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RE: what is it with men - 12/19/2005 3:55:40 PM

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Trust me, the women aren't much better. It's just the HNG world we live within.

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Women send You groddy emails? Really?

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RE: what is it with men - 12/19/2005 3:58:06 PM

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It doesn't matter what the featured pic is, see my avatar, and I still get the I want to lick, pinch suck your putty cat. Lets put the blame where it belongs. MEN = HORN DOGS.

That's why CBT was invented.

RosaB

This is throwing the baby out with the bathwater...i personally know more than a dozen really good guys i've met on CM...and i'd be with any of them if circumstances permitted. Let's not tar every man with the same brush.

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RE: what is it with men - 12/19/2005 4:01:40 PM

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ORIGINAL: candystripper

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It doesn't matter what the featured pic is, see my avatar, and I still get the I want to lick, pinch suck your putty cat. Lets put the blame where it belongs. MEN = HORN DOGS.

That's why CBT was invented.

RosaB

This is throwing the baby out with the bathwater...i personally know more than a dozen really good guys i've met on CM...and i'd be with any of them if circumstances permitted. Let's not tar every man with the same brush.

candytripper

Oh this one agrees with you Candy.

Not all men are like this. And i'm also going to go so far as to state I have send a e-mail to a few men that have pics on here that make me stop and want to break out the toys! And they're not provocative pics. Just Facial, some chest. OMG droooool.

So men aren't the only ones.

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RE: what is it with men - 12/19/2005 4:03:55 PM

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Consider this the internet equivalent of men that speak directly to your chest like its miked or something.

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RE: what is it with men - 12/19/2005 4:13:37 PM

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you get back what you put out

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RE: what is it with men - 12/19/2005 4:26:54 PM

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i have sent emails to men that have pics to die for. and i have sent emails to men that have profiles with words to die for. i tell them that i love what they wrote or that i like their picture. i am not trying to pick them up but tell them i like what they say and to wish them the best in their search.

a sense of humor is a plus in this life and without it and our own opinions life would be pretty boring. thank you all for your posts. good or bad i read them all and we all think what we want. that is a good thing. we can all speak our minds and say what we want. if there are some who dont like it thats fine. if no one likes it thats fine too.

ive come along way

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RE: what is it with men - 12/19/2005 4:38:22 PM

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G'Day and Welcome to the site Yourkitten.
We both found the photo tastefully done.
Just like those that see pink for a new member or female and nothing more they hit the name and see a photo which means she will want em no matter what her profile says so no need to read it just tell her what I would do to her and she will beg me to.
Its a small mind syndrome and will never change because as you are reading what they say already a new message is being sent to someone else with pink and or female.
Our photo has also received a few who can only say to Miss Di nice tits would love to see them and not only from those who call them selves Subs or Slaves but from a few who call them selves Doms just gives us a laugh and a reply to them saying grow up.

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RE: what is it with men - 12/19/2005 4:42:04 PM

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thank you MissDiandSirHugh, kitten hugs

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RE: what is it with men - 12/19/2005 5:07:25 PM

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Some of you take yourselves way too seriously. Do you really think this is the reason CBT was invented. Good greif. I have wonderful men in my life as well.

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ORIGINAL: candystripper

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It doesn't matter what the featured pic is, see my avatar, and I still get the I want to lick, pinch suck your putty cat. Lets put the blame where it belongs. MEN = HORN DOGS.

That's why CBT was invented.

RosaB

This is throwing the baby out with the bathwater...i personally know more than a dozen really good guys i've met on CM...and i'd be with any of them if circumstances permitted. Let's not tar every man with the same brush.

candytripper

Oh this one agrees with you Candy.

Not all men are like this. And i'm also going to go so far as to state I have send a e-mail to a few men that have pics on here that make me stop and want to break out the toys! And they're not provocative pics. Just Facial, some chest. OMG droooool.

So men aren't the only ones.

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RE: what is it with men - 12/19/2005 5:21:19 PM

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ORIGINAL: Yourkitten

i have sent emails to men that have pics to die for. and i have sent emails to men that have profiles with words to die for. i tell them that i love what they wrote or that i like their picture. i am not trying to pick them up but tell them i like what they say and to wish them the best in their search.

a sense of humor is a plus in this life and without it and our own opinions life would be pretty boring. thank you all for your posts. good or bad i read them all and we all think what we want. that is a good thing. we can all speak our minds and say what we want. if there are some who dont like it thats fine. if no one likes it thats fine too.

ive come along way

mmmmmmmm ok I haven't recieved a email from you so obviously my pic and my written profile are not to die for.... some how some way will I recover from this devastating emotional revelation, but I think I will need comfort from my girls to do it.

But as a added note... I think it is silly that you are judged one way or the other based on pic. Yes your pic is actually tastefully done and erotically provocative. As someone said, they have rather tame pics and are still getting the rude emails... both my girls get that type on a regular basis.... so I doubt that changing your pic would make much difference. However, your pic with very little written in your profile itself suggest nothing is there for anyone to look upon interest and comment on. In fact the only thing that your profile has to draw interest is the picture itself. Generally, you are going to get responses that precieve your pic in a very sexual tone and with nothing else in your profile... anyone that is looking for some intellectual substance... well they are more than likely going to just pass you by. Why would I bother to send a email when I know it is going to be buried in shit load of sexual innuados from the HNG crowd and frankly there is nothing to actually comment in profile except what you provide... a sexually tasteful provocative picture and no intellectual substance that may or maynot be there.

