N4SDChastity
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ORIGINAL: Eliana
I've noticed one feature of the BDSM world is older Dominants often seeking submissives or slaves who are considerably younger than them (for relationships, not just play). I've also noticed - with all respect - a lot of them seem to have been looking a very long time without apparent success. This leads me to ponder - how realistic are they being?
I love it when this topic comes up!  <---Edited to add
I did not bother reading all of the thread (but I did skim) because I am 1000% certain the responses cover the exact same gamut they always do:
Some (old guys) for it
Some (old guys) agin
Some (young babes) for it
Some (young babes) agin
Some (old babes) for it
Some (old babes) agin
Some (young guys) for it
Some (young guys) agin
Some (old/young guys/babes) don't care either way
Put ME in that last camp. Now, I'm not a spring chicken, but I am more than average active. I've been around a few blocks but I still giggle with childish glee when I wake up to find a foot of snow has fallen overnight (and, yes, I go play in it... with my CAR, at this age).
In my life, in both the vanilla world and WIITWD, I have dated Women nearly twice my age (when I was younger), and some approaching half my age (these days), and about everything in between. I also dated at/below my age when I was younger, as well as at/above my age, now.
For ME, it's ALL about looks!!! Lemme 'splain, Lucy: It is ALL about the looks that come back to me when I look into "Her" eyes. If I see a compatible soul, one who (like someone else said) still sees wonder in the world; yet understands the "walk down there and fcuk 'em all" mentality, I'M IN!!! Down for whateva! In for a penny/In for a pound. <insert your favorite cliché, HERE>
Look into my eyes (in the AV piccy, to the left, duh!) and tell ME what YOU see...
In case you lack the capacity, I will tell you, you see a Man who will ROCK YOUR WORLD, on a dozen different levels, no matter WHAT your age is. While I can only go maybe 2/3's as many times as I used to, 20-30 years ago, I can go much, much longer these days. Besides, twice each night and once each morning is still usually more than enough (it ain't braggin if you CAN do it) for most age groups. I can go less, but not too much more than that. Not only can/will I lick you for hours on end, STILL, I am better able to "read" your body, now. So I KNOW when to ease up and leave the man-in-the-boat and dally around the sholeline until you're ready to be "rowed" some more, plus I can tell by your (breathing, moving, not moving, shuddering, gasping, arrhythmic-sphincter-grasping/puckering) reactions if I am on the right track, or not. I can spank to hurt (bare-handed, ALWAYS; I love the feel of quivering flesh), or swat-dat-ass 50-times and not leave a lasting-mark (but you WILL feel it, mon cheré) . I understand that sometimes you just want to be held, and sometimes you really DO want to be taken by a SAVAGE BEAST; and, I am usually able to tell the difference between the two (again) looks in your eyes. Sometimes you need a Daddy, sometimes you just need a friend. And, sometimes, sometimes you want to be genuinely IMPRESSED by your Man, and so I will order in Italian/Spanish/French/German (but, honestly, WHO goes to a German restaurant except when they are IN Germany, really).
I dint learn all that overnight, nor have I had all of that within me for the last 15-30 years.
I STILL "balance-walk" along curbs (remember doing that?) whenever I get the chance. I STILL splash through puddles, when its wet out after a rain. I STILL do doughnuts in the parking lots (in the snow) until the po-po come and make me stop (although, at my skill-level, I tend to do it in-and-around the light poles, as opposed to avoiding them). I STILL lie awake, stretched along the hood of my car, on warm summer nights, and wonder up at the stars. I STILL ride my bicycle, for FUN (for commuting I prefer to burn fossil-fuels, thank you), and, I still sometimes fall and skin my knee (ankle/elbow/skull). I STILL like to tickle you until you laugh so hard no more sound comes out. I STILL go for long runs (6-10 miles, is a medium-length run, for me, OK) on those rare weather days when it should be cold but it's warm/should be warm but its cool. I STILL masturbate, when no ones looking (I hope). And HUNDREDS more, along those lines...
Life will NEVER beat those enjoyments (oh, and I STILL make up words when conventional ones lack the proper emphasis) out of me, no matter how old I get
I can cook (better than you), and have done it, WELL, for the last 20+ years. I can repair most car problems (given the proper tools), and have for the last 25 years. I can fix small, medium, and some large appliances, and have for the last 20 years. I can fix computers (hardwaree OR software, ususally), and have for the last 12 years. I can write poetry and short stories, and have for the last 35 years. I can do home repairs and remodeling, and have for the last 35 years (necessity and our economic state, back then, meant I started VERY early).
Most of these things I have been capable of nearly ALL my life.
So, when I say I can "rock your world" on many different levels, it is not an empty claim, my dear(s). There is something for nearly ANY age group and, if you fit the "profile" of what *I* am looking for, no matter your age, look into my eyes, and tell ME what YOU see...
If you ask 1000 different people you will get 1000 different answers (scroll back up and re-read, if you are not convinced of that simple truth). 1000 different truths to why/why not.
That (above) is mine.
My last relationship (vanilla) was with wonderful, bright, intelligent, active 40-year-old woman. The one before that was with a 26-year-old who rarely went out. Now, I have a potential sub (that I met here, on CM), who just might agree to come live with me. She is 27/28-ish (I never ask these things). If it doesn't work I may have to date your GMILF...
< Message edited by N4SDChastity -- 11/11/2008 5:50:21 PM >
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RE: Do younger subs/slaves really want much older Domin... - 
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so if a Dom feels he gets old..he actually gets a better position in the lifestyle 
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