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RE: How far to take protocol/rules within a BDSM club - 11/17/2008 6:21:01 PM   
auburnvixen


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ORIGINAL: SimplyMichael
I have found that those who have the least business doing it are the first to volunteer.


Oh, that is SO TRUE!

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RE: How far to take protocol/rules within a BDSM club - 11/17/2008 7:00:22 PM   
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ORIGINAL: RealSub58

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ORIGINAL: pinkwind

Over zealous monitoring seems to be a problem, there are threads regularly where people are sanctioned for minor infractions when the DM in question hasn't been doing their basic job properly.

In circumstances when a person has had a bad experience i would always council writing to the event organisers to appraise them of the problem, and offering advice on how the incident could be avoided in future.

Speaking personally, there is no way that i could lie on a floor, even a warm one, my mobility problems would rule that out. i would have thought that in most public dungeons there would have been provision for at least a chair to be brought near the equipment, and maybe in future if you play on a piece where there isn't seating provision you or yours ask for some sort of seating before you begin to play.

The more folks ask for what they need to have a happy and safe experience in such places the more likely it is that such equipment will be provided as a matter of course.




Candystripper getting some heat so it's time to switch?


Not, pink's one of the smarter poster's about, just usually seen on b.com not here. And she really is from the UK.

Pink - candystripper is the current name of someone who makes posts that the rest of us roll our eyes at all too frequently. She changes names all the time, usually has pink or purple in the screen name and wrote for months in a light pink font that was virtually unreadable.

On b.com, I'm Celeste43. Here there was a glitch last year that prevented a lot of people posting from their original profiles so we made new names that weren't effected by the glitch. Waves hello!

< Message edited by DesFIP -- 11/17/2008 7:02:02 PM >


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