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Can People not read??? - 12/28/2008 12:27:55 PM   
Kwinn


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Status: offline 		So... when my profile states... loudly, clearly, blatantly that I am only looking for a female sub...... what possesses sub males to contact me?  Dominant couples to contact me?  Dom/sub Couples to contact me? Male Dominants to contact me.......  Seriously... is it the North American Education System letting illiterate people slip through the cracks?  Is it egos, desparation, ?????

Anyone else having this problem????
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RE: Can People not read??? - 12/28/2008 12:28:58 PM   
LadyPact


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RE: Can People not read??? - 12/28/2008 12:30:36 PM   
hopelessfool


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Status: offline 		Because just because you DEMAND only X contact you us free thinking people can do what we wish. Ever think that Oh GODS they wanted to simply talk? Or maybe I dont know got the impression from your profile you were easily manipulated or oh GODS i cant believe it but just felt like doing what it is they wanted how they wanted like the site allows them too?

Delete them Block them if you feel it nessicary and move on, whining about it only gets you smart assed replies like mine ^_^
Edited to add or you could always use the mail control features so only female subs show up in your inbox and everything else goes to bulk...


< Message edited by hopelessfool -- 12/28/2008 12:33:13 PM >

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RE: Can People not read??? - 12/28/2008 12:33:39 PM   
Padriag


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Status: offline 		Yes... its tragically amazing how many illiterate people are using the internet.  The mind boogles.

The phrase "wishful thinking" comes to mind.

So does the phrase "block, delete, ignore, move on".

< Message edited by Padriag -- 12/28/2008 12:34:30 PM >

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RE: Can People not read??? - 12/28/2008 12:36:25 PM   
KatyLied


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Status: offline 		It is as common as posters who can't spell.

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RE: Can People not read??? - 12/28/2008 12:38:38 PM   
simpleplan2


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Status: offline 		This is a free site.  People can look at and contact anyone they want.  So just delete...it only takes a second and doesn't hurt a bit :)

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RE: Can People not read??? - 12/28/2008 1:09:52 PM   
Evility


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Status: offline 		To get you to post about it here. Mission accomplished.

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RE: Can People not read??? - 12/28/2008 1:09:52 PM   
utopicus


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Status: offline 		It's a shame that collarme.com doesn't provide a facility whereby one could restrict the contacts by their gender/orientation - it would've made lives easier.
No, it's not an illiteracy problem, I'm afraid...

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RE: Can People not read??? - 12/28/2008 1:10:56 PM   
MsFlutter


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quote:

ORIGINAL: Padriag

Yes... its tragically amazing how many illiterate people are using the internet.  The mind boogles.



He speaks truth !

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RE: Can People not read??? - 12/28/2008 1:11:33 PM   
simpleplan2


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Status: offline 		LOL!  Now...to take over the world!!!

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RE: Can People not read??? - 12/28/2008 1:13:26 PM   
DrkJourney


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Status: offline 		I've been told very bluntly on serveral occassion that they don't read profiles and not intersted in doing so

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RE: Can People not read??? - 12/28/2008 1:14:47 PM   
YourhandMyAss


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Status: offline 		Quite simple. They don't care what your profile says, they're fishing for the most amount of potential women and will throw their fishing line into any pond, no matter what the sign on the pond says.

quote:

ORIGINAL: Kwinn

So... when my profile states... loudly, clearly, blatantly that I am only looking for a female sub...... what possesses sub males to contact me?  Dominant couples to contact me?  Dom/sub Couples to contact me? Male Dominants to contact me.......  Seriously... is it the North American Education System letting illiterate people slip through the cracks?  Is it egos, desparation, ?????

Anyone else having this problem????

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RE: Can People not read??? - 12/28/2008 1:15:35 PM   
kotti


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Status: offline 		some definitely cannot read.  i constantly get contacted by folks states away, thinking i'll relocate yet i clearly state in my profile it's not going to happen.  perhaps they think they are so powerful, or i'll fall so completely enamored of them, i'll change my mind.  ye gads.  don't they think i've got a valid reason for not relocating?

sigh.

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RE: Can People not read??? - 12/28/2008 1:17:11 PM   
LaTigresse


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quote:

ORIGINAL: KatyLied

It is as common as posters who can't spell.


grinning....just grinning

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RE: Can People not read??? - 12/28/2008 1:19:53 PM   
Aszhrae


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Status: offline 		Much like there is a plague of those that have selective hearing.
There is also a problem with selective reading.
I say No masters in my profile and I get dominant males, switch males and dominant male couples contacting me.
There are those that I have contacted privately because there was something I wanted to ask them about something.
Sharing of information is always a good thing and it tends to remove the blinders.
But I really do think when it comes to reading profiles, some have tunnel vision.

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RE: Can People not read??? - 12/28/2008 1:23:52 PM   
beargonewild


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quote:

ORIGINAL: Kwinn

So... when my profile states... loudly, clearly, blatantly that I am only looking for a female sub...... what possesses sub males to contact me?  Dominant couples to contact me?  Dom/sub Couples to contact me? Male Dominants to contact me.......  Seriously... is it the North American Education System letting illiterate people slip through the cracks?  Is it egos, desparation, ?????

Anyone else having this problem????


Is it really worth the time and energy to get your knickers in a bunch if someone outside of what you seek contacts you?  If that's the case then I should rant about female friends contacting me on CM since I am seeking a male Dom...oy vey the tragedy of it all.


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RE: Can People not read??? - 12/28/2008 1:25:57 PM   
SteelofUtah


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Status: offline 		Quick Answer:

Yes they can read, In Fact they Read so well that they read into what you have written and then project their own desires onto you.

That being said, So you interested in a Dom/sub PolyFi Couple in Utah looking to make you a Pony Girl and train you in the ancient art of Butt Plug Wearing for Sport?

Steel

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RE: Can People not read??? - 12/28/2008 1:26:22 PM   
tornaway


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Status: offline 		 
  Comes with the territory - relax .   Each of us - you included - sees whatever it is we want to see .  Doesn't matter what you request , or demand .
 
    Then there are always those with undying optimism that think maybe they can be the one(s) to change your mind in some way , about what you seek .   I have heard of it happening every now and then - so ya can't blame 'em for trying !    Don't let it ruin your day ...

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RE: Can People not read??? - 12/28/2008 1:27:26 PM   
cagliostro


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Status: offline 		Me gud reed.  Yu cragy!

Actually, statistically speaking the American education system is dramatically behind other first world countries.  And continuing to fall farther and farther.  Plus online you're getting a really sad cross section of people.  I thought people were joking about it when I first started looking at sites like this.  But it seems to be the case.  Most people are stupid.

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RE: Can People not read??? - 12/28/2008 1:32:16 PM   
ExSteelAgain


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quote:

ORIGINAL: KatyLied

It is as common as posters who can't spell.


Ha, ha, I caught that too. Desperation.

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