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Reigna -> RE: Dommes attraction to cuckolding? (1/10/2009 5:36:18 PM)
With apologies to critics of Robert Stoller, I find a very similar dynamic to be ubiquitous in BDSM.

footslaveinct -> RE: Dommes attraction to cuckolding? (1/10/2009 6:35:08 PM)
Sub4goddess07, I for one share your feelings and have cuckolding on my limits list.

hardbodysub -> RE: Dommes attraction to cuckolding? (1/10/2009 9:53:25 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: LadyHibiscus I know that there are women on this board who are into cuckolding, where are they? They're busy having sex with guys that aren't their husbands.

ItalianSMistress -> RE: Dommes attraction to cuckolding? (1/10/2009 10:25:59 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: hardbodysub quote: ORIGINAL: LadyHibiscus I know that there are women on this board who are into cuckolding, where are they? They're busy having sex with guys that aren't their husbands. Hahahahhahahahaahahahahaha ...... that is the best laugh I have had all night!!! [:D]

MsStarlett -> RE: Dommes attraction to cuckolding? (1/11/2009 4:00:31 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: hardbodysub quote: ORIGINAL: LadyHibiscus I know that there are women on this board who are into cuckolding, where are they? They're busy having sex with guys that aren't their husbands. Yes! We are. [:)]

MistressRouge -> RE: Dommes attraction to cuckolding? (1/11/2009 4:44:27 AM)
I get the TPE regarding cuckolding, the "manwife" aspect, domestic, servitude, pampering, manwife at home, chastity etc. However, I do not get how in a long-term marriage, with the wife having many sexual partners, surely the fantasy will wane after a few years. I would like to know, what the cuckold gets out of it too? As a permanent longterm marriage, in a cuckold relationship, surely it cannot be for humiliation, voyeurism only?

malloves69 -> RE: Dommes attraction to cuckolding? (1/11/2009 4:56:22 AM)
the cuckhold gets to lickup and cleanup the mess [:)] love watching it drip out of her ...but so far its my sperm i have licked up before [:)] am i a cuck ? we have done it 2 times but licking up another mans cum from her pussy was still a hard limit for me ..loved watching her get fucked though thought that was hot watching live sex right in front of you [:)] would i do it again ...sure if shes in the mood ...have fun mal

MistressRouge -> RE: Dommes attraction to cuckolding? (1/11/2009 4:59:48 AM)
Lucky mal [:D] I can see it being a powerful, and rewarding experience as a fantasy aspect short-term, however I do not see it as a positive reflection of a marriage/relationship long-term. quote: ORIGINAL: malloves69 the cuckhold gets to lickup and cleanup the mess [:)] love watching it drip out of her ...but so far its my sperm i have licked up before [:)] am i a cuck ? we have done it 2 times but licking up another mans cum from her pussy was still a hard limit for me ..loved watching her get fucked though thought that was hot watching live sex right in front of you [:)] would i do it again ...sure if shes in the mood ...have fun mal

beeble -> RE: Dommes attraction to cuckolding? (1/11/2009 11:54:54 AM)
quote: LadyHibiscus wrote: It's the humilation that I can't get my head around. I'm guessing from your profile that you mean humiliation in general, rather than specificaly vis-a-vis cuckolding. To be honest, I think it's an unhelfully broad term. I've no time for the `You're a pathetic worm not fit to lick my boots' kind of humiliation; that kind of cutting people down doesn't do anything for me. But I do very much like another kind of humiliation, which is more akin to that slightly squirmy nervousness you get the first time you're naked in front of somebody. There's nothing wrong or bad or dirty with being naked with that person but it still feels a bit edgy the first few times. You're showing them a part of yourself that not many people get to see. Well, I get the same way with various activities. There's nothing bad or wrong or dirty about licking my Mistress's boots, for example, but it still feels a bit squirmy and edgy. And I get turned on by that. And then I start feeling squirmy and edgy at the fact that she can see that I'm turned on by licking her boots and it all feeds back into itself. That kind of humiliation, I have a lot of time for. beeble.

beeble -> RE: Dommes attraction to cuckolding? (1/11/2009 12:02:44 PM)
quote: Reigna wrote: It's a hot fantasy for me, but in practice it's a hard limit. Too much incendiary potential--I'd play with dynamite first. I'd play with dynamite before doing all kinds of things. Alfred Nobel got so very rich because dynamite will take pretty rough treatment without going off, in contrast to most powerful explosives of the time, which would go off if you just looked at them funny. beeble.

