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RE: This is a vent, What do you think ? *UPDATED* - 12/12/2008 5:47:33 PM   
MsWolfPrincess


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Status: offline 		I have actually found that there are a good number of men out there who love thicker women and usually the ones who have a hang up about it, have other issues as well and generally aren't all that nice anyway.  Be true to who you are, respect yourself first and then refuse to accept less from others.  

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RE: This is a vent, What do you think ? *UPDATED* - 12/12/2008 5:48:44 PM   
submissvelyhis


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RE: This is a vent, What do you think ? *UPDATED* - 12/12/2008 5:49:16 PM   
CarrieO


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ORIGINAL: FLMaster45

What are you looking for?

If you are looking for an "online Dom" - then I guess you got what you wanted.  Forgive me for not being warm and fuzzy, but "online BDSM" is like "Jumbo shrimp" or "Compassionate conservative" or "Military intelligence."  It's an oxymoron.

If you are looking for a real-life Dom, what the hell are you doing having cybersex?

And I'm sorry to say this, but most men aren't intersted in women who weigh 275 pounds.  I'm not saying you lose any worth or dignity as a person because of your appearance, nor that there aren't some men who prefer larger women.  But you cut your odds way down.  And whether it's your "fault" or not, it is what it is.


Yep...no one will mistake you for "warm and fuzzy".
 
I love when a person feels that by starting a discussion with "I'm sorry to say this...." that somehow it justifies his use of mean and un-called for words.  Where, exactly, in the OP did you read that her weight had anything to do with the responses she was recieving from doms? 
 
You have given us all a glowing example of what a "True Dom" is....

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RE: This is a vent, What do you think ? *UPDATED* - 12/12/2008 5:49:17 PM   
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ORIGINAL: SylvereApLeanan

S'ok Red.  Just go visit my MySpace page.  My playlist has new goodies.  It'll cure what ails ya. 

Did you add "Beat the Brat With a Baseball Bat" to your playlist?  Because, oddly enough, I've got that song in my head right now.


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RE: This is a vent, What do you think ? *UPDATED* - 12/12/2008 5:51:04 PM   
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RE: This is a vent, What do you think ? *UPDATED* - 12/12/2008 5:57:16 PM   
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And I'm sorry to say this, but most men aren't intersted in women who weigh 275 pounds.  I'm not saying you lose any worth or dignity as a person because of your appearance, nor that there aren't some men who prefer larger women.  But you cut your odds way down.  And whether it's your "fault" or not, it is what it is.


But the ones who are interested make all the uninterested ones worth it.

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RE: This is a vent, What do you think ? *UPDATED* - 12/12/2008 6:03:33 PM   
SylvereApLeanan


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ORIGINAL: RedMagic1

quote:

ORIGINAL: SylvereApLeanan

S'ok Red.  Just go visit my MySpace page.  My playlist has new goodies.  It'll cure what ails ya. 

Did you add "Beat the Brat With a Baseball Bat" to your playlist?  Because, oddly enough, I've got that song in my head right now.



No, but I've got some Ramones, Kill Hannah, and Rammstein.  The Rammstein, in particular, should be just right for your mood.

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RE: This is a vent, What do you think ? *UPDATED* - 12/12/2008 6:08:26 PM   
capacity


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Status: offline 		Hi this is my first post, so forgive me if its too much or too blunt. In response to FlMaster45

"And I'm sorry to say this, but most men aren't intersted in women who weigh 275 pounds.  I'm not saying you lose any worth or dignity as a person because of your appearance, nor that there aren't some men who prefer larger women.  But you cut your odds way down.  And whether it's your "fault" or not, it is what it is. "

Ya know, as a woman of unique size - a 6'2" bbw - i abso-freakin-lutely resent all you men who dismiss me as someone invaluable to be seen with.  My ass may be way too big for your particular tastes, but i have NEVER rejected  the many many white men with the standard issue  5.5  -  6 " penis which personally doesnt do nearly enough for me.  My ass CAN and surely will get smaller  but your dick is never gonna get any bigger  but i would be considered shallow for rejecting a man of that size!!
The double standard is ridiculous and im sick of it.   My capacity for love , compassion and servitude shouldnt be PIGNORED because my ass is too big.   And when i look at a mans cock,, my first thought shouldnt be ,, sigh, it is what it is.  AMEN.

