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CintiSubGuy1 -> panty washers? (11/5/2008 4:32:32 PM)

Let me preface this question with the following disclaimer : this is not a "wanker" question.  Ok here goes:

In real life do Mistresses enjoy having their slaves/subs hand wash their lingiere more so than just doing the normal laundry?  I've read about it online but don't know if many dominant ladies enjoy the submissive nature seeing the hand washing their dirty undies in front of them or whether these posts are from guys who relish the thought of being asked to do it.  I guess the same type of question exists for "toilet slavery".  I've see mention of slave positions on the "owk" website (is this place for real?) and they advertise bathroom slave positions.  Not sure what the duties include but I assume being used in whatever capacity the dominant ladies see fit.

Thoughts?




Shawn1066 -> RE: panty washers? (11/5/2008 4:51:21 PM)

My Owner and I do our laundry together and we just use the washing machine.

DV's Fox




thishereboi -> RE: panty washers? (11/5/2008 5:22:41 PM)

My Mistress never watched me do the laundry, so no she wouldn't care one way or another. As long as they came out clean, she was happy.

For myself if I had a sub to do my laundry, I also wouldn't want to sit around and watch her do laundry. The washing machine does a fine job and that's all I care about.




iwearpanties -> RE: panty washers? (11/5/2008 5:44:16 PM)

same here i also do the laundryand use a washing machine  but i have a few time don hand washing of pantuies but not because she watched or made  me. they were  just some very delagete silkys




UmbraDomina -> RE: panty washers? (11/5/2008 8:12:15 PM)

sorry, I too fall into the "modern age" I guess.... all my undies go in the hamper, occasionally I do let my beloved slave sniff them and pleasure himself before tossing them in..... then they are off to a fun filled tumble in the maytag, followed by a fluff in the dryer. I have found that between my beloved slave working 10 hours a day, me working 8-9 hours a day 5-6 days a week, normal life things like family, friends, eating, showering, taking a walk, maybe even throwing in a hour for play or sex... doesn't leave a whole lot of time for hand washing undies.




MsStarlett -> RE: panty washers? (11/6/2008 3:50:56 AM)

The only hand washing my undies ever get is to remove those inevitable 'oopsy' blood stains.  If you want to do that, feel free to come by some time next week.... or maybe the week after...




CatdeMedici -> RE: panty washers? (11/6/2008 4:38:44 AM)

No. Yeah, there are guys who relish that task, pfffttt for the smell until they get a pair a tad too bloody or with a tire streak--then they run for the hills----once the fantasy gets peeled away, that kind of slave/sub is very very rare.




Roksana -> RE: panty washers? (11/7/2008 10:35:19 AM)

all of my bra, panties, bikini, thongs, stockings, pantyhose, babydolls always handwash to have long and good condition. but I never did that :)




RumpusParable -> RE: panty washers? (11/7/2008 2:38:36 PM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: CintiSubGuy1

Let me preface this question with the following disclaimer : this is not a "wanker" question.  Ok here goes:

In real life do Mistresses enjoy having their slaves/subs hand wash their lingiere more so than just doing the normal laundry?  I've read about it online but don't know if many dominant ladies enjoy the submissive nature seeing the hand washing their dirty undies in front of them or whether these posts are from guys who relish the thought of being asked to do it.  I guess the same type of question exists for "toilet slavery".  I've see mention of slave positions on the "owk" website (is this place for real?) and they advertise bathroom slave positions.  Not sure what the duties include but I assume being used in whatever capacity the dominant ladies see fit.

Thoughts?


I don't get any special zing from it above the normal happiness of watching domestic work like laundry...  It's a task that can be assigned, but isn't anything above other things for me.




GoddessDustyGold -> RE: panty washers? (11/7/2008 3:53:40 PM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: CintiSubGuy1

Let me preface this question with the following disclaimer : this is not a "wanker" question.  Ok here goes:


Truly?

quote:

In real life do Mistresses enjoy having their slaves/subs hand wash their lingiere more so than just doing the normal laundry?  I've read about it online but don't know if many dominant ladies enjoy the submissive nature seeing the hand washing their dirty undies in front of them or whether these posts are from guys who relish the thought of being asked to do it. 


Not this one...And yes, it is the boys who are creating the fantasy.  All the Ladies I know just want their laundy (and that includes the dainties) laundered correctly and put away properly.  There is no thrill for Me and Mine to watch the process.

quote:

 I guess the same type of question exists for "toilet slavery".  I've see mention of slave positions on the "owk" website (is this place for real?) and they advertise bathroom slave positions.  Not sure what the duties include but I assume being used in whatever capacity the dominant ladies see fit.


