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ORIGINAL: Foxer55

willing,

Thanks again. And yes, there are so many women who think that just because they're women they're in demand. Not!

If you don't have any vanity or pride you'll be a slob by the time you're 50. Your teeth will look like hell, you'll look like a beached whale, and that's when the brown slacks and orthopedic shoes come in. A younger woman recently said to me her mother told her if she didn't present herself to others everyday in the best light she could she was disrespecting other people. Right on! Damn good on her mother and damn good on her! That girl's going to have a good life.

Foxer[/size]

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The Man to whom I belong has never been disappointed by my appearance or demeanor. I dress to fit my personality which includes dresses and skirts most of the time. There are other types of dress that I do for Him but they are a joy to do. I love high heels even though I'm 5'10" in bare feet.

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ORIGINAL: Foxer55
The professionals who started the group have been displaced by gays, lesbians, funkers, punkers, Goreans, and just about imaginable minority possible. There are few candidates since even the originals no longer hang-out there.

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I don't meet many women who are "slobs by the time you're 50".

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ORIGINAL: willing2serve

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Around here we call it the submissive network, and it works extremely quickly.

Call me a rebel, call me what you will, call me old fashion or over the hill....

But i never listened to the advice of other submissives UNLESS it was safety issues and then I perhaps put caution to their words.

But why would you listen to negative comments from another submissive, because undoubtedly the interaction didnt work well with them, doesnt mean the same would be true with you.

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Oh, it's so terrible when those minorities move in

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A lot depends on what is being said. If it's just "he was bad" then salt as needed since one's "bad" can be another's "hot." However, when specific incidents are cited it allows the listener to evaluate if it's just a mismatch of scenes or the person being commented upon is worthy of being avoided.

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ORIGINAL: happypervert

Every once in a while I wonder if folks start threads because they have a secret kink for humiliating themselves.

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ORIGINAL: Foxer55

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Oh, it's so terrible when those minorities move in

John,

You have the political correctness flu. Just for your enlightenment, its a bit difficult to find hetero women amongst a crowd of gays and lesbians.
Foxer[/size]

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ORIGINAL: willing2serve

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A lot depends on what is being said. If it's just "he was bad" then salt as needed since one's "bad" can be another's "hot." However, when specific incidents are cited it allows the listener to evaluate if it's just a mismatch of scenes or the person being commented upon is worthy of being avoided.

Respectfully, I do understand what you are saying...but I generally have to find out for myself...hard headed or open minded?

Im one of those them there women (smile) and some can be down right catty and manipulative in their speech and thoughts...smile...ya think?

But again, the community and submissive networks are great safety factors but as a judge of a Domly Dom that, that's an iffy perception.

Again you are 100% correct when it goes to what is being said.

Even Foxer deserves to be given a chance (big smile)

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For the past 20 some years, I've been a member of several pansexual organizations and I haven't had any problems finding heterosexual women despite gays and lesbians making up a significant proportion of their membership. In fact, I met Lolita at a GMSMA class in New York. GMSMA stands for Gay Male S/M Activists.

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If you don't have any vanity or pride you'll be a slob by the time

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ORIGINAL: MissDiandSirHugh

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Hello truesub4 just get in your car and be here at 8am tomorrow and take the first right at the last set of traffic lights on the street then a left and right in London (or is that a right then a left) never mind just be here at 8

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ORIGINAL: Foxer55

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Um nightgowns ARE clothing.

I did say maybe...


no you said no clothing will be worn in the house, and nighties are clothing Wheather she maybe wearing one or may not it's still clothing


Happy perv

Every once in a while I wonder if folks start threads because they have a secret kink for humiliating themselves.


Well it might just be possible hehe

(in reply to Foxer55)

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ORIGINAL: Foxer55

In 20 years of hanging around the BDSM underground from Los Angeles to DC, via DFW and Atlanta, the only thing I've found about gays and lesbians is their increasingly being in the way. I don't have an issue with their thing but I do have an issue when they begin to impact the hetero activities - and they do. I also remember being in DFW for a while in the '90s and linking up with a PEP group. Entree to the group required a meeting at a lunch at some local resturant to get the group briefing from the PEP Domme. It was a sales pitch and I just played it along. The two group party functions I attended thereafter were flush with cross-dressing guys and transvestites to the point there were but a few hetero women. The place was so full of stink and stench from trash perfumes it could have been legitimately declared an EPA disaster area. Never wasted my time on it after that. I know heteros in the community here who are really angry about how the scene has changed. I can't say I'm angry about it but it does annoy me that I make arrangements to attend a function and, once there, find it populated with a mere handful of hetero women and most of them need a workout - after they get rid of the black make-up.

All in all I'm not much for the group thing although I've put in plenty of volunteer time. I prefer a private relationship and a few close friends to public activities. I would expect any potential partner to have the same feelings about the matter.

Foxer [/size]

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I care more about how I treat people and do I treat people kindly than if my shoes match my hair and if my hair matches my skirt.