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RE: Shut the F*&^ up... - 12/24/2008 1:06:37 PM

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Hell. It sounds like a typical interaction at the local hillbilly bar to me.

"Shut the fuck up!"

"Fuck off you stupid cocksucker!"

"Kiss my ass motherfucker!"

"Bring that ass over here bitch!"

"Oh, fuck you!"

All, melodic, lilting words of love in Hillbillyville.......

You describe the din of a typical social gathering IMO.

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RE: Shut the F*&^ up... - 12/24/2008 1:09:41 PM

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Well if it was me it wouldn't go over very well, but then again I am about as submissive as a Mack truck barreling down the highway at 100 miles an hour, And I choose people who will respect me more than to speak so rudely to me, and yes I feel telling someone to shut the fuck up is rude. In my relationship at least. Not speaking for any one elses though.

So I'd say let go of my hair, I might even slap his hands off my hair, and say if you want something from me DO NOT EVER do that again or speak to me so rudely again. And I would probably maybe get up and leave.

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ORIGINAL: DomDG

In a recent post it was said that the words implied were used when a sub expressed some concerns to a new potential Dom. I admit that the dom winds up being a domASS in this case.

Many of the respondents said that using those words would be a end to the relationship. So I wonder..

A couple is sitting somewhere, you pick the place. They may have just had dinner or watched a movie or whatever. The sub is talking maybe it's about the weather, the plans for tomorrow, maybe about her period, who knows. The Dom reaches over, grabs a handfull of hair and says, "shut the f#$% up and get over here!"

What's the reaction then?

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RE: Shut the F*&^ up... - 12/24/2008 1:11:32 PM

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Yup, that is true, and it's something my mom has never learned, and at almost 70 will probably never learn. Sometimes when she wants something she speaks to me in the rudest nastiest ways, and then is shocked when I don't reply in the nicest way either.

One time she came out here and said clean up your living space it looks like a bunch of Dirty niggers live here. I told her if she ever spoke to me like that again I would simply just walk away from her and ignore her and her request, since she was out of line. There are far better ways to convey a request than to use racist and rude statements.

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If it is done out of disrespect, then game over. I have never found vulgarity appealing and its not even a remote turn on for me. Though I guess for some it could be a turn on to be cussed at. You catch a lot more flies with honey than you do with vinegar.

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RE: Shut the F*&^ up... - 12/24/2008 1:12:08 PM

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Context, context, context.

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RE: Shut the F*&^ up... - 12/24/2008 1:25:24 PM

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My reaction is either to simply shut the fuck up like I was told, or if I happen to be in a mood, glare at Him and say "Make me bitch." And the band will play on.

If I was viewing that situation from across the room, it wouldnt really affect me much. Thats their business. I think the most it could cause me to do is get hat and bothered and go find the Man to do a lil humpin.

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RE: Shut the F*&^ up... - 12/24/2008 1:33:09 PM

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Never would happen in My relationship, I find the use of vulgarity childish and reprehensible. I am only speaking of MY relationship

A mere look from Me has melted subs into acquiescence.

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RE: Shut the F*&^ up... - 12/24/2008 1:35:54 PM

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From the people involved or the outside observer.

If I'm the outside observer, honestly my radar goes on. If they are a vanilla couple my concern is abuse. If they are kinky -- how would I know that? -- I'm a bit offended that they feel the need to shove their kink into the general world in that fashion.

If it's us, it would never be us because I didn't get consent from the folks around me so anything I said to my slav would be rather quiet, then Fox would say nothing and just look at me, waiting for my next words or actions.

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RE: Shut the F*&^ up... - 12/24/2008 2:20:58 PM

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In the original referenced post, wasn't it done by text message? (I'm too lazy to go look)

In that context, it would be "game over".

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RE: Shut the F*&^ up... - 12/24/2008 2:57:45 PM

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The word 'fuck' is not a word with clear definition, it is used for so much, therefore it's use in as sentence displays a complete inadequacy with a persons own language, something which is nothing to be admired. Swear at me, expect something similar in return, but if I were in a position of not being able to offer a return, then surely disrespect will follow.

