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ORIGINAL: petwolf22

windy..i went through the same thing at school (just graduated saturday)...it's not easy to be so concerned with appearance when finals hit. frankly i'd always sacrifice looks for sleep unless i knew it was especially important (like a job interview or internship).

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ORIGINAL: nephandi

Well i dont see a reason to stop the discussion like if the OP has done some fault and need to be punished by silence, aster all, we may not like his wiews but his wiews are his and he have a right to keep them, all we can do is try to give him the advice to give him a more chnce of finding a woman. Sure if he find the woman he wants that is grate, after all there are women like willing that is grate whit their looks, and that put alot of care into it, and there is nothing wrong whit that, the problem is thare is not so many of that type in this day and age and finding exactly what one wants, may be a bit hard. i may think Foxer`s wiews are shovenistic and unrealistic, but lets not flame the man shall we he has the right to an opinion.

When i first got into BDSM and before that, i did not give a rats ass aboute my apperance, as long as my clothes was clean and my hair and body clean i did not care. it was first when i begun to get interested in BDSM and especialy the fact that my Master wants to lend me out that got me into getting pretty, well actualy the Gor books got be started. But i seldom use more than 15 minutes on the bathroom in the morning, a quik wash, some bodylotion, clean clothes that fit together, hair brushed and done in a simple way, perhaps a bit of powder on my nose to hide that it ofen shines and teeth brushed, ready, and i try to set a day in the week where i have and houer and a half or somthing to just paper myself, but what pepole are doing on the bathroom for two houers very morning, now that is totaly past me.

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ORIGINAL: Foxer55

My first contact with anyone is to simply say, Hello, I found you ad and find you very attractive, etc, and I think we might be a good match, etc, see my profile and I'll be looking forward to hearing from you.

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LOL! No, PJs are not permitted. Maybe a nightgown but no clothing in the home,

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Um nightgowns ARE clothing.

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ORIGINAL: FelinePersuasion

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LOL! No, PJs are not permitted. Maybe a nightgown but no clothing in the home,

Um nightgowns ARE clothing.

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Granted, I am not a submissive lady, but I am in my mid-to late 40s (the ranges requested), and I wouldn't respond to this type of first contact, let alone to a man so much older than myself. That type of e-mail may appear to be polite enough, but it offers nothing more than a simple hello.

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ORIGINAL: nephandi

IrishMist well i am one of those that think jeans and t shirs look good, one dont need to wear dresses and frilly skirts and high heals to dress nice, jeans, a fitting t shirt and perhaps some nice eaings and you look good if you are the type that suit jeans.

some pepole suit goth, some suit the preppy lady style, some suiut laid back jans and t shirt, some suit new age and gypsy glook, some suit retro and even rennisanse whjile somone might suit the slutty whore look, some lucky few suit anything and can pick and deside what to wear then and then.

i always think it is more important pepole fit the clothes they wear than that it is matching this or that style, and part of fitting, is being comfortable.

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I may be unclear here...but isnt the purpose of an initial email to say hello?

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ORIGINAL: candystripper
Foxer has gotten more attention on this thread than he ever got sending out email. i say we stop rewarding men who come to the boards and crab about us.

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That type of e-mail may appear to be polite enough, but it offers nothing more than a simple hello.

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and I'd have to wear a skirt constantly. You want me to share all of *your* measures. Perhaps I have a few of my own. Oh, and I like to wear jeans.

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ORIGINAL: willing2serve

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That type of e-mail may appear to be polite enough, but it offers nothing more than a simple hello.

Master teaches me to keep things simple and to keep an open mind and certainly dont judge...but for the life of me, I am sitting here shaking my head. I can not find the rational in this statement....

BTs willing

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I read your profile.
What I got from it...you have an awesome life, and I'd have to wear a skirt constantly. You want me to share all of *your* measures. Perhaps I have a few of my own. Oh, and I like to wear jeans.