LaTigresse
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Aszhrae, you did not offend me. It is virtually impossible for anyone on here to do so. The reason I asked is that, many people that have the idea that women should not be subordinate, tend to think in relation of them being subordinate to men. I used to feel similarly and had a real case of the ass towards dominant men. Then, me being me, and always wanting to think things through reasonably, began to muse upon this. It followed something like this... "Okayyyy, soooo........LeeAnn if you don't think women should be subordinate, then where the hell are you going to find a partner.......since you've no interest in a male sub/slave? That kinda blows that out of the water. So, we can accept that there are lesbian/bi women that naturally want to submit to a dominant woman. Okay, I've got that! But wait!!!! What about the hetro/bi, submissive, women that want a relationship with a guy?!?! Oh no!! Does that mean they aren't allowed??? Now we've got to punish all hetro women just because they are naturally submissive? Well, that's not fair! They should be happy and fullfilled too. So that means there's got to be a yin to their yang. I guess we have to accept that SOMEWHERE out there, there MIGHT be a decent, honourable, dominant guy...(yeahhh right the little voice in my head said..prove it)." As I got to know more hetro/bi sub/slave women, to understand them, and respect them......it just follows that I would also begin to respect the choices they've made in their lives. Including their life partners! Now there is where the crux of the matter comes in. If I am going to give these women credit for their brains and choices, it would be hypocritical of me to call the men they've chose to serve, worthless schmucks. Granted, I am not perfect by any stretch of the imagination but even I could see the lack of logic in that. So, while some men that like to call themselves dominant, or master or whatever lofty title they slap on their ass, still annoy the shit out of me.........I have to admit there really are some pretty decent guys out there with some very awsome women serving them. They are happy and fullfilled and at the end of the day, that's really all that matters.
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My twisted, self deprecating, sense of humour, finds alot to laugh about, in your lack of one! Just because you are well educated, articulate, and can use big, fancy words, properly........does not mean you are right!
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