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BondageBarbieX -> RE: Has anyone had better luck with sites other than CM? (1/3/2009 5:29:52 AM)

I have great luck on any site ...On  MySpace I have met wonderful Dominants...CM is great...I joined FetLife yesterday and am having a grand old time on there already... the memebers seem like wonderful people and alot of my friends from here are on there too..Alt sucks,to me it is just a bunch of sex crazed pervs and I  really never joined that site after seeing so pussys and dick shots.Bondage.com sucks...not enough traffic.MDS is awful as well..I did not like that one. One of my best friends found her fiancee on PlentyofFish.
You need to add photos to get a bettter response and I am going to be honst that putting out there that you are a virgin will bring out the weirdos..so you need to be prepared for that.



MrDevlin -> RE: Has anyone had better luck with sites other than CM? (1/3/2009 6:07:01 AM)

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ORIGINAL: MrDevlin

Anyone who claims to be a Dominant male and a virgin at age 25 is a fucking liar.  Can't happen.




Mayday! Mayday!  We're on fire and going down!

Please allow me a revision;

Anyone who claims to be a Dominant male and a virgin at age 25 is a ...very unique individual.  It could happen.

Nothing further.





BondageBarbieX -> RE: Has anyone had better luck with sites other than CM? (1/3/2009 6:48:49 AM)

My stepson was a virgin up until 22 ,I really thought he would have been like the movie 'The 40 year old virgin' but he found his true love.He is very glad he waited.



IronBear -> RE: Has anyone had better luck with sites other than CM? (1/3/2009 6:55:34 AM)

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ORIGINAL: BondageBarbieX

My stepson was a virgin up until 22 ,I really thought he would have been like the movie 'The 40 year old virgin' but he found his true love.He is very glad he waited.


My wife was 22 when we met and a virgin.. Still happens if you look hard enough



lusciouslips19 -> RE: Has anyone had better luck with sites other than CM? (1/3/2009 7:50:58 AM)

Have you noticed the OP has not returned?? [8|] Time to pack it in fellow super heros. We have other virgins, damsels and bipolars to save!



T1981 -> RE: Has anyone had better luck with sites other than CM? (1/3/2009 8:00:49 AM)

*heads back to the Kinkmobile to drive back to the Kinkcave and hopes to find that Albert has made something tasty for lunch, since she's hungry*

And heh - Lusciouslips19 - for some reason I initially read the end of your post as "bi-polarbears." I was thinking to myself about the literal implications of that.....got a little scary!



kiwisub12 -> RE: Has anyone had better luck with sites other than CM? (1/3/2009 8:23:14 AM)

On the off chance that the OP is a real person - CHANGE YOUR PROFILE!!!!!!   Its about the most depressing thing i have ever read. And why do you think anyone would want to talk to you, much less marry you based on what you have on there?  Try putting on a few things about why someone would want to communicate with you - besides the fact that you believe in Jesus, and you have an intact hymen.  Show a little personality, a little sense of humour, something!!!!!!



ALAstella -> RE: Has anyone had better luck with sites other than CM? (1/3/2009 8:48:48 AM)

Yes. We have. Believe it or not we found each other through the Kazachstan-Mongolian Yak Appreciation Society website.



GreedyTop -> RE: Has anyone had better luck with sites other than CM? (1/3/2009 8:58:09 AM)

*adores Stella*



ALAstella -> RE: Has anyone had better luck with sites other than CM? (1/3/2009 9:04:58 AM)

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ORIGINAL: IronBear

Still happens if you look hard enough



And I got to admit that IronBear does indeed look hard.

*ducks and runs*



SlaveIndigochild -> RE: Has anyone had better luck with sites other than CM? (1/3/2009 9:07:37 AM)

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ORIGINAL: hermione83

I haven't had any luck on CM. I know that alt isn't for me judging by the pics, and I got about 2 emails ever on bondage. Well not no luck on CM , but just not enough. Any better or similar luck in finding a permanent D/s partner on any other sites, and which ones please? My new years resolution is to try really hard to find someone and find them or move on with wanting a Dom/man and accept being single for the rest of my life. Thanks for the help.

i've had fun, met some, made friends and had dates on alt.com, informed consent and match.com. i also met a Master from Soulmates the Guardian Newspaper dating site here in the UK and it started out as me thinking it was going to be a vanilla deal.......but for my money and as a free site this site is really soooo cool, sure rocks as they say and can be a downright inspiration. Great real friends, good email buddies, informative......u like the combination of contacts, mail, journal capacity and forums and i met my current Master on here. In fact have had relationships with three dominants from here. (Was also 'outed' and blackmailed by a creep i never met on here....but it was great to find out that the fool tried the same thing with someone else and she and i kind of sorted the idiot out between us).
The best thing about here is that it satisfies my fantasies about American Masters, and Cowboys not to mention keeps me out of Gor.



tornaway -> RE: Has anyone had better luck with sites other than CM? (1/3/2009 9:17:47 AM)

 
   No matter what venue you choose to try and meet someone ,  the more qualifiers you have  ( and in the case of most Bdsm-ers , it's vanilla  PLUS  kink ) , the more challenging it will be to find one who matches up .
 