LadyHibiscus -> RE: Dommes attraction to cuckolding? (1/11/2009 12:19:27 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: beeble quote: LadyHibiscus wrote: It's the humilation that I can't get my head around. I'm guessing from your profile that you mean humiliation in general, rather than specificaly vis-a-vis cuckolding. To be honest, I think it's an unhelfully broad term. I've no time for the `You're a pathetic worm not fit to lick my boots' kind of humiliation; that kind of cutting people down doesn't do anything for me. But I do very much like another kind of humiliation, which is more akin to that slightly squirmy nervousness you get the first time you're naked in front of somebody. There's nothing wrong or bad or dirty with being naked with that person but it still feels a bit edgy the first few times. You're showing them a part of yourself that not many people get to see. Well, I get the same way with various activities. There's nothing bad or wrong or dirty about licking my Mistress's boots, for example, but it still feels a bit squirmy and edgy. And I get turned on by that. And then I start feeling squirmy and edgy at the fact that she can see that I'm turned on by licking her boots and it all feeds back into itself. That kind of humiliation, I have a lot of time for. beeble. Whenever someone asks me for humiliation play, I ask them what they MEAN by that. I grew up surrounded by people trying to humiliate me---my survival strategy was to laugh along. It's virtually impossible for me to feel humilated by something someone ELSE does to me. At the same time, with my life experience, I have exactly no desire to make anyone feel bad, ever. Afraid, excited, uncertain, but not bad. It's my empty space. [&:]

LookieNoNookie -> RE: Dommes attraction to cuckolding? (1/11/2009 2:05:37 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: LadyHibiscus Well let's have some stories, LP! I want to hear how Mister is all deprived! [sm=rofl.gif] Hehehehehehehehehehehehehehehehe :) Yeah dammit!!!!!

LookieNoNookie -> RE: Dommes attraction to cuckolding? (1/11/2009 2:16:44 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: MistressRouge I get the TPE regarding cuckolding, the "manwife" aspect, domestic, servitude, pampering, manwife at home, chastity etc. However, I do not get how in a long-term marriage, with the wife having many sexual partners, surely the fantasy will wane after a few years. cuckoldplace dot com can help some get a grip on it. It's a free site, you have to sign up....3 or 4 questions. Most of it is wanking fodder, but there are a few folks on there who (at least I'd like to believe) are sincere, and for them....it works fabulously. I would like to know, what the cuckold gets out of it too? As a permanent longterm marriage, in a cuckold relationship, surely it cannot be for humiliation, voyeurism only? In my opinion, I see it as a beautiful way to keep the husband in his place while ensuring that the inevitable (some studies show as many as 76% of married women have affairs) when it occurs, leaves neither side in shame, both empowered, no one hiding...and both drastically, overwhelmingly....passionately in love :) *(But dat jes be moi).*

IamShe -> RE: Dommes attraction to cuckolding? (1/11/2009 3:26:33 PM)
Long ago, in a galaxy far, far away.................. ............... I fell head over heels for a man, we'll call him 'alpha', who begged me to 'do' his best friend, who we'll call 'beta', while he watched. Alpha's repeat requests became obcessive, even though I didn't like beta at all, didn't find beta the least bit attractive, and wasn't a bit interested. I finally agreed just to shut the two of them up about their fantasy, with the stipulation that I do what I want, as I please, during the entire session together. They agreed. Mid-coitus, I decided that I wasn't having a good time with beta at all, so I shoved 'beta' off of me and forced alpha against the wall, then wrapped my legs around him and pummeled him while beta watched, not allowing beta the pleasure of even jacking off. The scene didn't go at all as the two men had hoped, whatever their reasons were for wanting it in the first place. beta left me alone after that, having been rejected and humiliated mid scene, and alpha promised not to trouble me about cuckolding again. However, alpha did keep pushing me to have a menage a trois with another woman. We broke up finally, because I surmised that since alpha wanted multiple relationships and liasons I would end up being hurt. I ended the relationship. I came to the conclusion, many years after we broke up, that alpha wanted to 'offer' his 'best friend up' so that I would, in turn, reciprocate by having a threesome with another woman. That's just my best guess, though. ....I've never been involved with two men at the same time to whom I was equally attracted and who would tolerate one another, and probably never will be. I am She

