So are you the same person with a different name from your initial post (harpomrx) still dwelling on this old drama?
He did not revive the thread. His former "Miss" did. (Why???) Yesterday, without his knowledge or permission, she posted on this thread a long private email that he had sent her some time ago. (I confirmed this through private inquiry.) I alerted the moderators, who have now removed the private email message. Let us please retire this thread now. Wishing you all the best, harpo.
Okay, well, I may be young, but I know this: ANY relationship, regardless of the structure, needs a solid base of trust. Without it, there is no hope. Non at all.