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MadameMarque -> RE: When is it ok for a submissive to tell you he's hard? (11/27/2008 3:18:20 PM)
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ORIGINAL: IdiotMale
When is it ok for a submissive to state that some of the topics on the collarme forums border on strange/dumb?
It's okay for you to post your opinion on others' posts, whenever you want. And there's no doubt that topics common to this select group are even stranger than the strangeness of life in general, which itself is stranger than fiction.
However,
and it might have escaped your attention, but we're going on four pages of posts, now, mostly from female dominants who relate well enough to the topic of this thread, strange as it may be.
When men approach women in a context where the woman is acknowledging her sexuality in some way, such as by having a profile or photo on a BDSM site or by wearing something sexy out, often they approach us in disturbing ways. I won't go into it further, here. Suffice to say, when a man tells a woman with whom he has no sexual involvement, or a woman he doesn't know at all, that he's hard, it's the verbal equivalent of exposing himself to her. And, just as if he'd literally exposed himself, it smacks of some alienating, aggressive, and hostile attitudes regarding women and sex.
And I would suggest to you that, just because you don't share the concerns of a dominant woman and therefore do not relate to their interest in a certain topic of behaviour, doesn't mean that it's "dumb" for them to communicate with each other, about their concerns and feelings. Happily, if you find the conversation boring, you can move to another you personally find trenchant.
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