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RE: Slut What does it denote for you? - 11/15/2008 12:35:56 AM   
rosanegra


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Status: offline 		I am my husband's slut.. I am also his little girl, baby, honey, sweetie, love, along with his whore, fuck toy, and anything else he wants me to be.

Sometimes I'm even a bitch, but I'm working on that....


On that note, I think I am going to go listen to that Meredith Brooks song... man do I love that song..


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RE: Slut What does it denote for you? - 11/15/2008 2:45:56 AM   
IronBear


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ORIGINAL: CelticPrince

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ORIGINAL: IronBear

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ORIGINAL: CelticPrince

I have been away from the boards for awhile due to business travel and as I normally attempt to keep up with the mix of new folks coming on to the CM path I causually review the profiles of newcomes. Upon doing so I read a profile of a lady that presented a thome on being a "slut" from many angles.
Since I use the term in my profile, it brought to mind the chance that over the last few years the meaning has morphed into an new understanding.

Whats your thoughts on the interpretation be ye "D" or "s"?

Bear,

Thanks for the comparison but how did whore get into the question?

CP

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For me and in my home, a slut of both a term of endearment and a destription of what a girl does in much the same way as we use the term whore.

SLUT: A girl who will strip off her clothes as far as she is ordered by her Master and will do so when, where and before whom according to my wishes. She will wear her clother more sexually provocably manner then is the custome of other slaves and may if I so desire allow selected gurets to explore or handle her intimately to a level I predetermine (eg handle her breasts). She will also be prepared to service me sexually on demand and if I desire so, in public or before others.

WHORE: is first of all a slut and will be prepared to sexually service both males and females I designate from complete sexual acts to giving head either in private or in public or before an audience. Traditionally, those using the girl for sexual pleasure would have negotiated a price (cash or other) with me in advance and thus the girl would be "a coin girl"..




I brought the question in because in my home one flows into the other. It would be indeed unusual for a whore of mine not to be also a slut and any slut of mine will be involved in ther grey area where slut moves into slut. Where do I draw the line between the two? A slut may have others handling her naked breasts and yet if they handle (or tongue) her pussy she is a whore. Does having sex with me in public or with an audience make her a slut or a whore? can she give a hand job to a guest and remain a slut where a head job make her a whore? I think each Master, Mistress or Home must make such decisions themselves for their property, I have.


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RE: Slut What does it denote for you? - 11/15/2008 2:55:31 AM   
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ORIGINAL: WhiplashSmile2

Slut can be a very wonderful name or an extremely bad name.  All depends upon the context and how it's used.  :-P


agree...even when I call my girl slut in private (will propably make her proud)..I don't want anyone in the streets call her that (will make her angry).

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RE: Slut What does it denote for you? - 11/15/2008 3:00:18 AM   
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Status: offline 		I agree JD, I don't object if any of my Gorean or other lifestyle folk refer to any girl of mine as either a slut or whore, but I will not tollerate any member of the great unwashed refering to then as such (Pissed off Grizzley Reaction). I am both defensive and proctive of my home and it's occupants.

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RE: Slut What does it denote for you? - 11/15/2008 3:35:15 AM   
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Status: offline 		It's far too generic to qualify as scathing material, but can be used as a term of endearment.


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RE: Slut What does it denote for you? - 11/15/2008 3:54:26 AM   
MadAxeman


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Status: offline 		I agree with NG. An ex girlfriend loved to be called this. It confirmed the journey she had made in connecting with her pleasure principles. Of course it carries other connotations when used outside an intimate setting. Seems redundant having to iterate this.

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RE: Slut What does it denote for you? - 11/15/2008 4:30:55 AM   
lally3


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Status: offline 		i think to be a slut for someone is an expression of total sexual freedom and a compliment to them.

i used to be totally uninhibited, then i spent a time with a sexually abusive guy who ruined sex for me.

i got mended by a D who brought out the slut in me again - its total freedom and all hail to you D's for encouraging us

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RE: Slut What does it denote for you? - 11/15/2008 10:21:15 AM   
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ORIGINAL: silkncarol

I always thought SLUT meant ... Sexually Liberated Uninhibited Temptress?!?!?!!! 

I am, and i like it!


carol,

well it does....... exactly /short sweet and concise.

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RE: Slut What does it denote for you? - 11/15/2008 10:24:42 AM   
CelticPrince


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ORIGINAL: NorthernGent

It's far too generic to qualify as scathing material, but can be used as a term of endearment.



NG

Thats the point, it used to be a scathing adjective, but it has evolved to......................./

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RE: Slut What does it denote for you? - 11/15/2008 11:31:25 AM   
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ORIGINAL: CelticPrince

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ORIGINAL: NorthernGent

It's far too generic to qualify as scathing material, but can be used as a term of endearment.



NG

Thats the point, it used to be a scathing adjective, but it has evolved to......................./

CP


In the lifestyle you mean...or...

