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ORIGINAL: Aszhrae
My own personal observation in response to the question being posed. To those that would find fault with my post, why should I care what you think, you have given me reason not to care about your negative opinions and elitist judgments.

If everyone thought that way, then nobody would have a problem in posting a question, and for the responds they could expect from others. The majority isn't that selfasured, there are loads of insecure people out there, and many subs , because as a Dominant you've to have a certain amount of selfasteem or else that wouldn't work out. So I believe this is rather a submissive matter then a for Dominants.

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If a sub/slave is looking for answers or insight, some instances they are put down, dismissed or feeling a hell of a lot worst after the OP.

This is what I mean. because you ask something, or state your opinion, you make yourself vunerable, and it's hard to communicate through text only because you don't see the other persons facial expression, and therefor text can b hard at times, or read wrongly, while the other person doesn't mean it like that. Or because it's too easy to make fun of people online, because they are anonymous online.

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There are just too many individuals that just don't care to be helpful.
I believe since coming here there is maybe 15% of the total membership that really do care to help someone new or returning to the lifestyle.
It is worth the risk to have someone of that 15% answer a sub/slaves inquiry.

Well I don't know anything about numbers, I just wanted to see if I was the only one with this feeling here, but it seems I'm not.

I thank you for your reply and wish you enough.

GoddezzT`

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ORIGINAL: SingleRarity
GoddessTeaze,

Daddy and I have had this profile for quite awhile.  I read regularly, but I don't respond unless I have something new to add to the discussion.  If another poster has adequately stated my own thoughts, I don't feel the need to retype virtually the same thing. 
Cheers,
Daddy's Ballerina, e

Hello Singelrarety,

I've seen you on the forum, and have read your comments and questions, so this thread isn't for you hon.

It's about others who doesn't feel that comfortable enough.

Thank you kindly for your reply.

GoddezzT`

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ORIGINAL: parakeet89

Yeah, I agree, that's a people-thing rather than an orientation-thing.
Sometimes I don't feel like I know enough to make a worthwhile response, so I usually just read.

Wwe all have our own experiences,
and that's good enough parakeet.
Maybe you've experienced something which
the other person totally can relate too!

I would like to read you in the future :)

B safe

GoddezzT`

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ORIGINAL: Roguescharm
I read more then I write, but I'm trying to add/ask more. For me it feels like a form of social anxiety. I used to get that IRL quite badly but managed to beat it back, but for some reason it seems to raise it's head when I'm posting online. So I'm going to tackle it the way I did IRL; keep doing it until I prove to myself that it's no big deal if somebody happens to disagree or think my question is stupid.

Hello Roguescharm,
I'm very happy that you've replied,
you're the kind of people I'm talking about.
It's a fear to overcome, and I know you can do it.

I hope to read you here more often,
[:D]
Warm Greetingz

GoddezzT`

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ORIGINAL: JustDarkness
goede morgen / good morning Teaze
many. I get often messages from people reading the forum..but not posting.
I ask why they message me the question and not post it on the forum.
More opinions is better then just mine.
Mostly they say...they don't like to be treated as sometimes happens on the forum. They are afraid they get laughed at.
And lets be honest...that does happen.

En 'n hele goedenmorgen JustDarkness,

This is what I mean, apparently they feel comfortable enough
to contact you in person, which is a real compliment, towards You, of course. Still it's a shame those people doesn't feel comfortable
enough to mix in here in the jungle which is
called Bdsm.

I wish You a Happy Sunday!

smooch

GoddezzT`

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ORIGINAL: agirl

I also have messages from people who use the forums asking things that they clearly express that they don't want to ask on the boards, especially if it's a sensitive issue. The usual reason given is that they don't want to be *ripped to shreds* and I don't blame them in the least.

Well that's a real shame because Wwe so could learn from each other, Wwe shouldn't fight each other, but Wwe should be supportive of each other, Wwe're all in the same boat, so what kick do people get out of that nasty attitude?
Do they get off on such?

I don't get it for one.

I wished people would grow wiser then that.

Thank you for sharing your experiances agirl.

Warm Greetingz

GoddezzT`

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ORIGINAL: malloves69
hello Ms Goddess ..happy new years !![:)] love posting on cm ...ecspecially if its about strapon ....anal ...or being fisted [:)]

Well analslut you,

this isn't a post for you to brag about all ya do!
[sm=AttentionWhore.gif]
This is for people who feels the opposite.

Best wishes for you laddie.

GoddezzT`

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ORIGINAL: Zechriel
Good morning!
I have responded on here but never posted on the "ask" forums. I did post on the Health forums b/c I have been havingproblems and was looking for help but since no one ever answered there...I kinda gave up. I wish more people would respond there ::sighs::.
Good luck!
Love,
Zechriel  [sm=car.gif]

Well that's a shame, this sometimes happens too,
when I respond to someone in a thread, and they
never bother to respond to that any more..

I will take a peek there hon,
to see if I can answer any :)

But never give up hope!
[sm=ubanana.gif]
Warm Greetingz and I wish you well hon.

GoddezzT`

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ORIGINAL: ChainedExistence

According the latest count...about 388 people have read this thread, and my post is the 32nd....that's a lot of people "just taking a look."

Are you an accountant?
[sm=biggrin.gif]
Warm Greetingz

GoddezzT`