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RE: Slut What does it denote for you? - 11/17/2008 10:12:30 PM

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ORIGINAL: FlamingRedhead
I used to think I was a slut, but then I realized I was just acting like a man!

I'm a (male" slut for sure!

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RE: Slut What does it denote for you? - 11/18/2008 6:43:20 AM

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To me, the word "slut" has changed. Many years ago, it used to be just about sex. It meant someone who was "easy", enjoyed sex a lot, and wasn't too picky about partners. Now the word has morphed into a broader definition. It transcends the realm of sex, and is applicable to almost anything. It does imply a great enjoyment of an activity that leads to being indiscriminate about partners and/or time and/or place.

Now, a "___________ slut" is someone who likes a specified activity so much that they're not picky at all about who they do it with. For example, take chess. Some people only like to play people they can beat. Others want a challenge, and only want to play people who are as good as them, or better. A chess slut would be happy to play against anyone, and pretty much anytime.

The word slut without an activity specified in front of it, is about sex. And, although it usually means somebody who likes sex a lot and is pretty indiscriminate about partners, there is some nuance around it now. Someone could actually be considered a slut, yet still be monogamous, if they enjoy sex so much that their partner can entice them into it at any time and/or place; they're almost always primed and ready to go, so that once their partner initiates things, it's like the slut is so horny that there's no turning back, no chance of resisting. As you can imagine, if a submissive/bottom is a slut, the dominant/top can very easily use sex as a means of control.

That's my personal definition of the word these days.

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RE: Slut What does it denote for you? - 11/19/2008 12:27:24 PM

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slut = eleavated position

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RE: Slut What does it denote for you? - 11/20/2008 7:11:42 AM

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ORIGINAL: Mercnbeth

it's a term of endearment coming from Master's lips...however, when it is slipped out between the teeth of some self-righteous onlooker who thinks this slave's attire is inappropriate (short skirt, no bra, 5 inch stillettos) as she passes them by, then she assumes it's derogatory.

it's all about intent.

beth,

I agree on both instances, thanks for your thoughts.

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RE: Slut What does it denote for you? - 11/20/2008 7:14:00 AM

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ORIGINAL: ThundersCry

It depends on the person I am with...

Because I like to use the term...and believe me its a compliment if I do...

Does not mean that its ok with just anyone...

Some limits cannot be....broken.

TC,

It might also be beneficial to ones personal health to be selective as to when and with who.

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RE: Slut What does it denote for you? - 11/20/2008 7:37:00 AM

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when i use the term "slut," i am using the old basic dictionary definition of the term...a female who is sexually promiscuous, "easy," indiscriminate about partners. it has nothing to do whatsoever with one's enjoyment of sex, and certainly does not connote sexual aggressiveness or even necessarily passion. these are simply qualities that many assume a slut must have in order to be the way they are...and of course, such assumptions are false.

when my Master refers to me as slut (which he often does), he is not saying that i am "his" slut, that i some sexually vivacious and expressive creative just for him. He is saying that i am an easy piece of meat for any man who may wish to make use of my body, he is saying that the number of cocks that have been inside of my body cannot readily be counted. He just so happens to love this quality about me, as he is a lover of sluts from way back. lucky me. :-)

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RE: Slut What does it denote for you? - 11/20/2008 4:47:36 PM

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While I've been very appreciative of reading all of the definitions, I'm going with what a few have touched on. I think circumstances, context, and tone will change the interpretation greatly. Calling someone a slut is going get a different reaction than an obviously sexually excited submissive when he hears that he's My lil slut. I also find that saying "c'mere, slut" in just a certain way, with a deep, throaty, seductive voice does wonders.

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RE: Slut What does it denote for you? - 11/20/2008 10:16:55 PM

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ORIGINAL: TemptingNviceSub

To the OP...slut denotes very little for me...One only will have the right to use it..otherwise..the usage is meaningless to me..I guess I am too old to get too hot or bothered by name calling from the general populace...Tempting

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Will you stop with that old talk already!

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RE: Slut What does it denote for you? - 11/26/2008 2:50:06 PM

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*snicker*
For me the word "Slut", spoken by Soltic, means I get to climax! Because he uses it specifically for that, and to see how many times he can make me do that, since making me do that at his instigation is one of the things that turns him on.

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RE: Slut What does it denote for you? - 11/26/2008 5:34:05 PM

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I believe the dictionary definition of slut is a slovenly house keeper. Not as sexy, eh ?

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RE: Slut What does it denote for you? - 11/26/2008 5:43:28 PM

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i think of it as just another term and word...

there is no way to put this without it sounding sexual so i'm just gonna say it! i like being called a slut, i will admit that when it's being yelled at me then i get into a humble state... maybe a bit of a 'i know i did something wrong' when it's just a statement like 'you like being my slut?' or 'such a good slut' i like it! i am very verbal... do i think its negitive... soneone can say anything and it doesn't need to be negitive it's just how it is said. To me in the D/s sense it's just another word used that can be hot or disciplining depending on how it is said to the other person.

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