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RE: what is it with men - 12/19/2005 10:13:05 AM   
candystripper


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Status: offline 		^laughs^ We all know she'd get groddy emails if her pic was as dressed as a nun's. LOL. There are some groddy men out there, whose whole sex life seems to begin and end with making annoying emails to women. Kinda weird, eh?

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RE: what is it with men - 12/19/2005 11:25:36 AM   
Marquisd


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quote:

ORIGINAL: Yourkitten

my my my, we are getting catty arent we, meow



well, don't know about the catty thing, however showing them nipples and complaining about people responding to that is well not exactly catty - more a form of self critique.

Since you have put all "men" in a box I can understand all the HNG"s putting you in the willing cyber slut box.

to each their own.

Good luck with moving


cheers

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RE: what is it with men - 12/19/2005 11:25:47 AM   
MTslave


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attitude speaks volumes more then pictures ever can

< Message edited by MTslave -- 12/19/2005 11:27:27 AM >

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RE: what is it with men - 12/19/2005 11:53:34 AM   
MasterHyde


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quote:

I puzzle this activity much deeper than 'why do these jackasses behave like this'. I'm thinking that if this tact is used so widely by so many, it must produce results from time to time or they would attempt other methods to "LAND THE
BIG ONE".


Sad truth. It does work sometimes.

Also, the format of this site encourages it by highlighting new profiles and by listing all searches in order of who's been on the site the most recently. While I'm on the subject, here's another one. All incoming mail is sorted with the newest message first. So, if I sent someone a well thought out email yesterday, and twenty other people sent that same person messages after I did, then the person receiving those messages will see the other twenty at the top of her list, and she will only see mine after she's read the others or made a conscious decision to skip over them.

This is life. Sometimes things work the way we want them to work. Sometimes they don't.



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RE: what is it with men - 12/19/2005 12:03:03 PM   
lovingmaster45


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quote:

what makes you think by saying those things that im going to jump in my truck and drive right over


Hey baby, what kind of truck do you have?...lol

Welcome to NC. Give is a call if you get near Wilmington. It will not take you long before you weed out the HNGs here.

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RE: what is it with men - 12/19/2005 12:04:45 PM   
afmvdp


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Status: offline 		Trust me, the women aren't much better. It's just the HNG world we live within.

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RE: what is it with men - 12/19/2005 12:18:59 PM   
RosaB


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Status: offline 		It doesn't matter what the featured pic is, see my avatar, and I still get the I want to lick, pinch suck your putty cat. Lets put the blame where it belongs. MEN = HORN DOGS.


That's why CBT was invented.

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RE: what is it with men - 12/19/2005 12:35:58 PM   
Chris123


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Status: offline 		I agree, she should *expect* these kinds of emails, humans are a very unintelligent species, a few of them are going to send stupid emails.
However, she definately does not *deserve* these emails. A lot of responses on this thread are in the vein of "well, you were asking for it". That is just crap.
If I were to put up a more provocative picture it would be to indicate sexual openness and attract women whom would appreciate such a signal. And I'm sure that some of the emails I would receive would be thought out and intelligent. The point I'm trying to make is it is possible to be both sexually charged *and* intelligent so one has the right to expect reasonable responses even with such photos posted. And yes, the fact of life is that there are always going to be idiotic men responding no matter what your photo shows. A more provocative photo does not negate your right to complain.

Also, what does HNG stand for?

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RE: what is it with men - 12/19/2005 1:02:28 PM   
afmvdp


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And I certainly was not, nor do I believe most, are implying that she deserved it, merely that it comes with the territory. In a world more and more saturated by the day with fakes and frauds, finding something genuine becomes more and more rare. So in the desire of growing a flower you must cut out many weeds.

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RE: what is it with men - 12/19/2005 1:45:01 PM   
LadyJC


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Status: offline 		I don't even have a photo on here, mine is on bondage.com sadly my computer died and I did lose all my photos that I had on my computer and joined this one after my computer died.
Now a lot of ppl are saying on here she deserves these emails because of her photo? Do you realize I have gone out wearing the baggiest sweater pair of jeans, bummy runners and a huge winter coat and some guy will still sit there and go Hey Baby!! However I only deserve it if I go out wearing something low cut? Sure...that one makes sense.
I've come to the conclusion about something a lot of men are jerks, and horn dogs.
I've gotten completely inappropriate emails from newbies and when I politely tried to give them advice about it they didn't listen to me. Ah well I quickly stopped talking to them.
Yourkitten you will receive these emails no matter what leave the picture I kinda like it.
And just wait til you see the post about how we don't reply to these types of emails that thread always gives me a good laugh.
LadyJC

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RE: what is it with men - 12/19/2005 2:18:20 PM   
frillsnthrills


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Status: offline 		Perhaps she 'expects' men to act like adults, not hormone ravaged teenage males. With all due respect, because i know some very intelligent, well mannered young males.

For crying out loud...what is this? highschool? Yes how DARE she post a tasteful sexy pic of herself and expect males on a adult BDSM site to act maturely. I dare say she is learning fast.

i don't have a provocative pic on my profile and i get flooded with exactly the same sort of messages and worse. So much for that theory.

i suppose you think if a female wears sexy clothing she is 'asking for it' too. Surely most DOMS can conduct themselves in a more mature and manly manner. Surely it is not to much to expect most adult males to act with some sort of class.

