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RE: IMPOTENCE - 11/29/2008 6:29:22 PM   
Madame4a


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RE: IMPOTENCE - 11/29/2008 6:35:02 PM   
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RE: IMPOTENCE - 11/29/2008 6:37:05 PM   
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Don`t sweat the small stuff....fist her and she will leave you alone for...a few days.



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RE: IMPOTENCE - 11/29/2008 6:37:41 PM   
IronBear


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ORIGINAL: moutas


It would be very easy to clear myself about the age difference but I am not here in court. I ask only advice. So thanks a lot to everybody without exception.
I only want to underline what I wrote at the head of this thread. I am on the beginning of impotence, just the beginning. That’s why it is not easy for me to declare to my slave ‘I am this’ or ‘I am that’ whereas we are beginning the relationship. We have never spoken of sexuality yet even if she is truly a slave with me for everything! And who knows ? my sexual problems might be not definitive ? ? ? I am absolutely not able to know in advance what will be my sexual drive with her when we meet. That’s why I am hesitating about what I have to tell her for now.
She doesn’t seem very sexual. Though she told me that she masturbates herself very much I think that she is more in a mental way. She wants first the man who knows the right way for everything, and I feel that I know that way for her. She is not in doubt on that point !
Sorry I see that my story is not very clear but nothing is totally clear in life ! And of course men know impotence problems better than women… That’s why woman’s view is particularly interesting for me too.
Anyway I am pleased to see that that thread is in a good way on this site.

ps. Don't make a mistake, she stopped her first relationship not because her bf was bad but because "he doesn't know how to take care and handle his girl right". She is very modern and very attractive. She is not the poor shy little girl in the corner. Not at all !


Just for the moment lets immagine that you have your girl with you (either living gtogether or close) one of the better ideas I use is to allow my slave to accompany me to my physician who will be able to explain my ED and what she can do to aid. We did this with my last girtl who accompanied me along with my wife to my Physician. I also accompany slaves to their trips too and if I can't Neets does in my stead.


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RE: IMPOTENCE - 11/29/2008 6:38:51 PM   
Madame4a


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quote:

ORIGINAL: ThundersCry

talk about a mental push...
 
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RE: IMPOTENCE - 11/29/2008 6:43:35 PM   
shannie


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ORIGINAL: LaTigresse
I hate liars and I hate being lied to. Even if it is a lie of omission. You are lying to this girl and you somehow assume that she will respect you as her master when she finds out? God, how pathetic. She deserves better and you deserve a kick in the pants.


I am just wondering if all of you women who "HATE lies of omission" -- feel the same way about your own physical deficiencies (i.e., saggy breasts, stretch marks, gray hair, and etc). Do you give "full disclosure" of each defect prior to meeting? This guy simply said he is worried about possible impotence. This just doesn't strike me as very different than a girl with a push-up bra worrying about what the guy is gonna think when she takes that bra off.   Lol.

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RE: IMPOTENCE - 11/29/2008 6:51:03 PM   
ThundersCry


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RE: IMPOTENCE - 11/29/2008 7:04:48 PM   
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ORIGINAL: Madame4a

quote:

ORIGINAL: ThundersCry

Those little blue pills scare me...now the yellow ones...
 


one pill makes you larger and another makes you small...
and the ones that mother gives you, don't do anything at all




wonders what Ms Slick is doing now....lol   love that song

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RE: IMPOTENCE - 11/29/2008 7:19:05 PM   
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ORIGINAL: shannie
I am just wondering if all of you women who "HATE lies of omission" -- feel the same way about your own physical deficiencies (i.e., saggy breasts, stretch marks, gray hair, and etc). Do you give "full disclosure" of each defect prior to meeting? This guy simply said he is worried about possible impotence. This just doesn't strike me as very different than a girl with a push-up bra worrying about what the guy is gonna think when she takes that bra off.   Lol.


Some things you expect with age, or whatever, like the things you mentioned, and can be easily fixed or lived with.  Besides I assume they at least exchanged pics if he's collared her, virtual or not. 