    But like anything else worth having - much persistiance , fortitude, and patience are required . 
 
                          The prize however ,  can be well worth the effort !   [:)]



SlaveIndigochild -> RE: Has anyone had better luck with sites other than CM? (1/3/2009 9:20:49 AM)

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ORIGINAL: ALAstella

Yes. We have. Believe it or not we found each other through the Kazachstan-Mongolian Yak Appreciation Society website.

Dear both:
My user name there is YakkityYakDontTalkBack.
Does it give the wrong impression?



kdmfl -> RE: Has anyone had better luck with sites other than CM? (1/3/2009 11:04:36 AM)

personally I think it unrealistic to find anyone that meets your requirements.  If you do I don't believe for a second it will be on the internet.



AtlantisKing111 -> RE: Has anyone had better luck with sites other than CM? (1/3/2009 2:29:06 PM)

Excellent advice


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ORIGINAL: DarkSteven

hermione, why use a site at all?  Since Christianity is so important to you, why not look in your church?  Meet people, and use "phrases" like, "I liike a man to take control of situations", "I like a man who knows his own mind", etc.



CaringandReal -> RE: Has anyone had better luck with sites other than CM? (1/3/2009 3:43:40 PM)

FWIW, you can hide the dick pics on alt.com. The setting is buried somewhere in your preferences. If someone emails you with an explicit picture on their profile all you see is a generic male face with a naughty expression and you can choose to read it or not. What's nice is that hiding the explicit pictures makes them seldom, if ever, come up in searches. Like a lot of things on alt.com, the setting is not perfect. Hiding dick pics also hides the guys who put an array of toys or their last submissive (naked, of course) as their main profile pic. Not too bad of a loss, IMO. But it also hides the majority of people without pictures--which I think is a loss when you are searching for the right person and not just a swinger for episodic sex. Still, there are so many people on the site, and the dick pics are so very annoying, that I find this narrorowing useful. Once in  a while, to see who is out there, I turn dick pics back on, so I can browse the people without pictures. Then I get sick of it and turn them off. I don't have anything against penises, but when they belong to total strangers who I don't give a rat's ass about, they are just really annoying. I want to see a potential dominant's face, not his chest and most certainly not his wobbly bits.

I like alt.com. There are some very interesting and exciting dominants on there, and you can find them once you learn how to search. On average I get more relevant emails there than I do here.

There are many vanilla sites out there that allow you to post a subtle kinky ad and some even give you fun "things to do" while you wait for Mr. or Ms. Right. One such site is Okcupid. On it you can answer questions that help you get better matches to your ad. Or, if you get bored of their 20 billion questions, you can answer interesting quizzes or make up your own quiz for other people to answer. They have 20 billion quizzes as well.



kristileigh -> RE: Has anyone had better luck with sites other than CM? (1/3/2009 4:04:41 PM)

i have had luck on both alt and here on collar me. But a dominant male virgin?

I did meet a Dom on singles net before. Give it a try and fill out the free profile.

good luck!

slave kristi

(is there really any RT subs and Dom virgins out there.  lol)



Usako -> RE: Has anyone had better luck with sites other than CM? (1/3/2009 4:12:16 PM)

It's not the site that's the problem, it's the OP. I would suggest therapy before love. You've stated how broken and shut in you are and think that some white knight will fix it all. Why would anyone want that responsibility? You need to help yourself before you can help (aka serve) a dominant.


As for your list of demands in a partner...I honestly think they're far too rigid. And even if they weren't...you demand a Christian, a virgin and someone who is ok with you being a virgin and will wait until he invests his life into you before he gets any...those are pretty high demands. You can't expect magic to happen in a year. Added to the fact you're a shut in who is unhealthy mind and body, you don't have much to offer the other person it seems. You need someone to leech off of, to run your life, to deal with your mental issues AND you won't put out until he signs his life away to you legally; doesn't sound fair to me.



Huntertn -> RE: Has anyone had better luck with sites other than CM? (1/3/2009 5:22:59 PM)

hhhhmm its nice you want a virgin for a Master..But I can beleive thats going to be almost like taking a ride to the Moon..just not going to happen..Most Mem,either Doms or Masters have seen what they wanted and done what it took to have it..



krikket -> RE: Has anyone had better luck with sites other than CM? (1/3/2009 5:33:31 PM)

i wish i'd read this before i paid my money to match.com..lol.  With the way it's going i'm not holding my breath.

As far as CM goes, i've made some great friends, gone on a fcw dates, heard lines i thought had gone out of vogue eons ago and basically enjoyed myself..lol.  i do wish you good luck, and plenty of patience.  We all need that most of all, i think. :)

jimini

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ORIGINAL: hermione83

All the vanilla sites I've tried I was either too weird for and didn't get accepted (eharmony) or were just.. boring things without specific questions, and stupid pointless facts like... pictures and location (match.com). I need a life story and all..



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