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hopelesslyInvo -> RE: When is it ok for a submissive to tell you he's hard? (11/25/2008 7:08:29 AM)
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much the same on my opinion, can't imagine just blurting that out, if they wanted to know, then they can ask me, otherwise i'm going to assume that "they", like "me", don't care much.
stating "i'm hard" in my opinion is a lot less like a compliment, and much more as though you are for some reason trying to inform the other as if they're obligated or you expect them to do something about it.
on the other end though, when someone tells me they're wet, i'd probably take it as a compliment or simply as just being overall a "good thing" if not for the fact i'm always in a bit of disbelief; sort of a "what? no way! it's not because of me..." response, but that might be because of how scarcely i hear it, not to mention i feel as though i've ever done enough that would trigger such a response. it might be rubbish, but i look at a man getting an erection to be about as insignificant and unexpected as breathing, but "getting someone wet" as being more of a challenge or at least an accomplishment of some measure, or just more rare in the sense that saying "i'm wet" actually holds some merit in telling the other, where as saying "i'm hard" is basically like... "well no shit!".
in the same way though, i assume that if they're telling me that there's a reason for it, and it's probably because they're trying to "allude" to something. still, due to the obvious, i do however have the good fortune of not being offended or creeped out by them saying it to me, and when they do say it, it "means something".
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