Meeting someone at an airport, I can see gray hair, but I won't know if they have E.D. or not, and if it's something I can tell, I don't think I want to be around them any way....they will probably be arrested before I even get off the plane....LOL

If I had a sexual problem, and I was looking at someone for a mate, I'd tell them "before" they travel.  Sex is very important to some and could be a deal breaker.

But I have to admit, as I wonder this earth, and I see the little ladies in their wonder bras,  like the friend went home one day below and "A" and returned to work the next day in "Parton-ville".... just what does happen when she whips that thing off in the heat of the moment.....LOL

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RE: IMPOTENCE - 11/29/2008 7:31:57 PM   
amaidiamond


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Status: offline 		I don't believe lying is correct in a relationship.

I'm 26, smart and far from shy or niave and i am good with older men and ED isnt something that does/would bother me.

Lying would bother me, If i found something like that out after X months I would feel betrayed.

If the man was honest, up front and clear about things then I have infinate imagination for alternate things to do.

dia

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RE: IMPOTENCE - 11/29/2008 9:07:23 PM   
NoFury


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Status: offline 		A former sex partner initiated our sexual relationship by, among other things of course, indicating his very erect member and asserting that it was, in his words, "All you..." that is to say, that I was 100% responsible for both his erection and it's turgidity and longevity.  What a let down to learn that he could neither attain nor maintain an erection without the help of those sweet little blue pills.  That being said, I'm all for "better living through chemistry." And, I think that nothing replaces a good fucking when that's what's called for. Try viagra, or some other IED medication, to make sure that it works for you. If it does, you have no problem, right? Although I would advise against suggesting to anyone that your erection is "all them!"

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RE: IMPOTENCE - 11/30/2008 5:44:21 AM   
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RE: IMPOTENCE - 11/30/2008 6:55:22 AM   
LaTigresse


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quote:

ORIGINAL: shannie

quote:

ORIGINAL: LaTigresse
I hate liars and I hate being lied to. Even if it is a lie of omission. You are lying to this girl and you somehow assume that she will respect you as her master when she finds out? God, how pathetic. She deserves better and you deserve a kick in the pants.


I am just wondering if all of you women who "HATE lies of omission" -- feel the same way about your own physical deficiencies (i.e., saggy breasts, stretch marks, gray hair, and etc). Do you give "full disclosure" of each defect prior to meeting? This guy simply said he is worried about possible impotence. This just doesn't strike me as very different than a girl with a push-up bra worrying about what the guy is gonna think when she takes that bra off.   Lol.


Well let's see, I've never claimed to be any age other than the one I currently am. My photo shows whatever gray hair I might have. I don't deny that my  46 yo body has birthed fed and raised 2 children. I've never had any plastic surgery. I would assume that anyone knowing that will also know that body is not that of a 26 year old. I also mention that I inherited my mother's spider veins. I've told them the size of my jeans and muttered about the difficulties in finding a bra that fits my more than ample tatas.

So yes, I am even MORE description of my stuff to people that I might meet from the net than I am those I getting to know in person in my community. I don't want anyone meeting me for the first time after weeks of online and phone communication and freaking out. 

Call me crazy for having a strong feeling about conveying myself and my life as realistically as possible to anyone that might come into my life away from the computer.

Then again, I also meet people with the mindset of meeting someone with potential but refuse to build it up to more than it really is. No unreasonable expectations. I am thrilled if they become a friend. If it ends up being more, bonus!

BUT, if I've lied to them about my appearance or abilities, and they find out..........I've pretty much screwed myself out of even a friendship, let alone anything more. I would rather be rejected by an unknown person online.

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RE: IMPOTENCE - 11/30/2008 7:11:12 AM   
moutas


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Status: offline 		A question from a girl :
If you were to tell her of your situation, how do you think she would respond? 

My reply :
I think that she would be very disappointed because I think that she is not into sex. I believe that she is waiting for a master who manages everything (even a beginning of impotence). So I think that she is waiting for a ruler who uses her in his way, not according to this or that (even sexual problems).