With acknowledgement to all the Doms and others on here who do conduct themselves with style and class. It is not 'all' ...just... most. Watch out for the liars, some of them are very good at it. It is 'all' they do.



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RE: what is it with men - 12/19/2005 2:36:22 PM   
Aileen68


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Status: offline 		You can't control what people will say and do to you. You can only control how you react and deal with it. It your choice. Answer back rudely, block and delete, ignore... it's all up to you because there are options other than complaining about it.

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RE: what is it with men - 12/19/2005 2:45:49 PM   
Synocense


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quote:

For crying out loud...what is this? highschool? Yes how DARE she post a tasteful sexy pic of herself and expect males on a adult BDSM site to act maturely. I dare say she is learning fast.

i don't have a provocative pic on my profile and i get flooded with exactly the same sort of messages and worse. So much for that theory.


I refused to post a picture of myself for any and all to see -- it doesn't seem to matter. Very well written, frillsnthrills. I agree.

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RE: what is it with men - 12/19/2005 2:48:04 PM   
truesub4u


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Status: offline 		WOW, seems like there are more Tarheels around than I thought.


I really think this pic in kitty's profile is more tasteful than some. Not all. She showing who she is. A little nipple really doesn't drive everyone insane. Hell they show nipple on TV now more than not. I think she's modestly covered. She's not showing snatch, she's leaving SOME to the imagination.

And though we know that there are animals out there in sheeps clothing. I think it would be more wise to comment on the nice art of the pic than to try to jump through the screen. Would hate to see the reactions of some looking at one of Hef's magazines. No wonder browsing through playboy and playgirl are off limits now. Hard to sell a magazine with sticky pages.

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RE: what is it with men - 12/19/2005 2:49:34 PM   
Yourkitten


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Status: offline 		it is interesting to read the responses i have gotten on here. most i thank for their intelligent answers. i have been on other sites and have only put up a picture of my foot in a shoe. and yes i get bad replies and good ones.

i try to put interesting pictures up. they are clean, not nasty and i hope tasteful not slutty. i have even put up a picture of one of my cats and gotten nasty ones. but no matter what picture i have on the site i am on there are those who dont like my pictures.

and i never said bad ones are all i get. i get alot of very nice ones who compliment me and just want to wish me a good day. i get mail that appreciates the way i look.

but there is a saying that goes (if you have nothing nice to say, dont say it)

and there are some on here who agree with me and i like that , no matter if you have a picture up the emails remain the same. i would think that the men get those too but maybe i am wrong.....anywho, i am a good, kind loving person no matter what anyone says or thinks and thats what counts. i like me and if you dont thats fine, life goes on and on and on

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RE: what is it with men - 12/19/2005 3:21:42 PM   
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There is no reason for people to be rude, but... it draws the freaks out when you post provacative pics like those.

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RE: what is it with men - 12/19/2005 3:27:21 PM   
truesub4u


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quote:

ORIGINAL: sweetpettjenny


There is no reason for people to be rude, but... it draws the freaks out when you post provacative pics like those.



I find it tasteful, teasing, tempting. Leaving some for the imagination. I took a closer look at pic... it's not even a full nipple shot.


Like candy said....... she could dress up as a Nun. Some freak that wanted to bang his Nun teacher is going to show up drooling.


Oh and one more thing.... IF YOU GOT IT... FLAUNT IT!!!

Won't matter if showing all, or in baggy sweats, and looking like hell. Someones gonna yell HEY BABY! (I know I seen that post in this thread somewhere... and I agree with it)


< Message edited by truesub4u -- 12/19/2005 3:29:27 PM >

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RE: what is it with men - 12/19/2005 3:33:50 PM   
sweetpettjenny


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Status: offline 		that is your opinion and we are all entitled, id rather leave what i have to offer someone with my body , more private . It demands more respect.

quote:

ORIGINAL: truesub4u

quote:

ORIGINAL: sweetpettjenny


There is no reason for people to be rude, but... it draws the freaks out when you post provacative pics like those.



I find it tasteful, teasing, tempting. Leaving some for the imagination. I took a closer look at pic... it's not even a full nipple shot.


Like candy said....... she could dress up as a Nun. Some freak that wanted to bang his Nun teacher is going to show up drooling.


Oh and one more thing.... IF YOU GOT IT... FLAUNT IT!!!

Won't matter if showing all, or in baggy sweats, and looking like hell. Someones gonna yell HEY BABY! (I know I seen that post in this thread somewhere... and I agree with it)



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RE: what is it with men - 12/19/2005 3:35:40 PM   
SeargentDave


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Status: offline 		I don't want to seem wishy washy but here goes. You catch what you put out bait for. Your body is beautifull and I appriciate that you share an intimate glimpse of yourself with me. For those who cannot respect this, shame on them. So return the compliments and spurn the tasteless reamarks.

But you must ask yourself why?? Why am I doing this?? Am I not very comfortable with the woman I am?? Do I need to be so provacative to catch the attention of the type of man I am looking for?? Is the man I am looking for attracted to a woman that would share herself with so many. As a potential dom, I would not want a potential sub of mine to be seen by so many.


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RE: what is it with men - 12/19/2005 3:52:47 PM   
candystripper


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quote:

Some of us are freaking nasty in real life and the first time we meet someone as well....

And, we all got together and were wondering:

"Well - are you going to pinch those nipples, or what?"

Sincerely:

The Animals./Lordof Discipline


^Roars with laughter....LoD is a good Man, i can tell. No bad manners there.^

candystripper

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