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RE: sex object - 12/21/2008 11:33:18 AM   
myotherself


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I'd say it's reasonable for Bill Gatification to be a part of BDSM if that's your kink.....


Dammit Raechard - you been reading my diary again?!

It's not MY fault that I lust after middle-aged, geeky multibillionaires, now is it?

Sheesh...

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RE: sex object - 12/21/2008 11:34:36 AM   
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I would certainly hope that my partner sees me as a sex object.. as well as his partner, friend, etc


MsGreedy you want your partners partner and his friend to see you as a sex object?
 
I'm shocked.


smartass :) (I still adore you)

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RE: sex object - 12/21/2008 11:40:51 AM   
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how 'bout if I refine the question. is it reasonable for sex objectification to be a component of a BDSM (or vanilla for that matter) relationship?

If you want it to be. 

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RE: sex object - 12/21/2008 11:42:39 AM   
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ORIGINAL: myotherself
Dammit Raechard - you been reading my diary again?!
It's not MY fault that I lust after middle-aged, geeky multibillionaires, now is it?
Sheesh...

Purrrrrrr...


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RE: sex object - 12/21/2008 11:44:14 AM   
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RE: sex object - 12/21/2008 11:44:58 AM   
Raechard


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smartass :) (I still adore you)

MsGreedy I have always seen you as a sexy object, I hold my hands up to that.

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RE: sex object - 12/21/2008 11:44:59 AM   
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ORIGINAL: Raechard

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ORIGINAL: myotherself
Dammit Raechard - you been reading my diary again?!
It's not MY fault that I lust after middle-aged, geeky multibillionaires, now is it?
Sheesh...

Purrrrrrr...



Now THAT'S what I call a sex object...woohoo!!!

Be still, my beating parts....

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RE: sex object - 12/21/2008 12:21:19 PM   
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how 'bout if I refine the question. is it reasonable for sex objectification to be a component of a BDSM (or vanilla for that matter) relationship?


Works for me ...

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RE: sex object - 12/21/2008 12:29:09 PM   
kallisto


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RE: sex object - 12/21/2008 12:33:56 PM   
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ORIGINAL: sobayblackmaster
is it wrong to expect that the other person in one's relationship be available to be treated as a sex object?



Wrong in whose eyes?  Reasonable in whose eyes?  What may be unreasonable to one person is perfectly reasonable to another.  Is this a serious question, or are you just trying to start a discussion?

I cannot imagine NOT treating someone as a sex object, nor can I imagine NOT being treated as a sex object.  Sometimes, you just want to bang some headboard.  Vanilla or not, makes no difference.


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RE: sex object - 12/21/2008 12:39:00 PM   
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RE: sex object - 12/21/2008 12:43:05 PM   
hejira92


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Status: offline 		I, personally, would not be in this 24/7, D/s, loving, committed relationship if I were not frequently objectified, used as a series of holes to slake His lust, f*cked roughly with pain, and strung up in public and "tortured" to amuse/indulge His sadistic tendencies.
 
Ah. Good times.....
 
So, yes, it is reasonable (for us) for sex objectification to be a component of a BDSM relationship.

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RE: sex object - 12/21/2008 2:35:33 PM   
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I'm curious how you draw that conclusion.

Simple.  Some people get their kink out of being wrong.

Alternate construction:  It's very wrong, unless you want it to be right.


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RE: sex object - 12/21/2008 5:41:39 PM   
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Status: offline 		I'm gunna get me one of them there sex objects... you betcha... justin as soon as I go out yonder and fix this here castle pipe...  Oh ya I hear them sex objects work even when half inflated.  I know's cause ma cousin Jimmy over dar in tha next county says he an Billy Bob Truckin tried out one of them there sex objects whilst Jimmy was smoken some rolled tobaccy and got a lil close.  So I's figurin one ought ta do me just fine with my big ol strap on... yes sir... gunna get me one of those sex objects for Christmas!

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RE: sex object - 12/21/2008 6:07:22 PM   
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ORIGINAL: sobayblackmaster
is it wrong to expect that the other person in one's relationship be available to be treated as a sex object?



Is this a serious question, or are you just trying to start a discussion?

Cali


truthfully it's something I struggle with. it's about superimposing your needs or desires onto the other person. I guess in some eyes that's part of the dom's role. as always I appreciate your cynicism ;-)

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RE: sex object - 12/21/2008 6:11:05 PM   
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it's about superimposing your needs or desires onto the other person. I guess in some eyes that's part of the dom's role.

Gee, why ever would you think that?


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RE: sex object - 12/21/2008 6:13:24 PM   
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it's about superimposing your needs or desires onto the other person. I guess in some eyes that's part of the dom's role.

Gee, why ever would you think that?



is there a Dom 101 class you'd suggest?

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RE: sex object - 12/21/2008 6:14:23 PM   
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Status: offline 		I don't mind being regarded as a sex object.  In fact, I like objectification and would like to experience it to a higher degree than I have thus far.  BUT, if that's the only aspect of the relationship, it would fall short for me pretty quickly.

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RE: sex object - 12/21/2008 6:15:36 PM   
Aileen1968


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RE: sex object - 12/21/2008 6:17:26 PM   
celticlord2112


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is there a dom 101 class you'd suggest?

Hell no!

Me?  Class?  Surely you joust!

(No one has ever accused me of having class....at least not with a straight face)

In a more serious vein--there is no "dom 101 class".  You want to dom, you take charge, impose your will, and make decisions.  When you fuck up and the slave runs screaming into the night, you say "aw....hell" and resolve to tie the knots a wee bit tighter next time.


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