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RE: This is a vent, What do you think ? *UPDATED* - 12/12/2008 6:08:37 PM   
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And I'm sorry to say this, but most men aren't intersted in women who weigh 275 pounds.


Do you have any data to support this claim?

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RE: This is a vent, What do you think ? *UPDATED* - 12/12/2008 6:11:27 PM   
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quote:

ORIGINAL: FLMaster45

And I'm sorry to say this, but most men aren't intersted in women who weigh 275 pounds. I'm not saying you lose any worth or dignity as a person because of your appearance, nor that there aren't some men who prefer larger women. But you cut your odds way down. And whether it's your "fault" or not, it is what it is.


Sorry to say this, but most people have no interest in sanctimonious neonazi body fascists dressing up their narrow-minded prejudices as either honesty or 'the truth'. Or does kicking someone when they're down give you a hard on?

To the OP.. you're an attractive woman who deserves to be loved for who you really are.. But.. maybe you need a bit of time to get over what you're going through right now but also looking at your profile you need a new attitude and a different profile. Your profile is negative and totally negates that one thing you claim to live - Christianity.

You don't need all this stress and emotional crap over someone who simply didn't give a toss about you, do you now? Save your feelings and emotions for someone who is worth it, and I'm sure there is someone, you just got to raise your standards a little and hold out for them.

Please bear in mind that the one thing which does make you attractive to others is how you come across and project yourself to others, and that just needs a new attitude, right?

Here's a song for you, please listen to the words, it might cheer you up.

If that doesn't work, try this one.

Best wishes, hugs, hang in there, and all that..

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RE: This is a vent, What do you think ? *UPDATED* - 12/12/2008 6:12:38 PM   
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ORIGINAL: capacity

Hi this is my first post, so forgive me if its too much or too blunt. In response to FlMaster45

"And I'm sorry to say this, but most men aren't intersted in women who weigh 275 pounds.  I'm not saying you lose any worth or dignity as a person because of your appearance, nor that there aren't some men who prefer larger women.  But you cut your odds way down.  And whether it's your "fault" or not, it is what it is. "

Ya know, as a woman of unique size - a 6'2" bbw - i abso-freakin-lutely resent all you men who dismiss me as someone invaluable to be seen with.  My ass may be way too big for your particular tastes, but i have NEVER rejected  the many many white men with the standard issue  5.5  -  6 " penis which personally doesnt do nearly enough for me.  My ass CAN and surely will get smaller  but your dick is never gonna get any bigger  but i would be considered shallow for rejecting a man of that size!!
The double standard is ridiculous and im sick of it.   My capacity for love , compassion and servitude shouldnt be PIGNORED because my ass is too big.   And when i look at a mans cock,, my first thought shouldnt be ,, sigh, it is what it is.  AMEN.


I 2nd that AMEN

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RE: This is a vent, What do you think ? *UPDATED* - 12/12/2008 6:13:13 PM   
MsWolfPrincess


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And it is awesome to groove to Games People Play.  That song was made umpteen years ago as a country song. 

< Message edited by MsWolfPrincess -- 12/12/2008 6:15:46 PM >

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RE: This is a vent, What do you think ? *UPDATED* - 12/12/2008 6:13:38 PM   
Aszhrae


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But really, who invited the charmer here to post. He just makes things worst.

Really dumb.

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RE: This is a vent, What do you think ? *UPDATED* - 12/12/2008 6:21:20 PM   
oceanwynds


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quote:

ORIGINAL: FLMaster45

What are you looking for?

If you are looking for an "online Dom" - then I guess you got what you wanted.  Forgive me for not being warm and fuzzy, but "online BDSM" is like "Jumbo shrimp" or "Compassionate conservative" or "Military intelligence."  It's an oxymoron.

If you are looking for a real-life Dom, what the hell are you doing having cybersex?

And I'm sorry to say this, but most men aren't intersted in women who weigh 275 pounds.  I'm not saying you lose any worth or dignity as a person because of your appearance, nor that there aren't some men who prefer larger women.  But you cut your odds way down.  And whether it's your "fault" or not, it is what it is.


Seems to be a lot of men that have an interest in bbw. I see it in real life all the time. Thank goodness not everyone lives in your world of what is.

