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ORIGINAL: lally3

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ORIGINAL: knotslandingdom
After all, your profile states:

I  am seeking a man who is interested in taking control of me both inside the bedroom and outside the bedroom to a certain degree. 

A relationship where i know my place and that place is to keep the man I am with happy and defer to his will.
 
I do get pleasure from pleasing and I am eager to do whatever he likes once I respect and trust him.

sorry, are you saying theres something wrong with these statements - just wondering.

i think that on an adult site nudity is erm... fine, isnt it?

whenever anyone comes up with unimaginative, boorish, wanker-style shite like that i either blank them because its too boring, or i go for it.... and roast him, depends largely on what sort of day ive had.

I'm not saying that at all.  There's nothing wrong with what she wrote or with the sexual pictures of herself on her profile, especially on this BDSM website.  I'm saying that if she wants men to write to her and not venture into any sex talk then she might want to consider making that more clear in her profile.  She's got pics of her naked ass on a public website and a man who's had an exchange of friendly emails with her decides to mention "something hard" and she gets offended by it to the point that she posts a thread about it.  She's advertising herself with pics that are sexual and saying she wants a man to take control of her "both inside the bedroom" and out.  So, if she gets upset when a man she has been corresponding with makes a comment about "something hard", she might want to reconsider the messages she's sending out with her profile pics and  statements.

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ORIGINAL: lally3

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ORIGINAL: knotslandingdom

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ORIGINAL: lally3

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ORIGINAL: knotslandingdom
After all, your profile states:

I  am seeking a man who is interested in taking control of me both inside the bedroom and outside the bedroom to a certain degree. 

A relationship where i know my place and that place is to keep the man I am with happy and defer to his will.
 
I do get pleasure from pleasing and I am eager to do whatever he likes once I respect and trust him.

sorry, are you saying theres something wrong with these statements - just wondering.

i think that on an adult site nudity is erm... fine, isnt it?

whenever anyone comes up with unimaginative, boorish, wanker-style shite like that i either blank them because its too boring, or i go for it.... and roast him, depends largely on what sort of day ive had.

I'm not saying that at all.  There's nothing wrong with what she wrote or with the sexual pictures of herself on her profile, especially on this BDSM website.  I'm saying that if she wants men to write to her and not venture into any sex talk then she might want to consider making that more clear in her profile.  She's got pics of her naked ass on a public website and a man who's had an exchange of friendly emails with her decides to mention "something hard" and she gets offended by it to the point that she posts a thread about it.  She's advertising herself with pics that are sexual and saying she wants a man to take control of her "both inside the bedroom" and out.  So, if she gets upset when a man she has been corresponding with makes a comment about "something hard", she might want to reconsider the messages she's sending out with her profile pics and  statements.

ok...., but we're not here to exchange fruit cake recipes - everyone knows why everyone is here, this is an adult sexuality site, sex is a given, nudity in some form or another on these sites is a given and its a persons perfect right to show what photos they like - showing her bare ass on a site that by its very nature has a 'thing' for bare asses is perfectly acceptable and normal and should not be seen as an invitation for some immature dorkass to be a prick.  he needs to grow up in a massive way.

the three sentances she has put there are common fair, it is subbie speak and normal pitch for a sub.  what else would you have her put.  that she likes kittens, goes to church and visits her parents regularly.

'do you want something hard' is possibly one of the most inane, moronic comments any man could come up with - it lacks charm, wit or creativity, it is by its very nature an insult to an intelligent woman who until that moment had been duped into thinking she was talking to a grown up.  the energy she expended on this prick must burn like fury.

im not having a go, , but im just at a loss to understand where youre coming from on this.

edited to add: the moronity of the comment has to be examined i think - wanting a hard cock is somewhat academic when youre separated by geography and only four emails into getting to know each other.  now, if they were already lovers and he was standing behind her and said 'do you want something hard' her likely reaction would have been far more favourable. 

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ORIGINAL: BRNaughtyAngel

Well I don't know what kind of pictures the OP has on her profile, but I do agree with knotslandingdom in that people who do have nude or sexually suggestive pics on their profile shouldn't be surprised when they receive sexually suggestive emails.

To some of these horny desperate fuckers, showing your neck is sexually suggestive.