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RE: phone tapping - 1/7/2009 8:08:42 PM

nafakcha

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I have to second this. I don't think confronting this person is a good idea. Hiring a professional service to check is an excellent idea. (And make the arrangements for this on a public phone at a restaurant and request that they do not contact any of the lines you suspect of being tapped.) I would not want to take a chance with my personal safety - even if they do nothing I wouldn't want to risk it. I would not only suggest you change all of your locks, any codes to your place, email, computers etc. but then depending on what you find that you do press charges/file a complaint. At least in the United States, this would help establish a legal case towards orders of protection. Having the professional service means that their technician can be put under oath as to what they find and what their credentials are. Reporting to the police means there is a formal record of this infringement and then if there is any escalation of his behavior it can be a lot easier to get an order of protection and other measures from a judge.

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I would not confront a man that was doing this. I would be preparing to protect myself and anyone he knows and finding a professional to find what is there. It might be hard to prove he did it, but the professional can prove it was there and would help in any legal setting. (protective orders) But I would be gone. Why take a chance? If he believes he has a right to do this and he does it... what kind of mind or emotions are you dealing with? You don't want to get legal? Well that is always an option, but if you confront him and he knows it is illegal and he is caught or thinks he is... that is when things can get real interesting and... dangerous.

This isn't kink and if someone claims it is... it isn't with her permission or agreement. That is criminal and dangerous. If you don't believe me... google some domestic abuse data and how many die every day. That isn't a nosy dominant...

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RE: phone tapping - 1/7/2009 8:56:41 PM

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Phone tapping is very easy. Radio Shack used to sell a unit that attached to a cassette recorder that would start recording as soon as a phone was picked up and stop when the dial tone came back on the line. All you have to do is wire in where it will not be noticed. Some of the sneakier sources can get you set up with units that will record the calls then send them to you via the net.

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RE: phone tapping - 1/8/2009 6:47:38 AM

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Are you his slave? If not, well...

Yes I have had it tapped, as well as mail monitored in and outgoing (old snail maile). All telephone calls were monitored to my family and friends.

In this day and time, being older and wiser I wouldn't tolerate it, what you do is your business. If you decide that it is an invasion of privacy then notify him or others that it must stop, if not, then tell him you do not like it.

Notify him of your discomfort first, not us. If all fails, call authorities because it is downright illegal.

Did you know about it?

I think that is the difference here.

Not to mention it is illegal. (and creepy)

I would not expect any "dom" to feel the need to go behind my back to find out what I am doing/saying.

He trusts me or he doesn't.

I wouldn't be able to trust someone who skulked around trying to get information in such a strange way.

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RE: phone tapping - 1/8/2009 6:51:32 AM

came4U

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Did you know about it?

Sometimes yes, sometimes no. In whole, once it was known to me it was pretty obvious it could occur at any time.

It is no different than someone's toilet activities being monitored. Some think that is ridiculous, some don't.

Some want to give their entire being, yet keep some matters private.
Some may even consider in doing this you are still giving your entire self over to another.

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RE: phone tapping - 1/8/2009 10:11:46 AM

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Giving yourself for total observation is different than it being taken. There is a dynamic aspect and a whole different aspect that could be going on here. I would be safe and go with it not being an agreed upon dynamic and more of the other aspect of things. When she asks, how do you know this? Or however she talks about it... does he say.. well of course, I am master and am watching my girl in every way? No... sneaky gets no respect other than... watch out for the next sneaky thing and be very, very careful.

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