slavekal -> RE: Dommes attraction to cuckolding? (1/11/2009 7:16:18 PM)
When getting into such potentially dangerous stuff, one should think long and hard (He he he, I said long and hard) beforehand. Although it's not for everyone, I can tell you this; I know that Ms. Mlicious loves me much more since she has been cuckolding me. And I am more turned on by her than ever.

mischievousone -> RE: Dommes attraction to cuckolding? (1/11/2009 8:37:19 PM)
For us the dynamics have to be just right for it to be worth it. Since we are RT and in a relationship, timing is everything. He has to be able to trust that I would never hurt him and I have to be more demanding than normal. The third party has to be someone that I have no emotional connection with. But when the things work out...... it provides me with verbal foder for months to come!

MstresMagick -> RE: Dommes attraction to cuckolding? (1/11/2009 9:18:29 PM)
I personally find cuckold-wannabes totally useless. I love owning my boys' cocks, including putting them in chastity and having control over their orgasms. But that being said, if it's property, I want to be able to enjoy it on occasion!! Likewise, I like threesomes, but for each of the boys to be contributing to my pleasure in the ways that I most enjoy, not for me to be focused on humiliating them. Some guy who just wants to watch is lazy, and these guys also are wanting attention in addition to that. And I don't even want to go into the possible psychology behind it. It's definitely not my style or interest. M. Magick * * * www.MistressMagick.com

LadyPact -> RE: Dommes attraction to cuckolding? (1/11/2009 11:05:42 PM)
Everybody grab a chair here. I'm agreeing with....... mal! This isn't about cuckolding, per se. For those folks who have open agreements with their partners that they can have additional sexual encounters with others, well, from what I understand, it's the hottest ticket going. It's voyeurism, meets watching the person you love have orgasms, meets live sex show with someone you know you'll be having sex with later. I'm trying to remember the way it's been described to Me. There's this extra added element in watching this whole thing, without the distraction of the participation. You see all of the little details because you have a different vantage point. The curling of the toes, the tilt of the head as it's thrown back, the gripping of the sheet as the female is clawing during the height of the event. This is in addition to watching the entire build up. Get to see different techniques used. What works and what doesn't. (I'm eternally grateful to the one in particular that taught MisterP how to make Me squirt. I didn't type that out loud, did I? LOL.) Point being, for some, it can be a huge turn on. I think I'm a bit spoiled in the matter. Not only do I get to be sexually served on the occasion in question, but afterwards, MP and I fuck like rabbits for weeks!

MaamJay -> RE: Dommes attraction to cuckolding? (1/12/2009 1:29:21 AM)
The typical cuckholding thing isn't for Me. There's no way I'd have a primary partner who was unable or reluctant to have sex with Me! Why keep a man if he's no use to Me?? As it stands, Master is the primary and He has sex when He wants it. When I have a 24/7 sub, he'll have sex with Me when I want it [:D] (and when Master permits of course but He's generous!). Sub will be a lucky boy! Maam Jay aka violet[A]

confineme971 -> RE: Dommes attraction to cuckolding? (6/18/2009 3:10:24 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: MistressRouge I get the TPE regarding cuckolding, the "manwife" aspect, domestic, servitude, pampering, manwife at home, chastity etc. However, I do not get how in a long-term marriage, with the wife having many sexual partners, surely the fantasy will wane after a few years. I would like to know, what the cuckold gets out of it too? As a permanent longterm marriage, in a cuckold relationship, surely it cannot be for humiliation, voyeurism only? As I see it, cuckold gets two thing; fulfilling his need regarding humiliation and, if one is a true submissive, fulfillment from seeing his Owner satisfied and happy. I also think that cuckolding is something that can happen between two vanilla spouses; in a TPE D/s relationship, cuckolding should not even be mentioned.

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