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ORIGINAL: lusciouslips19

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ORIGINAL: CelticPrince

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ORIGINAL: StrtbkNamdDesire

The word slut is usually used to keep a woman's sexuality in check. Only recently have men been called 'sluts' as well (i'm talking about mainstream vernacular), but the implications and derogatory meaning are not the same. It's used in dirty talk because it still connotes a taboo... the taboo of promiscuity and openness. I don't use it and cringe when people use it during play/sex, thinking it'll turn me on or make me feel 'like a bad girl.'
























The only time I will use 'slut' is in humor, with a modifier before it. (moto-slut, shoe slut, purse slut, etc... meant in the way of 'major lover of X')

SND,

I promise I will never call you a slut! that being said, why does the word get associated with "dirty" talk?

CP

Cause us sluts love it when you whisper it in our ear!

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ORIGINAL: sambamanslilgirl

before i was kinky - slut was a bad word. being raised in a staunch Catholic and Baptist surroundings, i was raised to be chaste.

after kinky - it's still a bad word however depending on who's saying it. if it's Daddy calling me a slut, it's a term of endearment.  if it's someone else, get ready for a tongue lashing.

edited to add: my pet loves being called slut ...it's a form of degradation he enjoys along with other words such as sissy, pathetic human, whore

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ORIGINAL: MarcEsadrian

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ORIGINAL: CelticPrince

I have been away from the boards for awhile due to business travel and as I normally attempt to keep up with the mix of new folks coming on to the CM path I causually review the profiles of newcomes. Upon doing so I read a profile of a lady that presented a thome on being a "slut" from many angles.
Since I use the term in my profile, it brought to mind the chance that over the last few years the meaning has morphed into an new understanding.

Marc,

Phew!
Reaching for a dictionary!!! A very complete educational paragraph tho.

CP

Whats your thoughts on the interpretation be ye "D" or "s"?

"Slut" is a word that has undergone a considerable amount of social revision and invention over the centuries. While its ultimate origins seem a little unclear, it's generally clear that today "slut" is a moral term, though it changes flavor depending upon which sex is using it and why. I generally understand the term to mean a female who mates with other males far less discriminately than her peers or the established norm for female standards in these matters—of course opening up a discussion of semantics, subjectivity and relativity. The word is often derogatory in use, but modern female-positive sexual politics often seems to fashion it as a woman (usually) who is liberated in her debauchery—sexual or otherwise.

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ORIGINAL: StrtbkNamdDesire

The word slut is usually used to keep a woman's sexuality in check. Only recently have men been called 'sluts' as well (i'm talking about mainstream vernacular), but the implications and derogatory meaning are not the same. It's used in dirty talk because it still connotes a taboo... the taboo of promiscuity and openness. I don't use it and cringe when people use it during play/sex, thinking it'll turn me on or make me feel 'like a bad girl.'

The only time I will use 'slut' is in humor, with a modifier before it. (moto-slut, shoe slut, purse slut, etc... meant in the way of 'major lover of X')

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ORIGINAL: IronBear

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ORIGINAL: CelticPrince

I have been away from the boards for awhile due to business travel and as I normally attempt to keep up with the mix of new folks coming on to the CM path I causually review the profiles of newcomes. Upon doing so I read a profile of a lady that presented a thome on being a "slut" from many angles.
Since I use the term in my profile, it brought to mind the chance that over the last few years the meaning has morphed into an new understanding.

Whats your thoughts on the interpretation be ye "D" or "s"?

Bear,

Thanks for the comparison but how did whore get into the question?

CP

CP

For me and in my homnr, a slus of both a tearm of endearment and a destription of what a girl does in mych the same way as we use the term whore.

SLUT: A girl who will strip off her clothes as far as she is ordered by her Master and will do so when, where and before whom according to my wishes. She will wear her clother more sexually provocably manner then is the custome of other slaves and may if I so desire allow selected gurets to explore or handle her intimately to a level I predetermine (eg handle her breasts). She will also be prepared to service me sexually on demand and if I desire so, in public or before others.

WHORE: is first of all a slut and will be prepared to sexually service both males and females I designate from complete sexual acts to giving head either in private or in public or before an audience. Traditionally, those using the girl for sexual pleasure would have negotiated a price (cash or other) with me in advance and thus the girl would be "a coin girl"..

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ORIGINAL: theobserver

I don't like the word, but I use it a lot for work. I don't think I need to overanalyze it or explain why.

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ORIGINAL: babyeyemyours61

Yes the word Slut use to sound so dirty to me. But when you become the naughty girl in your mans room,,,,,,,mmmmmmm I desire so much to be his slut!!!!!!! Also another word I use to hate and that is the word Cunt,,,,,But now lol,,,,,I love it when he slides his hard throbbing Cock into my sweet juicy CUNT! lol Hope I didnt offend anyone.

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ORIGINAL: candystripper

There's a book most of you have probably not read, called Fear of Flying by Erica Jong.  It's about a woman who takes joy and pleasure from her sexuality without giving a *crap* about what anyone else thinks.  I will always love that phrase in the book, *the zipless f**k*.
 
I find the tv show 'Sex and the City' to be the same.  Four women, with differing attitudes about sex, exploring the wide, wide world.  If you haven't seen it, you might like it.
 
I suppose the word 'slut' could be a woman's way of reclaiming her right to act as she chooses in the sexual realm.  One of these days I'll have to read The Ethical Slut. 
 
candystripper  [sm=pole.gif]

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ORIGINAL: LuckyAlbatross
This also helped me in that I realize so many people (women especially) find it hard to be “a slut.” They can embrace being “someone’s slut” or being a loved slut, but find it difficult to be bald-facedly an open slut. So by keeping things to a personal attitude level, it doesn’t matter HOW the person acts as a slut…simply that they embrace their slut attitude.

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slut- someone who has an active interest in sex, sexuality and celebrates it openly (does not imply any ACTUAL sex, or any AMOUNT of sex)

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ORIGINAL: CelticPrince

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ORIGINAL: theobserver

I don't like the word, but I use it a lot for work. I don't think I need to overanalyze it or explain why.

observer,

Might you be in the adult movie industry?

CP

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ORIGINAL: marie2

There are certain circumstances under which I might feel ok with being called a slut (or a whore) but it's a rare frame of mind for me.  It also doesn't bother me when it's used (or I use it) in humor.

To me, the word slut brings to mind a female who is promiscuous and who will fuck anything that moves for nothing more than the sake of fucking.  I realize a lot of women feel that the term slut simply means that they are uninhibited enough to enjoy sex without guilt or shame.  But I don't process the word that way.

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ORIGINAL: CelticPrince

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ORIGINAL: marie2

There are certain circumstances under which I might feel ok with being called a slut (or a whore) but it's a rare frame of mind for me.  It also doesn't bother me when it's used (or I use it) in humor.

To me, the word slut brings to mind a female who is promiscuous and who will fuck anything that moves for nothing more than the sake of fucking.  I realize a lot of women feel that the term slut simply means that they are uninhibited enough to enjoy sex without guilt or shame.  But I don't process the word that way.

marie2

Ok How do you process it?

CP