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RE: sex object - 12/21/2008 10:12:49 PM

sobayblackmaster

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I know it happens all over the world. I'm not that naive. When we take that concept into the BDSM (and by association, extreme) environment though things become a bit more poignant, dramatic, IMO.

Just because it's a part of the BDSM lifestyle, that doesn't necessarily make it more extreme. I agree there are aspects that can be different. However, in the end, the sex itself is no more extreme, the foreplay can be.

I fear I'm failing to see how it can be more poignant or dramatic. It's about what floats your boat. For some, it's a good spanking *shiver*, for others it's making out and random groping in the dark. Poignant how?

nevermind. this is gettin too mental again. my bad.

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RE: sex object - 12/21/2008 10:29:55 PM

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My slave is most definitely my sex object... whenever I so choose. She is also my whipping post, my maid, my butler, my lover, my friend, and my partner... Also, whenever I so choose.

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RE: sex object - 12/21/2008 10:34:28 PM

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ORIGINAL: sobayblackmaster

nevermind. this is gettin too mental again. my bad.

I should be the one to apologize. I fear I may have been over-thinking the question. Besides, one should never, apologize when they are doing no harm. And you haven't done any harm that I can see, you're merely seeking knowledge, clarification, and other points of view. No harm there, sbbm.

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RE: sex object - 12/21/2008 10:38:36 PM

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ORIGINAL: sobayblackmaster

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ORIGINAL: GoodFeathers

quote:

ORIGINAL: sobayblackmaster

I know it happens all over the world. I'm not that naive. When we take that concept into the BDSM (and by association, extreme) environment though things become a bit more poignant, dramatic, IMO.

Just because it's a part of the BDSM lifestyle, that doesn't necessarily make it more extreme. I agree there are aspects that can be different. However, in the end, the sex itself is no more extreme, the foreplay can be.

I fear I'm failing to see how it can be more poignant or dramatic. It's about what floats your boat. For some, it's a good spanking *shiver*, for others it's making out and random groping in the dark. Poignant how?

nevermind. this is gettin too mental again. my bad.

Okay, I read through this entire thread. I have to say that the answers you were given about communication are on the head. It is only okay if everyone involved says it's okay. Plain and simple, the word is CONSENT!

I would honestly suggest that you find a Mentor, a Dom who can help you learn. The boot camp that cali listed is an awesome way to learn dynamics. Also a local group can help with demos, seminars, and events. The bay area has Southern Cross, SmOdyssey, SOJ, and more.

Questions like this show a lack of understanding of simple D/s principles in my opinion.

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RE: sex object - 12/22/2008 5:43:07 AM

sobayblackmaster

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ORIGINAL: GoodFeathers

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ORIGINAL: sobayblackmaster

nevermind. this is gettin too mental again. my bad.

I should be the one to apologize. I fear I may have been over-thinking the question. Besides, one should never, apologize when they are doing no harm. And you haven't done any harm that I can see, you're merely seeking knowledge, clarification, and other points of view. No harm there, sbbm.

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