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RE: Slut What does it denote for you? - 11/15/2008 11:33:08 AM   
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RE: Slut What does it denote for you? - 11/15/2008 12:25:45 PM   
CreativeDominant


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ORIGINAL: silkncarol

I always thought SLUT meant ... Sexually Liberated Uninhibited Temptress?!?!?!!! 

I am, and i like it!


Put what silkn wrote above with what slavegirljoy wrote below:
What slut means to me:
 
SLUT is my alter ego. It’s being sexually uninhibited and having unlimited enjoyment of all things sexual, without having any negative feelings associated with it.  Because my Master requires me to be His slut, my alter ego is set free and i am able to be sexually uninhibited with Him and with anyone He chooses.
 
With my master, i am a:
Shameless
Lustful
Unabashed
Tart

along with what the term already means to me and the word is perfect.

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RE: Slut What does it denote for you? - 11/15/2008 12:58:04 PM   
SadysticJester


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Status: offline 		its all in how the word is used and who your using towards,,,,,i call my pet a slut as a term of endearment but would never call her that as a derogatory things,unless in a humiliation aspect which is rare,but does happen from time to time.

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RE: Slut What does it denote for you? - 11/15/2008 1:02:24 PM   
CreativeDominant


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ORIGINAL: SadysticJester

its all in how the word is used and who your using towards,,,,,i call my pet a slut as a term of endearment but would never call her that as a derogatory things,unless in a humiliation aspect which is rare,but does happen from time to time.


One of the coolest aspects of using the word is when you have spent the time learning about what goes on in a girls' head and in darker places of her heart and soul and learn just how well and at what times that use of the word slut can  humiliate/empower/drive up her sexual need that much more.

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RE: Slut What does it denote for you? - 11/15/2008 1:04:08 PM   
persephonee


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*grabs a fan and an icecube...*

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RE: Slut What does it denote for you? - 11/15/2008 1:05:46 PM   
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RE: Slut What does it denote for you? - 11/15/2008 1:23:12 PM   
HisPhedre


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Status: offline 		I personally enjoy being called a slut by My Lord.  It's something that has evolved with our relationship.   We had an interesting chat once about nomenclature and one of the words we talked about was "slut".

He means it lovingly with me and is in fact very proud to have me that way and has enjoyed watching my journey to be more comfortable with my sexuality and eventually becoming the woman I am today.

One of my favorite terms to hear from him is "My slut"...that gets me every time.

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RE: Slut What does it denote for you? - 11/15/2008 1:48:26 PM   
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From my own POV, I see the term slut as being a double edged sword that carries both a positive and negative insinuations when being used. In all honesty, I don't get offended if I am referred to as a slut, tramp, man whore etc as I automatically see that as a compliment. To me, it simply denotes another term used to describe a person who has a very healthy sexual appetite, someone who holds very little inhibitions regarding their sexuality and isn't afraid to of their sexual nature. This does not mean they have sex with every person yet isn't constrained by a morality that is ill fitting. Using myself as a prime example, I will comment on a person who happens to "ping" my radar and I will comment without hesitation. At the same time, I will not actually act upon my desires/lust though I do acknowledge they exist.
Quite awhile back, I was deemed the man whore. That is a term I embraced and has been part of my sig line since! To me it means I am:
Sexual
Lustful
Uninhibited
Trampy



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RE: Slut What does it denote for you? - 11/15/2008 2:05:09 PM   
persephonee


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i love the words...slut, cunt, dyke, whore, snatch, fuck,....the list goes on...i like em short and shocking. i never had a sexual journey to go thru to claim my sluttiness...early on, i had some shameful or guilt ridden experiences but also early on, i took accountability for my actions and choices and never really had a long standing feeling of shame toward sex or sexual activity. So nothing really to reclaim. Luckily for me, i have had very few traumatic experiences and so i have relatively few sexual hangups. A lot of my friends have these issues to deal with and i can empathize but not sympathize....and i apparently cant spell today either.
my friends call me slut in lui of my name constantly. my partners use the word whenever they choose, as long as its not at the grocery store i dont really do anything other than answer to it...no emotional response to it happens for me. For that matter at the store i would prolly just answer to it anyway.
i like my words, all of them, to be solid.
Slut is a solid word.

perse

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RE: Slut What does it denote for you? - 11/15/2008 8:07:54 PM   
Jeptha


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Status: offline 		I'd gotten used to the word having a positive connotation in the small circle of people I know who actually use the word.

I guess a lot depends on context and even intonation, maybe.

It's like saying "epicure" or "hedonist" in that way; the words don't necessarily have a special ethical conotation apart from any context.

The positive connotations that I've heard from people I hang around with seem to indicate someone who is very positive about their sexuality.

Negatively, I guess it could imply selfishness, but, as I mention, I rarely hear it used that way. When I do, I think there's a bit of envy attached, perhaps.

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