on my clit. I can orgasm really quickly, then buck and scream until he takes it off. On the occasion he leaves it there, and orders me to have another orgasm, i can come really quickly - out of self defense i think - lol.  And then it has to go a way or i'll be crawling through the wall to get away from it.

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