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RE: Shut the F*&^ up... - 12/24/2008 3:42:29 PM

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Never would happen in My relationship, I find the use of vulgarity childish and reprehensible. I am only speaking of MY relationship

A mere look from Me has melted subs into acquiescence.

A me too post, I rarely use profanities especially swearing aimed at my subs, never.

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RE: Shut the F*&^ up... - 12/24/2008 4:22:48 PM

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It's all in the context. Can be very hot, or damaging, depending on the relationship and circumstances.

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yup

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RE: Shut the F*&^ up... - 12/24/2008 4:42:39 PM

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~FR~ I respond much better to 'please be quiet', but, honestly, a hair pull? I'm toast and.. I'm shutting the fuck up because about that point, I'm not thinking about my mouth anymore.

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RE: Shut the F*&^ up... - 12/24/2008 4:44:48 PM

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ORIGINAL: LaTigresse

Hell. It sounds like a typical interaction at the local hillbilly bar to me.

"Shut the fuck up!"

"Fuck off you stupid cocksucker!"

"Kiss my ass motherfucker!"

"Bring that ass over here bitch!"

"Oh, fuck you!"

All, melodic, lilting words of love in Hillbillyville.......

This is absolutely the best post in this entire thread. I laughed really good at this. Even read it twice. Didn't care what came after it. They were probably being repetitive anyway.

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RE: Shut the F*&^ up... - 12/24/2008 4:51:41 PM

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CELESTE!! *hugs* how are you? All moved? Happy Holidays!

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RE: Shut the F*&^ up... - 12/24/2008 5:07:29 PM

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FR1 -- Well of course its context. Everything is. If I said it to my little girl, it would deeply wound her, and so I'm unlikely to ever say it. To a former submissive, it was like flipping a switch that put her in a deeply submissive mode.

FR2 -- For Tigresse (I'm always posting old vaudeville routines to her. I think its love.)

Bubba and Billy, two good old boys, were "chewing the fat" one evening. Bubba was bragging about his latest conquest:

"so's I takes her out for fucking dinner. We orders fucking hamburg and a milk-fuckin-shake and some fuckin' fries. Then we go and park down by the fuckin' river where its fuckin' nice and fuckin' quiet and fuckin' dark. We're fuckin' smoochin and all that shit and she says 'aww Bubba you make a girl so fuckin' hot!' and I say 'well fuck me baby, lets fuckin' do it!" And I get her fuckin' legs in the fuckin' air and I get her fuckin' panties off and ..."

"So what happened Bubba?"

"What do you think happened you fuckin' moron? We had sexual intercourse!"

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RE: Shut the F*&^ up... - 12/24/2008 5:10:05 PM

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Usually if I'm being obnoxious, he calls me a 'throatpunch'

Same concept really, but doesn't necessarily make me hot.

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RE: Shut the F*&^ up... - 12/24/2008 5:21:30 PM

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Greeeeeeeeedy.. ~huggles~ Yep.. all moved in. Bit of a rough start, but I'm adapting pretty well - Himself.. not so much yet. I'm going to be posting a thread about the 2 days without electricity, the gas oven not lighting, the car accident and all that stuff in another thread pretty soon. It's been quite the adventure so far.. not always in such a good way but I have to say that I adore living here and hope that Himself can adapt enough so that he'll let us stay. ::laughs:: Feliz Natal!

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RE: Shut the F*&^ up... - 12/24/2008 5:27:36 PM

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Merry Christmas to all....this is only about my 5th post since i came to CM but i just had to tell You, Emperor, Sir...the joke was hysterical! *wipes the water she spewed off her computer screen*...enjoy the holidays!

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RE: Shut the F*&^ up... - 12/24/2008 7:05:47 PM

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It goes in one ear and out the other...

I`ve heard it most of my adult...life...

However...

Like a few have stated...I hear it out of an adults mouth...directed at an umm...I am going to make it some of my bizz to hang around and observe...or maybe grab the adult by the throat...

My luck...they would be into breath play...

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RE: Shut the F*&^ up... - 12/24/2008 7:37:07 PM

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Context, context, context.

This is the word that kept coming to my mind while reading. It would either melt me or crush me, depending on context.

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