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RE: Would you ever take advice from your slave or do yo... - 12/19/2008 3:54:22 PM   
JRiddle


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Status: offline 		In general, I would say that I would listen to my sub and expect my Dom to do the same for me. However, it could be possible for me to find someone who desires for the Top to make all decisions. I have seen one relationship that worked very well this way. She wanted an older dominant man to make her decisions for her. When he suggested for her to stop smoking, she instantly did. The drawback to this style relationship is the lack of input from the sub. I am not sure how well I could handle such a relationship.

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RE: Would you ever take advice from your slave or do yo... - 12/19/2008 4:10:09 PM   
Aileen1968


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Status: offline 		I'm brilliant.  Why wouldn't he take my advice? 

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RE: Would you ever take advice from your slave or do yo... - 12/19/2008 4:26:30 PM   
sblady


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Status: offline 		When I read comments about people not wanting to accept advice from a submissive, slave, etc., I'm always reminded of advice I gave a very dear friend: Accept the plea bargain, you'll be out in less than 2 years.

Sadly, he didn't listen and he's well into his 8th year in a cage...not a nice cage like Resident Sadist and Everhope's.

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RE: Would you ever take advice from your slave or do yo... - 12/19/2008 6:27:02 PM   
Huntertn


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Status: offline 		why refuse to take advantage of others experiences...?????

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RE: Would you ever take advice from your slave or do yo... - 12/19/2008 9:17:22 PM   
IronBear


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ORIGINAL: lobodomslavery

Talked to a Lady on these boards and she said that in her household, she never defers to her slave's concerns, how realistic can this be really people, can Mistress/Master always know best, are there times when you take on board your slave's view, after all should Mistress/Master be expected to be on top of everything really?
kevin



I make the final decisions which has never stopped me from taking on board the opinions of others, especially if they are based on experience. Ragarding slaves and family, I will actively seek input from them as it helps me keep the home ballanced.


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RE: Would you ever take advice from your slave or do yo... - 12/20/2008 2:15:13 AM   
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Status: offline 		The key word in your question is "defer".  My Master doesn't do anything in deference to me but often makes decisions in agreement with me. 

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RE: Would you ever take advice from your slave or do yo... - 12/20/2008 5:15:46 AM   
agnostic


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Status: offline 		My Habibi always listens to me and respects and honors my opinions so long as it does no harm to anyone including myself. He gives me options to do as I please, but the second I go too far with what I say or do and it hurts someone's feelings, property, or body, He steps in. Then I have to do as He says until He's done teaching me my lesson.

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RE: Would you ever take advice from your slave or do yo... - 12/20/2008 8:27:40 AM   
HypnoticShadow


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ORIGINAL: Mercnbeth

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Would you ever take advice from your slave or do you make all the decisions

Yes - All the time.

I'm 'Master' within the dynamic of our relationship - not 'Pope' assigned infallibility by a 'higher power'.



This pretty much sums up my thoughts on the matter.

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RE: Would you ever take advice from your slave or do yo... - 12/20/2008 12:02:31 PM   
celticlord2112


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Would you ever take advice from your slave or do you make all the decisions

Yes


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RE: Would you ever take advice from your slave or do yo... - 12/20/2008 12:11:39 PM   
DrkJourney


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Status: offline 		I don't mind input, when presented at the appropriate time, and it depends on what it's about.  I weigh the pros and cons, but the final decision is mine.  Basically, what it boils down to, I make the decisions, that's one reason one chooses a dominant.   You put that trust in him or her to make the right decisions

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