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RE: MASTERS KEEPS TABS ON SLAVE? - 11/20/2008 5:45:03 AM

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the only people who ever kept tabs on me during a relationship are the ones who were fucking around behind my back and were afraid i was going to do the same thing.

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RE: MASTERS KEEPS TABS ON SLAVE? - 11/25/2008 9:46:03 AM

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I would have to say for me, any checking up I would do wouldn't be due to a lack of trust, but knowing it pleases my slave to know that I am happy with her. This action would also give her the added drive to bring honor to me. How awesome it is to not only know, but to have it confirmed with other doms I trust, that my slave is a good and honorable slave. I would certainly want to reward her for being a shining example in my absence. This action of checking up would also afford me the ability to address any issues that my slave may not see as important or what not...

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RE: MASTERS KEEPS TABS ON SLAVE? - 11/25/2008 7:53:59 PM

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ORIGINAL: AquaticSub

Does the practice exist? I'm sure it does. And while I would probably agree that it could very likely be a red flag of trust issues, I have also seen subs/slaves on the forums talk about being tracked (knowingly) as very exciting. It could be a mutually fulfilling kink or it could be an insecurity. If it's happening your relationship, you'll have to decide which it feels to you.

My thoughts exactly.

As an unannounced practice, unless there is an explanation that ties it into previously expressed preferences, then I would consider anything beyond mere possessiveness to be a real warning sign. If coupled with emotional instability or attempts at isolation, it is a potential danger sign. But it is rare to see it go beyond possessiveness, which is a trait that seems to be present in most men to some degree (hunt, conquer, possess; it's an instinct).

But when agreed upon, it can add excitement, ranging from a playful game between the two ("this time, he won't find out, hah!"), via an exciting sense of continuous presence and control, to outright paranoid thrills. A tracking collar can be valuable the instant someone is lost, injured or kidnapped, so a few of the available measures are actually beneficial in themselves. Besides, a lot of submissives feel safe when they feel possessed and/or controlled at all times, and many feel safer in bondage than without. It is certainly possible to structure such a practice to serve as an extended leash, a continuous form of bondage, or even a cage, depending on what works for the couple in question.

If more people were actually interested in it, I could make a career out of creating hi-tech toys, so I think it's a great idea.

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RE: MASTERS KEEPS TABS ON SLAVE? - 11/29/2008 5:11:42 AM

WarKirby

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ORIGINAL: tweedydaddy

Having a good, solid, dependable friend of a dominant nature look in on your subbie when you are not there is the best and most efficient manner I can possibly imagine of losing both the subbie and the good solid reliable friend.
Are you MAD? It would be like having my Dobermanns check if the roast is cool enough to carve!

He wouldn't be a good, solid, dependable friend then, would he ?

Presumably, you would send someone you know you can trust for something like this.

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RE: MASTERS KEEPS TABS ON SLAVE? - 11/29/2008 7:14:59 PM

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To answer you, yes I check up on everything wherver I am close or far. I follow through as much in my personal life as do in my business.

Trust is the basis for my style of TPE. Proof of trust doesn’t seem unreasonable by either party. If you are doing what you said you would do, then what does it matter of someone follows through to see it with their own eyes?

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