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RE: Keeping the faith??? - 12/31/2005 10:15:50 PM

greenie

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i've found that just being happy and content with what i do have, not to mention grateful for everything i have, has made the wait for that special someone much easier to handle. It has also made me less likely to settle for mr. wrong because i'm not so desperate that i'll take the first "Dom" that comes along. i have played with some, had some training with one, but haven't yet met the "One" that i've been willing to give myself over completely to. But it's ok because my life is good and i could exist for the rest of my life with just me, my unmentionables (my real reason for life and contentment), my friends, and my job. Sometimes you just have to sit back and listen to the positive sounds of the world, the birds, the wind in the trees, the laughter of children, and remember that through all the bad there is much good in the world and in our lives.

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RE: Keeping the faith??? - 12/31/2005 11:57:45 PM

LATEXBABY64

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i read through a lot of the post. i have spent a lot of years in this lifestyle. Even when i was with someone i was alone. the complexity the fantasy concepts of love and bonding seem to not be the same as it was long time ago. i know what lonelyness is, i know what its like to be cheated on, betrayed and hurt. I know what it takes to make a love of a life time. But it would seem so few want to work at it or grow it they bail before you can fallow the natural order of things quick loves quick passion you tell me right from wrong. All i can tell you is it does take work. alot of times i do not care anymore cause like the person that started this post I have been burned one time to many. last one said i was not intelectuall enough. I got new for her thats a state of mind there is all kinds of Intelect what is worse is when you share all the wonderous bdsm things about you to someone whos only purpose is sexualty. its empty. i have learned some tricks how to keep the liars and manipulators away by taking ds or sex out of the mix. I get to know the person as a person. theres a time for bdsm later I understand no one is perfect never was looking for perfection but looking for a growing love thats different its what i want someone to share laughts and tears with so to speak. that means you give 100 percent into the relationship. yeah there will be times you disagree or fight may get on each others nerves even from time to time but thats normal what is not normal is using someone for self gratification or the full fillment of a fantasy most doms do that. sex can be a bad drug like anything can be abused which leads us into traps with the wrong person. they can say all the right things say what we want to hear. cause they are good listeners to them its a game. but we are not pawns gentle folk we a much more we are human beings with feelings and compassion and it is time we change ds back to what it was ment to be love in higher form. if you a tried of hurt as i am and depression and feeling of out of control change the play make them bend to your way of thinking. its time they played by the right rules. love is fuild it runs both ways if they are all about me then they can go have with them selves. for it is a we thing. we are not conquest to be had or won we are people looking for that right one
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