Yes, the OWK exists.  It is a professional place in Eastern Europe where one can pay to be "trained"...(that so cracks Me up!) and toilet slavery, I am sure is a part of that.  I do get annoyed when boys approach Me with the offer to do this for Me.  As if that is the thing that will tip Me in their favor. 
The best story I ever heard about toilet slavery is as follows:
A boy was not acting appropriately at a private party.  So he was place on toilet duty.  That meant he had to stand guard outside the bathroom door and make sure that the room was ready for the next person going in.  Wiping up the sink, making sure fresh towels were available, checking the paper supplies and making sure the seat was replaced in the proper position each time a male used the room. 
Now that's the kind of "toilet slavery" I can get behind.   
 
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Thoughts?


I am glad to see that you are now prefacing yoru threads with a disclaimer.  Your batting record screams "wanker". 




MistressFaye1 -> RE: panty washers? (11/7/2008 5:54:38 PM)

I don't even like my guys folding my undies!  So when the laundry is done, which for the most part we do together, he knows to take all the undies and just give them to me or put them in another basket for me to fold later.

Hey!  Don't laugh we all have our pet peeves...  lol




PeonForHer -> RE: panty washers? (11/7/2008 6:02:15 PM)

You fold your undies, Ms F? 

That's perverted!  I would never do such a thing.  There are limits . . . .




MistressFaye1 -> RE: panty washers? (11/7/2008 6:16:42 PM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: PeonForHer

You fold your undies, Ms F? 

That's perverted!  I would never do such a thing.  There are limits . . . .


LOL... yes I do and to top that off, I still fold them like I had to in the Army.  Crotch folded towards the middle and then you fold each side over that.  They have to be stacked nice and neat.  LOL, I shit you not!

Ms. Faye




Venatrix -> RE: panty washers? (11/7/2008 8:40:57 PM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: MistressFaye1

I still fold them like I had to in the Army.  Crotch folded towards the middle and then you fold each side over that.  They have to be stacked nice and neat.  LOL, I shit you not!

Ms. Faye


I fold mine with the sides to the back, then fold in half.  Then they are stacked horizontally in narrow plastic drawer organisers.  That way, I can pull out one at a time without disturbing the others.  PforH obviously hasn't been getting out much lately.




YourhandMyAss -> RE: panty washers? (11/7/2008 8:46:27 PM)

I have actually heard from a few people that drying your undies and bra's in the dryer is extreamly bad for the shelf life of your undies because it weakens the elastic in them.

I personally never dry any of my clothing in the dryer if it can be helped and you can tell the diffrence in my clothing, than in DAddies who does use the dryer. His look all old and pilly and stuff, when in reality the jammies are only 2 months old, and my 4 year old clothing looks brand new.

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ORIGINAL: UmbraDomina

followed by a fluff in the dryer.




DominaSusan -> RE: panty washers? (11/7/2008 9:09:44 PM)

Oh hell no, they are way too expensive to trust him with that!




PeonForHer -> RE: panty washers? (11/8/2008 2:42:45 AM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: Venatrix

quote:

ORIGINAL: MistressFaye1

I still fold them like I had to in the Army.  Crotch folded towards the middle and then you fold each side over that.  They have to be stacked nice and neat.  LOL, I shit you not!

Ms. Faye


I fold mine with the sides to the back, then fold in half.  Then they are stacked horizontally in narrow plastic drawer organisers.  That way, I can pull out one at a time without disturbing the others.  PforH obviously hasn't been getting out much lately.



I can't understand why there'd ever be a need to fold undies, V.

Or wash them, for that matter.  Me, I just spray mine with deodorant every couple of weeks and they're good as new.  When they get too stiff and bits start breaking off, I just throw them away and buy another pair.  Sorted.




LadyConstanze -> RE: panty washers? (11/8/2008 4:05:16 AM)

In real life, who has time to hand wash lingerie? And would I have the time to watch? NO! If I do have to supervise somebody doing something, then I'm spending time I could spend on something else, doesn't make a lot of sense.




MsStarlett -> RE: panty washers? (11/8/2008 4:58:40 AM)

If I were to have a house boy... which I'm not sure these people actually exist.  Perhaps they are like unicorns or Twue FemDoms... 

Oh!  I digress...

I would want my house boy to do things for me so I could have more free time to do the things that I want or need to do that only I can.  So heck no!  I wouldn't WATCH them do it.  I work long hours including 1/2 days on Saturday.  The whole point would be for them to get things done while I'm at work so that when I got home, I could go do something fun!  Like beat my boy! 




LadyConstanze -> RE: panty washers? (11/8/2008 5:07:34 AM)

Exactly but the majority who seem to be interested in that are the ones who want to be supervised all the time, or they do things wrong or break stuff "by mistake" so they get punished. I don't get that, if somebody wants pain, just ask for it, by breaking things and such they'd just piss me off and I'd send them away. It's not really rocket science




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