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IronBear -> RE: Would you punish your slave in public (12/22/2008 8:21:26 AM)
Actually in some cases I'd like to bring baclk both public birchings and public flogging (not too brutal) for sertain offenders both young and adults.. The humiliation may serve to open eyes to more productive pass times than whatthe do (like grafiti and juvie gangs) but I'll be in the minority there..

HypnoticShadow -> RE: Would you punish your slave in public (12/22/2008 8:24:37 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: IronBear Actually in some cases I'd like to bring baclk both public birchings and public flogging (not too brutal) for sertain offenders both young and adults.. The humiliation may serve to open eyes to more productive pass times than whatthe do (like grafiti and juvie gangs) but I'll be in the minority there.. Agreed!

Lynnxz -> RE: Would you punish your slave in public (12/22/2008 8:27:11 AM)
Meh, I've seen some of the canings they do for criminals in Singapore and Malaysia... there's no way you're getting that past the human rights groups. [:D]

royalgoodness -> RE: Would you punish your slave in public (12/22/2008 4:19:08 PM)
The worst punishment I received in public was a dressing down That only I could hear in my ear and then I wasn't allowed to be with her. She sent me home. When She got home I was ordered to a flea bag motel til further notice. that was three days. When I did get home further ignore status for a month. The infraction dropping a $200 vase that the store didn't have another for. It was to be a gift to a very special female friend of hers for her birthday the next day. That I was bumped by someone and had 6 bags total and a lot of ofter stuff broke and I twisted up my ankle because of it didn't matter. That gift cost me big punishment .

andreaC -> RE: Would you punish your slave in public (12/25/2008 2:44:11 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: lobodomslavery Would you punish your slave in public if he embarrassed you or annoyed you by his/her behaviour or would you wait till you got home. Or with adults is there just no place for punishment in today's world, we either click as a partnership or we part our ways kevin I would say that it depends where we are, if it is with vanilla acquaintances, Master would give me the look that says it all, wait til we get home. If we are with others of bdsm lifestyle, Master would definately punish me, but discreetly.

celticlord2112 -> RE: Would you punish your slave in public (12/25/2008 2:47:42 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: IronBear Actually in some cases I'd like to bring baclk both public birchings and public flogging (not too brutal) for sertain offenders both young and adults.. The humiliation may serve to open eyes to more productive pass times than whatthe do (like grafiti and juvie gangs) but I'll be in the minority there.. I agree. Floggings, canings, the stocks....cheaper than jails, and with the potential to actually succeed in deterring bad behavior.

leadership527 -> RE: Would you punish your slave in public (12/25/2008 3:21:27 PM)
Praise in public, punish in private. Yet another of those old saws that got to be that way for a reason. In truth though, I find very little reason to be punishing my girl. Seldom does she thwart me and on the rare occasions that it does happen, a simple discussion seems to work just fine. I'm all for lowering the melodrama level whenever possible.

FaithBlue -> RE: Would you punish your slave in public (12/25/2008 3:56:55 PM)
I have yet to be punished in public. My Dom allows my requests to not be punished around where my office is and will either wait until we are away from that area or are in private.

IronBear -> RE: Would you punish your slave in public (12/25/2008 4:31:57 PM)
I'm in favour of the subtle chastisements for the public arena which have been discussed. After all, unless you are an attention seeking whore monger and complete imbecile who air your dirty laundry in the public and especially when more than a few are likely to be actively anti BDSM anyway.

hardbodysub -> RE: Would you punish your slave in public (12/25/2008 5:24:33 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: celticlord2112 quote: ORIGINAL: IronBear Actually in some cases I'd like to bring baclk both public birchings and public flogging (not too brutal) for sertain offenders both young and adults.. The humiliation may serve to open eyes to more productive pass times than whatthe do (like grafiti and juvie gangs) but I'll be in the minority there.. I agree. Floggings, canings, the stocks....cheaper than jails, and with the potential to actually succeed in deterring bad behavior. I'm all for it, as long as the tables get turned when it turns out that the people punished were actually innocent.

bratinneed -> RE: Would you punish your slave in public (12/25/2008 6:53:57 PM)
I'm sorry but you're completely missing what the poster is saying... If you read the post very carefully, the important word you are missing is...is. The poster is merely asking if there is a place for punishing adults in public or if that cannot be done because of whatever stigma would be attached to it. No where in there is Keven judging anyone for their decision to either punish or not in public. Now..to answer the poster... If I misbehave in public I can be assured that he will come up behind me, grab me by my hair, pull my head back and ask me if I'm finished. This generally gets the response he's looking for but if it doesn't, I know there will be more of a punishment when we get home. We try to keep it very basic, very non obtrusive to others when in public. ~Brat~ quote: ORIGINAL: YourhandMyAss That's being judgmental. You're saying there's no place for punishing adults. If we're adults punishment is inappropriate. It doesn't matter which way you stated it, weather it's there's no place for punishment with adults, or there's no place for punishment of adults, You're still saying the same thing, just saying it differently.. Now, maybe if you had said in my relationship, the difference being you're refering to yours and not ALL adults, then it wouldn't be judgmental. quote: ORIGINAL: lobodomslavery No Ma'am im not being judgemental. if you read what i say, im saying is there no place for punishment with adults, im throwing out the question, if i was judgemental i would say there is no place for punishment of adults, but i didnt say that thanks kevin

YourhandMyAss -> RE: Would you punish your slave in public (12/25/2008 6:57:36 PM)
See for me I'd refuse to punishment cause accidents don't get punished in my relationship. I'd tell him no YOU go to a fleabag hotel, and you stay there and don't come back, your stuff will be on the curb tomorow, * since he lives with me* if he was to try to pull shit like punishing me for something that was A an accident and B the fault of someone else. She shouldn't of been expecting you to old 6 bags and a priceless item. She's an idiot in my estimation. But my estimation and what I would do don't count since I'm not the one in the relationship. quote: ORIGINAL: royalgoodness The worst punishment I received in public was a dressing down That only I could hear in my ear and then I wasn't allowed to be with her. She sent me home. When She got home I was ordered to a flea bag motel til further notice. that was three days. When I did get home further ignore status for a month. The infraction dropping a $200 vase that the store didn't have another for. It was to be a gift to a very special female friend of hers for her birthday the next day. That I was bumped by someone and had 6 bags total and a lot of ofter stuff broke and I twisted up my ankle because of it didn't matter. That gift cost me big punishment .