I think that she is happy to be mine without limits in her mind and she doesn't want a dream breaker! (or a man in doubt of himself).

By the way, I read above some lines about lying. Sorry my slave and myself are not concerned about it.

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RE: IMPOTENCE - 11/30/2008 7:25:27 AM   
LaTigresse


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Status: offline 		Uhmmm, how do you know she is not concerned about it? Did you fess up?

Also, the fact that you've not told her your real age or about your impotence issues tells me that you are in doubt of yourself. Something she sees as a weakness, in your words.

If I were you, I would come clean sooner rather than later. Honestly. And keep in mind, I've got nothing to gain or lose by telling you this. It really doesn't matter one way or another to me.

< Message edited by LaTigresse -- 11/30/2008 7:30:15 AM >

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RE: IMPOTENCE - 11/30/2008 7:33:48 AM   
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quote:

ORIGINAL: shannie

quote:

ORIGINAL: LaTigresse
I hate liars and I hate being lied to. Even if it is a lie of omission. You are lying to this girl and you somehow assume that she will respect you as her master when she finds out? God, how pathetic. She deserves better and you deserve a kick in the pants.


I am just wondering if all of you women who "HATE lies of omission" -- feel the same way about your own physical deficiencies (i.e., saggy breasts, stretch marks, gray hair, and etc). Do you give "full disclosure" of each defect prior to meeting? This guy simply said he is worried about possible impotence. This just doesn't strike me as very different than a girl with a push-up bra worrying about what the guy is gonna think when she takes that bra off.   Lol.


The things you mention aren't physical deficiencies.  They are appearance issues that may or may not turn-off a potential partner.  But even if they were issues of dysfunction, two wrongs don't make a right. 

It looks like you feel it's wrong to omit this info and you are looking for ways to justify it.  Sure, some people think that being a "slave" means you don't question things like that, concern yourself with things like that, or demand/expect things like sex, but unless that's also HER idea of being a slave, this is going to get you into a hill of shit and make you look like a liar.

Since you say you have 10 months before you meet her, why not go to a doc and get this checked out and hopefully resolved with medication or whatever else might help.  Then it wouldn't be an issue at all.  But if you can't fix it medically, then tell her about it and see if she's willing to accept it.  As one of the other posters mentioned, sexual intercourse with a hardon  isn't the end all and be all of a relationship.  There are many other ways that you can "fuck" her, and she may be just fine with that.  Why not give her the benefit of the doubt?  If it turns out that it does matter to her, you should know as soon as possible so as not to waste each others time further.

< Message edited by marie2 -- 11/30/2008 7:35:20 AM >

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RE: IMPOTENCE - 11/30/2008 7:42:33 AM   
honeygirl


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Status: offline 		Interesting.

You state that neither you nor she care about lying. And you *seem* to indicate that she won't care about impotence once she finds out. I may be misunderstanding your last post, of course.

If you're sure she won't care about what could be viewed as deceitful behavior and you're sure she doesn't care about the fact that you are impotent, I'm confused about the reason you started this thread.

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RE: IMPOTENCE - 11/30/2008 7:54:26 AM   
LaTigresse


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Status: offline 		Not to mention she is expecting a 50 year old man where there is a 63 year old man.

I cannot imagine....."well someone TOLD me I look 33, so it doesn't matter that my birth certificate says I am 46......right?"

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RE: IMPOTENCE - 11/30/2008 7:58:44 AM   
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Status: offline 		That pretty much happened to me, only he said he was 50 and he was 60...like I couldn't tell!  I stayed for coffee and, when we were finished, he "fessed up".  Then he had the nerve to say it didn't really matter anyway...maybe not to you fella, but it sure did to me.  Not the age itself, but the fact that he lied to me about it.

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RE: IMPOTENCE - 11/30/2008 8:00:04 AM   
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Well I'm fine with a master choosing not to share certain things, but you need to tell her that you're not going to tell her certain things.  And obviously you'd have to tell her that you'll never want to be sexual with her or else it will obviously come up when you are together (unless you desire this to be a cyber only thing).


Did you read his post???  It's NOT going to come up.....


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