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RE: what is it with men - 12/19/2005 6:36:57 PM

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Yea, you get a lot of that on the internet.....so back to the naked pics. Someone above said there were naked pics and i can't find them. i did see a really hot pic in your profile, but its not naked. Oh well i guess i missed again. In answer to your topic and several other replys....if i see a pic of someone i am interested in, i am going to email a note with the intention of getting a reply back. Since i am going for a respectful response, i would make my email respectful, regardless of how much nipple is showing. If i am trying to meet someone, why would i be rude or crass....that's not the kind of women i am seaking, so why would i make myself out to be that way. On the internet, all someone has to judge you by is your words, so you better make them count for something.

i am sorry you have gotten rude emails, do like i do and ignore them, or use them as stress relief and let the idiots know how stupid they are. Either way, don't judge real life by all the things you read online. i am finding a lot of wanna be's here, who will never find out what the real world is all about.

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RE: what is it with men - 12/19/2005 10:41:38 PM

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Some of us are freaking nasty in real life and the first time we meet someone as well....

And, we all got together and were wondering:

"Well - are you going to pinch those nipples, or what?"

Sincerely:
The Animals.

I love the honest men, no matter how nasty. ROTFLMAO

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RE: what is it with men - 12/20/2005 12:30:53 AM

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The only comment I will add here is that I
state openly that I am a lesbian in my profile and
partnered with a Domina.

I still get mail from obviously illiterate men and women.
Because they don't seem to be able to read my profile.
A lot of the men are simply upset I love women and am
in love with my Domina. The women are usually writing
for me to think of being a third with their man

Some are sweet and sincere, which I appreciate and
respond to, some just are idiotic knuckleheads.
Then block is a good friend

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RE: what is it with men - 12/20/2005 1:04:42 AM

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Hi "your kitten,"

I wasn't going to respond but then I've reconsidered and thought I would share. I rarely get the kind of emails you've been talking about. I think there have been perhaps two in all the time I've been a member of this site and various others. I believe it is exactly because of the pictures that I have on my profile that I don't get these kinds of emails.

My pictures discourage a sexual reaction and are selected in order that those who write understand that I'm a down to earth, tomboyish, casual, country-girl type of submissive looking for a serious ltr. I don't want a D/s relationship that begins in the bedroom and thus my pictures aren't sexual in any way shape or form. Still some consider my pictures to be provactive, classy, and attractive -shrug- several have expressed that it's rare to see a picture of a submissive with her clothes on and thus they like mine.

I think that kind of thought expresses something of importance about how we want to be perceived by the dominant men in this community. I insist on respect and will not correspond with anyone who does not offer it. I honestly think you might reconsider the current pic and shoot for a more "innocent" everyday look ;) I hope there is no offense taken by my post. I'm just trying to help.

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RE: what is it with men - 12/20/2005 6:27:14 AM

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ORIGINAL: candystripper

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Trust me, the women aren't much better. It's just the HNG world we live within.

afmvdp

Women send You groddy emails? Really?

candystripper

Far more often than I'd desire to be honest.

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RE: what is it with men - 12/20/2005 6:32:27 AM

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Again, I really think the matter of whether the picture is "asking for it" is a complete misnomer. As mentioned before, she could of been dressed any way at all or of put up a picture of a rock and recieved the same emails.

It is par for the course to be inundated with useless emails from the illiterate and the insane. The delete button is a wonderful cure-all for this condition though

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RE: what is it with men - 12/20/2005 6:40:11 AM

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In a sence that is what I do. I throw my net out and hope for a reply and to make contact with someone I can spark with. The differance is that I have all due respect for anyone I chat to and anyone who messages me back. It is the same in life and online. Not all men have this respect but not all men are born without it.

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RE: what is it with men - 12/20/2005 1:56:08 PM

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ORIGINAL: candystripper

Women send You groddy emails? Really?

candystripper

My owner has gotten a few....lol. It happens. Too bad there isn't a way for the men who like to send/receive that kind of stuff to hook up with the women who like to send/receive it. Someone could start a new niche on the internet by catering to that <g>

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RE: what is it with men - 12/20/2005 5:56:21 PM

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ORIGINAL: themischievous1

Hi "your kitten,"

I wasn't going to respond but then I've reconsidered and thought I would share. I rarely get the kind of emails you've been talking about. I think there have been perhaps two in all the time I've been a member of this site and various others. I believe it is exactly because of the pictures that I have on my profile that I don't get these kinds of emails.

My pictures discourage a sexual reaction and are selected in order that those who write understand that I'm a down to earth, tomboyish, casual, country-girl type of submissive looking for a serious ltr. I don't want a D/s relationship that begins in the bedroom and thus my pictures aren't sexual in any way shape or form. Still some consider my pictures to be provactive, classy, and attractive -shrug- several have expressed that it's rare to see a picture of a submissive with her clothes on and thus they like mine.

I think that kind of thought expresses something of importance about how we want to be perceived by the dominant men in this community. I insist on respect and will not correspond with anyone who does not offer it. I honestly think you might reconsider the current pic and shoot for a more "innocent" everyday look ;) I hope there is no offense taken by my post. I'm just trying to help.

mischie

Edited for typos ;)

my pic is a partial face shot buried under leaves and i still get the idiot emails...

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RE: what is it with men - 12/21/2005 5:01:22 AM

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maybe the have a leaf fetish lol. but i never said i get all bad emails. i do get alot of compliments. its not nasty and i agree with those who think its tasteful. and the leaf picture i love it.

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