IronBear -> RE: Would you punish your slave in public (12/25/2008 10:19:03 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: YourhandMyAss See for me I'd refuse to punishment cause accidents don't get punished in my relationship. I'd tell him no YOU go to a fleabag hotel, and you stay there and don't come back, your stuff will be on the curb tomorow, * since he lives with me* if he was to try to pull shit like punishing me for something that was A an accident and B the fault of someone else. She shouldn't of been expecting you to old 6 bags and a priceless item. She's an idiot in my estimation. But my estimation and what I would do don't count since I'm not the one in the relationship. Y'see I don't punish for accidents, I correct them. However I do understand what you say. All this however is immaterial because with your attitude, you wouldn't even place a foot on my property let alone get a sniff of a collar from me. What works for you and the relationships and dynamic you prefer is great, just not for me and my home..

LeMis -> RE: Would you punish your slave in public (12/26/2008 3:47:12 PM)
Knowing that I have disappointed someone that I care for would be a HUGE punishment for me, nobody can be harder on me than me [&:]

YourhandMyAss -> RE: Would you punish your slave in public (12/26/2008 9:56:55 PM)
It's a good thing then I don't believe in collars, And even if I did that I'm not interested in setting foot on your property, or joining your house :) quote: ORIGINAL: IronBear quote: ORIGINAL: YourhandMyAss See for me I'd refuse to punishment cause accidents don't get punished in my relationship. I'd tell him no YOU go to a fleabag hotel, and you stay there and don't come back, your stuff will be on the curb tomorow, * since he lives with me* if he was to try to pull shit like punishing me for something that was A an accident and B the fault of someone else. She shouldn't of been expecting you to old 6 bags and a priceless item. She's an idiot in my estimation. But my estimation and what I would do don't count since I'm not the one in the relationship. Y'see I don't punish for accidents, I correct them. However I do understand what you say. All this however is immaterial because with your attitude, you wouldn't even place a foot on my property let alone get a sniff of a collar from me. What works for you and the relationships and dynamic you prefer is great, just not for me and my home..

MistressRouge -> RE: Would you punish your slave in public (12/27/2008 1:15:13 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: CallaFirestormBW I would discipline a servant -immediately- in the same way that I would say something to a companion or deal with a mis-behaving offspring. However, it wouldn't be done in such a way that it would be blatant and obvious to strangers walking down the street (aside from me looking pissed). I don't understand why people seem to think that it isn't possible to be direct and maintain control, -and- be discrete. I've never had an issue with it. I agree with this too, and most definately my approach. I have viewed someone make a scene out of punishing their sub at a club, a female young Domme. A sharp thwack of a faceslap, and screaming at the top of her voice. I shuddered at it to be honest, she had banished him to the entrance of the fetish club, I left early and her sub was still flirting with other Dommes on their way out. So in hindsight that was the worse place to banish her sub at the time, great access to all the other femdom's leaving lol, but I really enjoyed viewing, and hearing the bitchslap back hander [:D]

myotherself -> RE: Would you punish your slave in public (12/27/2008 1:40:11 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: IronBear quote: ORIGINAL: YourhandMyAss See for me I'd refuse to punishment cause accidents don't get punished in my relationship. I'd tell him no YOU go to a fleabag hotel, and you stay there and don't come back, your stuff will be on the curb tomorow, * since he lives with me* if he was to try to pull shit like punishing me for something that was A an accident and B the fault of someone else. She shouldn't of been expecting you to old 6 bags and a priceless item. She's an idiot in my estimation. But my estimation and what I would do don't count since I'm not the one in the relationship. Y'see I don't punish for accidents, I correct them. However I do understand what you say. All this however is immaterial because with your attitude, you wouldn't even place a foot on my property let alone get a sniff of a collar from me. What works for you and the relationships and dynamic you prefer is great, just not for me and my home.. [sm=bowdown.gif][sm=bowdown.gif][sm=bowdown.gif][sm=agree.gif]

steviemichael -> RE: Would you punish your slave in public (12/27/2008 3:24:09 AM)
quote: Yes, punishment can take place in public if you have the balls or should i say you dont mind wasteing several years of your life in a cell depending of course which country you belong.

IronBear -> RE: Would you punish your slave in public (12/27/2008 8:12:41 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: steviemichael quote: Yes, punishment can take place in public if you have the balls or should i say you dont mind wasteing several years of your life in a cell depending of course which country you belong. Surely, this would depend on the type of punishment? You are not suggesting that "The Look" or a verbal reprimand would incur a period of incarceration?

YourhandMyAss -> RE: Would you punish your slave in public (12/27/2008 2:17:35 PM)
steviemichael, You haven't pa yed attention at all to the people who've demonstrated how they could punish appropriately and not draw any attention. So nice generalization, but it doesn't fly. It doesn't take balls and you're not going to waste several years in prison, If you're apropriate about it. quote: ORIGINAL: steviemichael quote: Yes, punishment can take place in public if you have the balls or should i say you dont mind wasteing several years of your life in a cell depending of course which country you belong.

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