Suleiman -> RE: How did You decide on a Bdsm name~?? (9/9/2004 7:54:16 PM)
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I never actually took one. I am who I am, and when I'm in a scene is one of the few times I allow most of my personae to drop away. The entire point of being a sub, when I'm being a sub, is to be vulnerable (well, okay, not the only point, but it is a major one for me - if I don't trust the top enough to show them my real face, I sure as hell don't trust them enough to tie me up!) Occasionally I will be given a name, but that never sticks beyond that particular scene. I can be whomever I need to be, but if I can't be ME, there's no point. If I want to roleplay, I go hunker down with some dice and kill a bunch of orcs. When I'm in bed, it's nice to be liked for who I am, not who I can pretend to be.
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