RE: Is it disrespectful to address a Domme as Honey , Chicken, Bird etc

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Darias -> RE: Is it disrespectful to address a Domme as Honey , Chicken, Bird etc (11/16/2008 9:20:30 AM)
CM is, as this thread has shown , a multicultural site... as such its always best to avoid cultural specific nicknames... O/our chicken , the brits Love, or the american`s Darlin ... can al be taken as terms of endearment . however they may react six months or so down the line when they know you, id advise avoiding those terms in early comunications. remember CM isnt really like chatting birds up in madigans.... each relationship should probably start off with more respect than that. Darias

Darias -> RE: Is it disrespectful to address a Domme as Honey , Chicken, Bird etc (11/16/2008 9:23:31 AM)
stupid double post.... edited so im not repeating myself honestly kevin whatever certain types in dublin (im guessing big hoopy earrings and trackies are prominent) might consider as a nickname to be proud of , id avoid using those same terms to a D-type woman here.... stick with using their name, their requested title or if your feeling really gutsy... hon.... but using our local terms of endearment may have the oposite reaction to what you desire Darias

Aylee -> RE: Is it disrespectful to address a Domme as Honey , Chicken, Bird etc (11/16/2008 9:23:46 AM)
Might want to read, A Doll's House, by Isben.

lobodomslavery -> RE: Is it disrespectful to address a Domme as Honey , Chicken, Bird etc (11/16/2008 9:23:48 AM)
no, i must clarify something, i have never actually called a Woman a bird. But i know of guys who do, and the Women in their life like it and are proud to be called and known as Birds , they even boast about it on radio shows. But there are others and you wouldnt dare do it if you valued your own safety. kevin

lobodomslavery -> RE: Is it disrespectful to address a Domme as Honey , Chicken, Bird etc (11/16/2008 9:25:11 AM)
Madigans, ah yes , a well known Dublin pub kevin

sambamanslilgirl -> RE: Is it disrespectful to address a Domme as Honey , Chicken, Bird etc (11/16/2008 9:30:08 AM)
if i don't know you, it would be disrespectful towards me because i find those words as terms of endearment for a relationship ...not between people just meeting or chatting for the first time.

antipode -> RE: Is it disrespectful to address a Domme as Honey , Chicken, Bird etc (11/16/2008 9:36:02 AM)
quote: Women like to be called Bird Dear Lobotomy, that is a bad Irish joke, right? Or is it just that you can't smoke in the pub any more? Quacking right along...

lobodomslavery -> RE: Is it disrespectful to address a Domme as Honey , Chicken, Bird etc (11/16/2008 9:38:37 AM)
Incredulous as it might seem, its true Sir, some Women in Ireland find it flattering to be called a Bird. they think its a compliment to be referred to as a Bird, i dont know why but they do kevin

ChainGoddess -> RE: Is it disrespectful to address a Domme as Honey , Chicken, Bird etc (11/16/2008 9:47:05 AM)
Speaking as an Irish Chicken, Bird or Honey. If any man addressed me in that way, I would take him down, and not in a way that he would enjoy. I have never been called any of those names, so either Waterford men are different from Dubs' or I am one scary Irish lass.

stella41b -> RE: Is it disrespectful to address a Domme as Honey , Chicken, Bird etc (11/16/2008 9:47:27 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: zakkan Out of curiosity, how do men like to be addressed in Ireland? Try Mick, Paddy or Tommy and you've got a considerable section of Irish males covered. Also don't forget 'how's the craic?' (pronounced crack) Never ever say 'pogon mi thonn', it just ends badly every time.

