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RE: Set of rules... - 12/5/2008 3:49:15 PM   
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Actually, protocols get a pretty bad rap, too. It still seems weird to me that, in a community so heavily vested in relationships where one person has the authority and the other yields to that authority, so many people would have so many issues with being told what to do and how to do it, but *shrugs*...



I agree.

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RE: Set of rules... - 10/11/2009 9:47:20 PM   
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Just to let everyone know... These are my rules, I am Geoffozi's...

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RE: Set of rules... - 10/11/2009 9:59:49 PM   
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A bit late, ain'cha?

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RE: Set of rules... - 10/12/2009 12:02:28 AM   
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I only read page 1, so I don't know whether or not anyone else has seen the glaring contradiction here:

Clothing
Panties are worn only at the request of the Dominant
Dress is sexy but classy unless otherwise specified

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RE: Set of rules... - 10/12/2009 1:36:26 AM   
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Just to let everyone know... These are my rules, I am Geoffozi's...


Well?

Did he make appropriate modifications according to your specific needs and desires?

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RE: Set of rules... - 10/12/2009 6:51:36 AM   
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Submissive must call Dom by proper name before each sentence


Geoffozi, I'm not sure this is such a good idea. Geoffozi, it kind of prevents communication. Geoffozi, when someone is in a train of thought it's hard to follow that train if they have to keep interrupting it with your proper name whenever a new sentence starts. Geoffozi, it will likely encourage a lot of run-on sentences and from your bulleted list something tells me you might not be fond of bad grammar. Geoffozi, besides, when speaking it's harder to tell a period from a comma, and if your submissive has the opinion that she used a run-on sentence while you have the opinion she used a full stop, your list says your opinion would outweigh hers. Geoffozi, that means you have to "beat her ass red." Geoffozi, do you really want to have to break out the paddle every time you confuse a comma for a period? Geoffozi, while it does seem like you have a red-ass fetish, that just might get tedious. Geoffozi, you'll also have to keep track of those infractions when you two are out in public and make a little tally mark so you don't forget if it was 89 or 90 til-ass-is-red beatings you have to administer since she paused too long at her comma and made it appear to be a full stop. Geoffozi, I'm afraid that'll make you look like a real douchebag if anyone you know actually sees you doing that.

Geoffozi, have I made my point clear enough? Geoffozi, if I haven't I can keep going. Geoffozi I hope you've found what you're looking for with your new submissive. Geoffozi and I hope you've found a set rule list that works for both of you.

Geoffozi by the way the weather's really nice today. Geoffozi it's been raining nearly nonstop the past week. Geoffozi but today it was finally nice and bright and sunny. Geoffozi it definitely put me in a good mood.

Geoffozi ok ttyl bye!

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RE: Set of rules... - 10/12/2009 7:50:18 AM   
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RE: Set of rules... - 10/12/2009 7:52:22 AM   
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quote:

ORIGINAL: Elisabella

quote:

Submissive must call Dom by proper name before each sentence


Geoffozi, I'm not sure this is such a good idea. Geoffozi, it kind of prevents communication. Geoffozi, when someone is in a train of thought it's hard to follow that train if they have to keep interrupting it with your proper name whenever a new sentence starts. Geoffozi, it will likely encourage a lot of run-on sentences and from your bulleted list something tells me you might not be fond of bad grammar. Geoffozi, besides, when speaking it's harder to tell a period from a comma, and if your submissive has the opinion that she used a run-on sentence while you have the opinion she used a full stop, your list says your opinion would outweigh hers. Geoffozi, that means you have to "beat her ass red." Geoffozi, do you really want to have to break out the paddle every time you confuse a comma for a period? Geoffozi, while it does seem like you have a red-ass fetish, that just might get tedious. Geoffozi, you'll also have to keep track of those infractions when you two are out in public and make a little tally mark so you don't forget if it was 89 or 90 til-ass-is-red beatings you have to administer since she paused too long at her comma and made it appear to be a full stop. Geoffozi, I'm afraid that'll make you look like a real douchebag if anyone you know actually sees you doing that.

Geoffozi, have I made my point clear enough? Geoffozi, if I haven't I can keep going. Geoffozi I hope you've found what you're looking for with your new submissive. Geoffozi and I hope you've found a set rule list that works for both of you.

Geoffozi by the way the weather's really nice today. Geoffozi it's been raining nearly nonstop the past week. Geoffozi but today it was finally nice and bright and sunny. Geoffozi it definitely put me in a good mood.

Geoffozi ok ttyl bye!


I just about peed my pants laughing.

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RE: Set of rules... - 10/12/2009 8:55:25 AM   
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So did I.  Maybe They just like hearing their own name over and over and over and over again.

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RE: Set of rules... - 10/12/2009 9:12:13 AM   
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Well, it is a hot name. Geoffozi. Geoffozi. Geoffozi. I kind of like hearing it over and over, too.

