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RE: Dealing with a sub's minor bad habits - 11/24/2008 5:27:02 AM

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Bad Habits, vs deal breakers etc:
Smoking or any other deal breaker, for Me would be a way to weed out a potential person. I ask a series of questions like do you smoke, and if they do, I do not progress with them at all, b/c I do not want to deal with that issue.

Bad Habits, as you have described, nail bitting, tidying up, dishes etc. I address those immediately. Actually when a slave comes to My house I go over "The Rules" this will include things like, tidiness, dishes, anticipating My needs etc. So, it sets the ground rules right away, and if they do not adhere to them, its an infraction which will be dealt with. However, I find most want to serve and please and therefore if they are informed of the rules, tend to not want to break them, but rather to please Me and show Me how good they are, so that I will progress with the relationship and let them return.

As for things like nail biting, I do also address that imediately as well. I ususally give them constructive ways to handle that, so thy see I care and that I do understand, however, I do make it clear that doing the said behavior displeases Me, and needs to stop.

So, to aswer the questions precisely, I do address all of what you have listed immediately, that way it does not get to become a "Bad Habit" It's easier to set a Tone than it is to break or change a Habit, is My logic. Hope this helps, it was an excellent question.

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RE: Dealing with a sub's minor bad habits - 11/24/2008 11:16:17 AM

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I'm convinced men's feet, at least, are getting bigger with each new generation. Weird.

I am wondering if you subscribe to the theory that the size of a man's shoes is indicative of the size of his penis and, if so, what that says about each new generation ;-)

It's the steroids in beef, I tell you!

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RE: Dealing with a sub's minor bad habits - 11/24/2008 11:29:38 AM

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quote:

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ORIGINAL: PeonForHer
I'm convinced men's feet, at least, are getting bigger with each new generation. Weird.

I am wondering if you subscribe to the theory that the size of a man's shoes is indicative of the size of his penis and, if so, what that says about each new generation ;-)

It's the steroids in beef, I tell you!

Cheers,

Sea

Oooh no - I heard steroids have a shrinking effect in the department, Sea. (As well as giving you scurvy, so an ex-steroird taker was telling me the other day.) I have no firm evidence on the relationship between foot size and whanger size - nor any great desire to collect such evidence, either!

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RE: Dealing with a sub's minor bad habits - 11/24/2008 11:44:08 AM

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Oooh no - I heard steroids have a shrinking effect in the department, Sea. (As well as giving you scurvy, so an ex-steroird taker was telling me the other day.) I have no firm evidence on the relationship between foot size and whanger size - nor any great desire to collect such evidence, either!

Mixed saunas in Germany and membership in a gym with a mixed sauna, dojo was in the same building as the gym, interesting to see the result of the steroids in the sauna, oddly the guys who obviously build up muscle with the aids of roids seemed to have certain shrinkage elsewhere, looked even smaller due to the amount of muscle, the women who took them (the roids not the guys) seemed to have a certain growth in the beard and err lower department, I recall being a bit put off because what I thought a burly guy came into the changing room (deep voice, very male figure, facial hair....), in the shower I realized it was a lady (barely)...

As for shoe size, not an indicator, just like noses and all that, it's always a surprise for us girls...

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