To the OP
You look fine and you seem to be understanding where you made some mistakes. Acknowledge them and let them go.

Wish you luck
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RE: This is a vent, What do you think ? *UPDATED* - 12/12/2008 6:21:29 PM   
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RE: This is a vent, What do you think ? *UPDATED* - 12/12/2008 6:22:34 PM   
SylvereApLeanan


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And fwiw, I just glazed over the wanker's thin-centric post.  It's just as true that most women don't like guys with a paunch hanging over their belts.  But he doesn't seem to mind the one hanging over his.  Or the budding double chin he's got going.  *shrug* 

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RE: This is a vent, What do you think ? *UPDATED* - 12/12/2008 6:49:58 PM   
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ORIGINAL: SylvereApLeanan 
And fwiw, I just glazed over the wanker's thin-centric post.  It's just as true that most women don't like guys with a paunch hanging over their belts.  But he doesn't seem to mind the one hanging over his.  Or the budding double chin he's got going.  *shrug* 


And most women don't like his type of utter asshattedness, either. Shame that he doesn't recognize that.

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RE: This is a vent, What do you think ? *UPDATED* - 12/12/2008 6:51:25 PM   
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ORIGINAL: FLMaster45

What are you looking for?

If you are looking for an "online Dom" - then I guess you got what you wanted.  Forgive me for not being warm and fuzzy, but "online BDSM" is like "Jumbo shrimp" or "Compassionate conservative" or "Military intelligence."  It's an oxymoron.

If you are looking for a real-life Dom, what the hell are you doing having cybersex?

And I'm sorry to say this, but most men aren't intersted in women who weigh 275 pounds.  I'm not saying you lose any worth or dignity as a person because of your appearance, nor that there aren't some men who prefer larger women.  But you cut your odds way down.  And whether it's your "fault" or not, it is what it is.


I am sorry to say this but youre a total meanie.  I'd call you an ass but you like the depth and the warmth.  When someone admits their faults, its not polite to go digging for more things to make them feel bad for.  I for one know that just because youre a heavier chick that your odds arent cut down.  Shes a friggin hottie. 

FYI, pot, kettle, black.  Some women arent attracted to men who wear their pants way under their guts. 


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RE: This is a vent, What do you think ? *UPDATED* - 12/12/2008 6:59:24 PM   
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FLMaster: did you check out the post on being judgemental? Im sure you would have even more pearls of wisdom to add there.
 
submissivelyhis:  Honey, this life when you find the right person, can be totally awesome. However, you have to kiss, squash,  and cook more than your share of toads to get there. Just because you define yourself as a submissive, does not mean your values, standards, self preservation is required to go out the window-nope, uhuh, no way. It is the blending if the two, not the bending of one that makes it what it will become.
 
Just because a man or woman walks through these hallowed halls and professes to be a Dominant does not mean they are sprinkled with the pixie dust of truth, morals, values or grace, if they didn't have them before.    Ok so you've made a few booboos--its passed--learn, grow and move on.
 
 
 
 
 
 

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RE: This is a vent, What do you think ? *UPDATED* - 12/12/2008 7:03:13 PM   
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ORIGINAL: KyttynTheMynx

quote:

ORIGINAL: FLMaster45

What are you looking for?

If you are looking for an "online Dom" - then I guess you got what you wanted.  Forgive me for not being warm and fuzzy, but "online BDSM" is like "Jumbo shrimp" or "Compassionate conservative" or "Military intelligence."  It's an oxymoron.

If you are looking for a real-life Dom, what the hell are you doing having cybersex?

And I'm sorry to say this, but most men aren't intersted in women who weigh 275 pounds.  I'm not saying you lose any worth or dignity as a person because of your appearance, nor that there aren't some men who prefer larger women.  But you cut your odds way down.  And whether it's your "fault" or not, it is what it is.


I am sorry to say this but youre a total meanie.  I'd call you an ass but you like the depth and the warmth.  When someone admits their faults, its not polite to go digging for more things to make them feel bad for.  I for one know that just because youre a heavier chick that your odds arent cut down.  Shes a friggin hottie. 

FYI, pot, kettle, black.  Some women arent attracted to men who wear their pants way under their guts. 



Thank you , you just made my whole day.

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