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JustDarkness -> RE: Would you punish your slave in public (12/27/2008 2:25:02 PM)
If I had to punish her in public...I did something wrong in training her. Corrections..yes....but if I needed punishment as a tool in public...I will rethink her position. (unless punishment is giving her the evil eye ;) ) good evening btw

YourhandMyAss -> RE: Would you punish your slave in public (12/27/2008 2:31:40 PM)
You see I don't have to care or worry what any one else thinks, cause they're not my Daddy and they never will be. So as long as my Daddy doesn't care, what you all think doesn't matter. You could think I'd be better suited sitting in a cage on the moon and it wouldn't affect or matter to me. quote: ORIGINAL: myotherself [sm=bowdown.gif][sm=bowdown.gif][sm=bowdown.gif][sm=agree.gif]

BondageBarbieX -> RE: Would you punish your slave in public (12/28/2008 12:11:47 AM)
That would depend on your slaves limits.If he is ok with public humiliation do it otherwise don't.

IronBear -> RE: Would you punish your slave in public (12/28/2008 5:25:06 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: BondageBarbieX That would depend on your slaves limits.If he is ok with public humiliation do it otherwise don't. Not altogether true. What you said fits with subs generally but generally it is the nature of slaves to obey. It matters not if they are ok with public humiliation or not. They always have the two "Escapes" Beg for release Walk A good Master knows his slaves limits and she or he knows what to expect if they step over the line. besides which as so many have already posted, punishment can be very subtle and others nereby would not pick it up.

julietsierra -> RE: Would you punish your slave in public (12/28/2008 5:46:54 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: DarkSteven quote: ORIGINAL: lobodomslavery Or with adults is there just no place for punishment in today's world, we either click as a partnership or we part our ways kevin Um. kevin, punishment when deserved is a component of damn near every D/s and M/s relationship. Haven't you read any of the posts on collarme? Except mine. We're definitely one of the "we either click as a partnership or we part ways." group. However, some of my greatest lessons have been learned through what's happened in a public venue - even if no one else knew he was helping me to learn something important. juliet

julietsierra -> RE: Would you punish your slave in public (12/28/2008 5:58:27 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: YourhandMyAss You see I don't have to care or worry what any one else thinks, cause they're not my Daddy and they never will be. So as long as my Daddy doesn't care, what you all think doesn't matter. You could think I'd be better suited sitting in a cage on the moon and it wouldn't affect or matter to me. quote: ORIGINAL: myotherself [sm=bowdown.gif][sm=bowdown.gif][sm=bowdown.gif][sm=agree.gif] wow.. was it a bad christmas or is antagonism just a way of life these days? First off, the OP simply asked a question. There wasn't anything judgmental in his question. It was JUST a question. And the ball started rolling from there. THEN, you call someone else's mistress an idiot but oh, so nicely qualify that with a "but it's not my place to say because it's not my relationship."... well, you DID say...and it still wasn't your relationship. So, it occurred to me that perhaps christmas is just a difficult time of the year? I don't know what the deal really is, but wow. The vitriol is literally dripping in nearly every one of your responses to this thread... do you even realize it? juliet

kdmfl -> RE: Would you punish your slave in public (12/28/2008 6:08:00 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: LuckyAlbatross Yes, punishment can take place in public- as long as it is discreet and does not interfere or actively push itself into the space of others. Behavioral training can come in many forms, many relationships do not include punishment in theirs. Though it has little to do with people "clicking" I agree completely. I don't feel we have to hide in shadows but as I want others to be respectful to my choices, I wish to be respectful of theirs as well.

myotherself -> RE: Would you punish your slave in public (12/28/2008 6:13:37 AM)
if it didn't bother you...you wouldn't have posted...just sayin'....

BondageBarbieX -> RE: Would you punish your slave in public (12/28/2008 7:22:24 AM)
Hmm... IronBear....Slaves usually have contracts or some kind of set hard limits.I have rarely seen a no limit slave so I will still say that if his slave has a hard limit of no humiliation or pubic degradation that would be a no on public punishment as well.

IronBear -> RE: Would you punish your slave in public (12/28/2008 7:34:22 AM)
quote: Not altogether true. What you said fits with subs generally but generally it is the nature of slaves to obey. It matters not if they are ok with public humiliation or not. They always have the two "Escapes" 1. Beg for release 2. Walk A good Master knows his slaves limits and she or he knows what to expect if they step over the line. besides which as so many have already posted, punishment can be very subtle and others nereby would not pick it up. I too have rarely seen a no limits slave but I have seen an d know a good number of slaves whose limits are mirrored by their owners which give the impression of being no limits. However we were not speaking about no limit slaves and in fact if you peruse my original post (quoted above) I have highlited my comment which says nothing about either no limits or all slaves I did say generally it is the nature of slaves to obey. Now I don't know your slave background and it is nothing to do with me anyway, but when I talk about slaves I do refer to both the Goreamn kajiri and those slaves owned by Masters and Mistresses whose philosophy is akin to that of the Gorean Lifestyle Masters regarding slaves and disclipline. I also commented:"as so many have already posted, punishment can be very subtle and others nereby would not pick it up"..[;)]

YourhandMyAss -> RE: Would you punish your slave in public (12/31/2008 8:34:58 PM)
Aah, see but you're assuming, that punishment has to be about humiliation, or public degradation. When my Daddy got after me and lightly smacked my hand, for being inappropriate in public at the dinner where his sister in law worked, about the ranch looking like cum, It was neither public humiliation or degradation, In fact nobody even had a clue I'd just been chewed out. OR when he asked do you want to go home and forget having lunch, because I was annoying him* Yes taking me home and not getting me lunch would be a punishment to us* Same as when he put his arm around me, pulled me close and explained to me quietly and firmly in my ear, we will NOT be buying a liquor drink since he's paying for the meal end of discussion. To other people, if they'd bothered to be looking at us, which nobody was, it would of looked like a brief side armed hug, from a man to his woman. And, while the second one might not count as punishment, the first one certainly did. Why do people keep insisting that it has to be humiliating or degrading to be punished in public. Or even that sure if you want to go to jail and enjoy jail time. It's not like the people who said yes they'd punish their slave, said they would beat them or embarrass them or make a scene or be so violent they got arrested. . Tons of people in fact said they could discipline quite effectively and not make any one bat an eye. Hell punishment isn't one dimensional, it's not something that either has to be humiliating, Embarrassing, Degrading, nor does it have to be something you'll go to jail for. quote: ORIGINAL: BondageBarbieX Hmm... IronBear....Slaves usually have contracts or some kind of set hard limits.I have rarely seen a no limit slave so I will still say that if his slave has a hard limit of no humiliation or pubic degradation that would be a no on public punishment as well.

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