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RE: Set of rules... - 10/12/2009 12:52:32 PM   
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I presume you are providing all those clothes. And recognize that without panties, they are likely to become stained and need replacement very frequently.

And you are providing all those appropriate matching necklaces.

Beyond that, sex as you want? In front of her mother? Yours? Where she'll get arrested? You may not mind being a registered sex offender but I'm betting she will.

Most importantly giving someone a preset list of 108 slave rules says to me you are too lazy to get to know her. You want a perfect relationship from day one without putting any effort into growing it. Without discovering what works for her and what doesn't.

Because if she's a horse trainer all those sexy, classy clothes are inappropriate. Going to make her quit her job and support her so she can wear them? Didn't think so.

What I get the sense is that you've got this idealized vision in your head and no real flesh and blood woman will ever live up to it. So you'll be punishing her for being human on a nightly basis.

And I'm still trying to decide a bdsm issue from a vanilla. "In defiance of your rules I didn't buy an ice cream with chocolate in it, I bought a fruit ice cream knowing you hate them". Which issue is that?

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RE: Set of rules... - 10/12/2009 2:33:09 PM   
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To be fair it might be that he forgets his name.


quote:

ORIGINAL: Elisabella

quote:

Submissive must call Dom by proper name before each sentence


Geoffozi, I'm not sure this is such a good idea. Geoffozi, it kind of prevents communication. Geoffozi, when someone is in a train of thought it's hard to follow that train if they have to keep interrupting it with your proper name whenever a new sentence starts. Geoffozi, it will likely encourage a lot of run-on sentences and from your bulleted list something tells me you might not be fond of bad grammar. Geoffozi, besides, when speaking it's harder to tell a period from a comma, and if your submissive has the opinion that she used a run-on sentence while you have the opinion she used a full stop, your list says your opinion would outweigh hers. Geoffozi, that means you have to "beat her ass red." Geoffozi, do you really want to have to break out the paddle every time you confuse a comma for a period? Geoffozi, while it does seem like you have a red-ass fetish, that just might get tedious. Geoffozi, you'll also have to keep track of those infractions when you two are out in public and make a little tally mark so you don't forget if it was 89 or 90 til-ass-is-red beatings you have to administer since she paused too long at her comma and made it appear to be a full stop. Geoffozi, I'm afraid that'll make you look like a real douchebag if anyone you know actually sees you doing that.

Geoffozi, have I made my point clear enough? Geoffozi, if I haven't I can keep going. Geoffozi I hope you've found what you're looking for with your new submissive. Geoffozi and I hope you've found a set rule list that works for both of you.

Geoffozi by the way the weather's really nice today. Geoffozi it's been raining nearly nonstop the past week. Geoffozi but today it was finally nice and bright and sunny. Geoffozi it definitely put me in a good mood.

Geoffozi ok ttyl bye!


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RE: Set of rules... - 10/12/2009 3:30:56 PM   
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He did. 

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RE: Set of rules... - 10/12/2009 3:57:45 PM   
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Well, it is a hot name. Geoffozi. Geoffozi. Geoffozi. I kind of like hearing it over and over, too.


Hehehe it was sort of hypnotic writing all that.

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RE: Set of rules... - 10/21/2009 9:51:04 PM   
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Classy, eh? How about classy with a K? 99.999999% of people who use this adjective will not EVER achieve a classic look. This word, which to me has become slang for the "Bebe club-er" set, has nothing to do with the classic styles of, say, Audrey Hepburn.

Instead, list which hem lengths, colors, etc. are acceptable or, God forbid, buy the poor child some clothes you approve of for her to wear.

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RE: Set of rules... - 10/21/2009 10:45:30 PM   
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Classy, eh? How about classy with a K? 99.999999% of people who use this adjective will not EVER achieve a classic look. This word, which to me has become slang for the "Bebe club-er" set, has nothing to do with the classic styles of, say, Audrey Hepburn.



heh.  "nothing says classy like rhinestones,"  sums it up for me.

Elisabella--- you cracked me up.  I had someone insist not so long ago that I work "sir" into every utterance for the space of a day.  Not only is this difficult, if conversation is proceeding at anything resembling a reasonable pace....  I emerged from the experiment convinced not that he occupied some superior position (I believe this was the goal) but that he was hopelessly, irredeemably silly.

Further evidence of my lack of slave aptitude, it seems.

(still snickering)




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RE: Set of rules... - 10/21/2009 11:43:34 PM   
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Normally I'm kinda "meh" about threads dragged back from the dead, but in this case it reminded me that I happen to miss that Rabbit.

And I stand by my same thought back in December of last year that a modus operandi by which more information is disseminated into the discussion between two people courting each other is never a bad thing.

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