LadyHibiscus -> RE: Is it disrespectful to address a Domme as Honey , Chicken, Bird etc (11/16/2008 9:50:24 AM)
Wise advice from Stella, as usual! [8D] I am a bit free with the terms of endearment when I am fond of a person, but they do have to be my FRIENDS first, and I would expect the same courtesy in return. I do enjoy the laugh when someone addresses me too familiarly from the outset, but I am easily amused.

lobodomslavery -> RE: Is it disrespectful to address a Domme as Honey , Chicken, Bird etc (11/16/2008 9:51:04 AM)
No your not one bit scary. Your just part of at the very least a large minority of Women who do not like to be called a Bird. But there are those who do kevin

lobodomslavery -> RE: Is it disrespectful to address a Domme as Honey , Chicken, Bird etc (11/16/2008 9:52:37 AM)
Spot on Stella pog mo thoin is insulting. how's the craic will get you anywhere you want to go on the other hand and is the standard opener on a night out kevin

Darias -> RE: Is it disrespectful to address a Domme as Honey , Chicken, Bird etc (11/16/2008 10:04:03 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: ChainGoddess Speaking as an Irish Chicken, Bird or Honey. If any man addressed me in that way, I would take him down, and not in a way that he would enjoy. I have never been called any of those names, so either Waterford men are different from Dubs' or I am one scary Irish lass. makes a note to try this with toblerone in hand muhahahahahahah

zakkan -> RE: Is it disrespectful to address a Domme as Honey , Chicken, Bird etc (11/16/2008 10:11:04 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: stella41b quote: ORIGINAL: zakkan Out of curiosity, how do men like to be addressed in Ireland? Try Mick, Paddy or Tommy and you've got a considerable section of Irish males covered. Also don't forget 'how's the craic?' (pronounced crack) Never ever say 'pogon mi thonn', it just ends badly every time. What on earth is 'pogon mi thonn'???

lobodomslavery -> RE: Is it disrespectful to address a Domme as Honey , Chicken, Bird etc (11/16/2008 10:18:57 AM)
it literally means kiss my ass , not very nice particularly to a Lady, not an advisable form of addressing someone, needless to say this is not taken kindly by any Lady, Bird or no kevin

littlewonder -> RE: Is it disrespectful to address a Domme as Honey , Chicken, Bird etc (11/16/2008 10:26:07 AM)
Calling a woman you are in a relatonship with is fine and most women like it..in a relationship or at least a very close friendship. Calling a total stranger or someone you don't know very well..is disrespectful. When a complete stranger calls me a "term of endearment" it makes me think he still is living in an age where women were thought of as less instead of an equal human being.

ChainGoddess -> RE: Is it disrespectful to address a Domme as Honey , Chicken, Bird etc (11/16/2008 10:29:10 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Darias quote: ORIGINAL: ChainGoddess Speaking as an Irish Chicken, Bird or Honey. If any man addressed me in that way, I would take him down, and not in a way that he would enjoy. I have never been called any of those names, so either Waterford men are different from Dubs' or I am one scary Irish lass. makes a note to try this with toblerone in hand muhahahahahahah Darias, Shush, I don't want folks thinking that I can be bought with a cheap chocolate bar, you do know I meant the giant toblerone right?

LadyConstanze -> RE: Is it disrespectful to address a Domme as Honey , Chicken, Bird etc (11/16/2008 10:33:46 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: ChainGoddess quote: ORIGINAL: Darias quote: ORIGINAL: ChainGoddess Speaking as an Irish Chicken, Bird or Honey. If any man addressed me in that way, I would take him down, and not in a way that he would enjoy. I have never been called any of those names, so either Waterford men are different from Dubs' or I am one scary Irish lass. makes a note to try this with toblerone in hand muhahahahahahah Darias, Shush, I don't want folks thinking that I can be bought with a cheap chocolate bar, you do know I meant the giant toblerone right? Well, you could also offer to slap/beat/whip him until he pronounces "Tá mo bhríste trí" the right way or figures out what it means ;)

Usako -> RE: Is it disrespectful to address a Domme as Honey , Chicken, Bird etc (11/16/2008 10:53:01 AM)
I'd be highly confused being called a bird or chicken but that's a culture thing. However, I don't get bent out of shape if someone uses some lil nickname or so. As long as it's a respectful term at least! But then there is the sticky slope about well which term, what tone its used in, what context, how it's meant, etc. I think until you know the person you're addressing, especially when trying approach a dominant woman or man, just to be respectful. Use their name and feel them out. Oh, and "hi Ya , how are u" would get no reply from me, mainly because of the chat speak.

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