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RE: Does Sex corrupt a Ds relationship? - 11/17/2008 9:17:42 PM

AlexandraLynch

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I think every man with whom I have spent any length of time will agree I'm much nicer to be around if I have several orgasms every day. And it's my cock, I can use it the way I want.

I know perfectly well that if I lie beneath my sub in missionary position because I get a better orgasm that way, he knows exactly who's running the game, and will attempt his damnedest to make me happy there, just as if he were scrubbing my sink. He wouldn't be in my bed or wearing my collar if he didn't know, and if he forgets, I have a number of very interesting ways to remind him.

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RE: Does Sex corrupt a Ds relationship? - 11/17/2008 9:36:33 PM

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If sex corrupts a D/S relationship, I prefer corruption.

That's pretty much true of anything, by the way, that is "corrupted" by sex. I'll take rumpy-pumpy over purity every time.

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RE: Does Sex corrupt a Ds relationship? - 11/18/2008 5:20:40 AM

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Alright,perhaps i am opening up a whole can of worms here,but,my sex drive isn't what it used to be when i was much younger and the testosterone was flying.I am not saying i don't love sex,it is just at this stage of my life,real time things seem to get in the way more often than not.You have to pick your spots and not become disenchanted with the interruptions and all.Personnaly,i love to be teased and touched but not be allowed to have an orgasm,which of course can only go so far.But a woman,Domme or not will know instinctively after teasing and denial when a man is about ready to burst.I have always loved that aspect of sex even if the orgasm was allowed during the set time two are having sex.As subs,we have to also recognize that most Dommes are probably mothers first and foremost followed by being a businesswoman(or working for someone),a lover of all the good things in life third and lastly being a Domme.It is just the way it is in real life in my opionion so the quicker one learns and readily accepts the equation the better for both or all involved.

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RE: Does Sex corrupt a Ds relationship? - 11/18/2008 5:25:02 AM

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ORIGINAL: FloridaMistresse
Does sex ( romantic sex, not play party sex) blur the Ds lines or infrige, harm, over shadow, make more vanilla the Ds dymanic.

I actually find it directly opposite. If I do not have the romantic interest in the person I am involved with in the D/s then I find it more difficult to keep up the interest. The best D/s relationships I have ever had have been with boyfriends and girlfriends, not just slaves. I am marrying my slave Fox, after all. Our relationship is not harmed by our romantic involvement, it is enhanced by it. The longer we are together and the more in love we are, the more he wants to be the perfect slave for me. The more we learn about one another romantically, the better we mesh with our S/M as well.

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RE: Does Sex corrupt a Ds relationship? - 11/18/2008 5:40:16 AM

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I know that romantic sex has made my relationship much stronger and has not corrupted the D/s dynamic in any way. In fact, it built a deeper bond of intimacy for us. Since I know I'm her one and only, it makes me want to try that much harder to make sure she stays satisfied with me as both her slave and her man. I not only have a cruel, rubber-loving gothic goddess for a domme, but I have a loyal and faithful woman who does things in bed that are illegal in all 50 states, the District of Columbia, Puerto Rico, Guam, the moon, Saturn, the Milky Way galaxy, most of the known universe, and remote parts of Hell! It is, however, all good in Uranus!

Seriously though, the romantic sex helped us connect on a deeper level and built a bridge between our D/s relationship and the vanilla one. She may be my fiancee and lover, but she is still my domme first and foremost.

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RE: Does Sex corrupt a Ds relationship? - 11/18/2008 5:45:57 AM

LookieNoNookie

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ORIGINAL: Venatrix

With apologies to Lord Acton, I've wanted to say this all day:

Sex corrupts. Absolute sex corrupts absolutely.

I feel so much better now