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RE: Crossdressing/Feminization - 1/30/2009 1:33:04 AM

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Welcomerain

you hit on some great points and i agree about the time taken and needed . maybe that's why i realy dont get into the make or wigs but if was some thing the Mistress / Master wanted then i would . and your rite on about the humiliations and punishements , every one see's them diffently and the effects are diffrent for others as well . sadly it would be too perfect a world if we just agree on things ? but one thign for sure is when you see a Mistress pay to play site you kinda see 3 times of play mixed together crsossdressing , humiliation , and punishmenet this might be why and where many sub cds get there wants and idea or likes from

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RE: Crossdressing/Feminization - 1/31/2009 5:30:45 AM

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In a Pro setting, I gladly dress up slaves in drag. I ordered size 15 high heels and wigs just for them. In fact I enjoy doing makeup, wigs, attire, etc. I will even take them out on excursions or a night on the town.

However, I am NOT the least bit attracted to a man looking like that or with those tendencies. I like my men to be MEN for my relationships....but with a soft spot and tenderness for me when in private.

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RE: Crossdressing/Feminization - 1/31/2009 5:05:29 PM

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A couple of thoughts, in no particular order.

1. Given the way we socialize people in this culture, it's hard for me to understand how a male can not feel humiliated, shamed, or one-down in some way, if he is in any way feminized. After all, the first rule of being a man is, "Don't be a woman."
2. People sometimes wonder whether women are encourged/forced to dress as men. Go look near the bottom of the table on page 91 at http://www.haworthpress.com/store/sampletext/J056.pdf#page=94. I don't intend to critique or argue that study, but apparently some people are into masculinizing women. Apparently, genderfuck isn't limited to male crossdressers and those who find their asses and legs hot.

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RE: Crossdressing/Feminization - 1/31/2009 5:32:07 PM

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I agree with you Regina. I think that most aspects of being a Domme are very masculinizing to women in general.

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RE: Crossdressing/Feminization - 2/1/2009 1:32:01 AM

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but i think whats getting lost here is the idea to enjoy and have fun

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RE: Crossdressing/Feminization - 5/17/2009 10:07:13 PM

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I appreciate the original post. I always wondered if lesbians had any interest in force feminization of males. I have asked a few online, but did not get much of a response from my inqueries to figure anything out.

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RE: Crossdressing/Feminization - 5/17/2009 10:35:20 PM

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Leaving kink and forced-fem out of it, I know that friends of mine who know about my crossdressing/fem alter ego have sometimes suggested that bixesual women would be more open to a relationship than straight women. In theory they could kind of get the "best of both worlds."

(The problem, at least for some straight women, is that if they can actually make the leap to accepting me as a woman, then they lose any sexual/romantic interest, as, well, they aren't into women. In the case of my closest female friend, this even extends to some degree to when I am not crossdressed -- she sees me as kind of female all the time. Which is OK as we wouldn't work as a couple anyway, but in general it's a bit frustrating...)

In practice, I have yet to find any evidence that bi women are any more open to it than straight women -- except perhaps that they are likely to be a bit more open-minded in general. Some of them do I think like the androgynous look, but that's not what I myself am into at all.

I know one of my common fantasies is the idea of being kept as a maid/housewife by a lesbian couple, but it's not something I seriously expect to happen. Being kept by a hetero couple actually seems less unlikely.

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