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GoddessTeaze -> RE: I do wonder how many subs are reading the forum , but don't feel comfertable enough to respond ? (1/12/2009 5:35:03 AM)

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ORIGINAL: jen182
being that i am more on the shy side, sometimes i will read but not reply or when i have questions ill just browse and see if there is a topic that is close to what i want to know.....it kinda sucks being shy (pardon language)

I admire your strength, that you're still answering,
so kick the shyness out the window hon :)
Make yourself proud.

I wish you enough.

GoddezzT`




GoddessTeaze -> RE: I do wonder how many subs are reading the forum , but don't feel comfertable enough to respond ? (1/12/2009 5:37:45 AM)

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ORIGINAL: beth314
I feel comfortable enough to post in here, Maam and I believe that alot of other subs would find it an inviting outlet as well:)
ps-just spent the last hour plus reading your profile...such beautiful words

Hello beth,
how lovely to see you here,
and thank you kindly for your kind words.

I've read your profile too, and it's great
to know what you seek, then
your half way through.

Come and Meet My girl, jstmi, one day
I'm sure you both have allot in common.

I wish you enough.

GoddezzT`




littleone35 -> RE: I do wonder how many subs are reading the forum , but don't feel comfertable enough to respond ? (1/12/2009 10:48:17 AM)

For the fist six months i just lurked .  Then a question caught my eye and i worked up my courage and posted.  Since then i have been hooked on the fourms.  I ask my questions and got answers.  I think this is a great resource. 

Matt's littleone




BondageBarbieX -> RE: I do wonder how many subs are reading the forum , but don't feel comfertable enough to respond ? (1/12/2009 1:56:52 PM)

I do 




beth314 -> RE: I do wonder how many subs are reading the forum , but don't feel comfertable enough to respond ? (1/12/2009 10:11:00 PM)

in humbliest gratitude, THANK YOU, Goddess:) I sent jtsmi a note. I can always use a new friend:)




girlygurl -> RE: I do wonder how many subs are reading the forum , but don't feel comfertable enough to respond ? (1/12/2009 10:24:32 PM)

I post on the threads, however I am a little apprehensive about sharing some things in a public forum.


girly (learned the hard way, you never know who's reading)




E2Sweet -> RE: I do wonder how many subs are reading the forum , but don't feel comfertable enough to respond ? (1/12/2009 10:40:41 PM)

Well thanks to some very kind and open-minded folks here, I've become pretty comfy being active in the forums... So now you all are pretty much stuck with me for better or for worse... It's all the kind and open-minded peoples' fault, so don't blame me, blame them... [:D]




GreedyTop -> RE: I do wonder how many subs are reading the forum , but don't feel comfertable enough to respond ? (1/12/2009 10:53:57 PM)

it's just because you're so gropable, E *smooch*




joy4u2use -> RE: I do wonder how many subs are reading the forum , but don't feel comfertable enough to respond ? (1/12/2009 11:03:14 PM)

[8|]Let's see I have been on CM for 9 years now even though recently I got stupid and changed my profile and lost all my little thingies I had quite a few actually, but I started writing about two years ago. So it took me 7 years to get on the forums not that I didn't want to I just hadn't navigated to it. I have a lot of blond day's ??? strange for a redhead....[8|] so with that said I admit that I changed my profile not thinking that I would lose all my little thingies that I worked so hard to get.....
 
joy/654-049-049
ps... and to think I have a college degree duh ??? good thing it's in Culinary Arts




GoddessTeaze -> RE: I do wonder how many subs are reading the forum , but don't feel comfertable enough to respond ? (1/12/2009 11:07:32 PM)

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ORIGINAL: littleone35

For the fist six months i just lurked .  Then a question caught my eye and i worked up my courage and posted.  Since then i have been hooked on the fourms.  I ask my questions and got answers.  I think this is a great resource. 
Matt's littleone

It's great you've worked up your courage!
It's a whole proces, but good to mix in !!

Thanx for your contribution.

Have a goodday.

GoddezzT`




GoddessTeaze -> RE: I do wonder how many subs are reading the forum , but don't feel comfertable enough to respond ? (1/12/2009 11:13:35 PM)

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ORIGINAL: BondageBarbieX

I do 

I still see you respond on the forum,
which is great :) Keep on writing.

GoddezzT`




GoddessTeaze -> RE: I do wonder how many subs are reading the forum , but don't feel comfertable enough to respond ? (1/12/2009 11:14:42 PM)

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ORIGINAL: beth314
in humbliest gratitude, THANK YOU, Goddess:) I sent jtsmi a note. I can always use a new friend:)

Good to hear hon [:D]
I wish you a lovely day,

GoddezzT`




GoddessTeaze -> RE: I do wonder how many subs are reading the forum , but don't feel comfertable enough to respond ? (1/12/2009 11:16:08 PM)

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ORIGINAL: girlygurl
I post on the threads, however I am a little apprehensive about sharing some things in a public forum.
girly (learned the hard way, you never know who's reading)

I do hope you've a good friend
to speak to about those things then girlygurl.

I wish you enough.

GoddezzT`




GoddessTeaze -> RE: I do wonder how many subs are reading the forum , but don't feel comfertable enough to respond ? (1/12/2009 11:17:16 PM)

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ORIGINAL: E2Sweet
Well thanks to some very kind and open-minded folks here, I've become pretty comfy being active in the forums... So now you all are pretty much stuck with me for better or for worse... It's all the kind and open-minded peoples' fault, so don't blame me, blame them... [:D]

It's good to have you E!
keep on writing.

Warm Greetingz

GoddezzT`




GoddessTeaze -> RE: I do wonder how many subs are reading the forum , but don't feel comfertable enough to respond ? (1/12/2009 11:20:56 PM)

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ORIGINAL: joy4u2use
[8|]Let's see I have been on CM for 9 years now even though recently I got stupid and changed my profile and lost all my little thingies I had quite a few actually, but I started writing about two years ago.

I've no clue what you're on about....
[sm=ubanana.gif]
GoddezzT`






Roguescharm -> RE: I do wonder how many subs are reading the forum , but don't feel comfertable enough to respond ? (1/13/2009 1:05:36 AM)


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ORIGINAL: GoddessTeaze

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ORIGINAL: Roguescharm
I read more then I write, but I'm trying to add/ask more. For me it feels like a form of social anxiety. I used to get that IRL quite badly but managed to beat it back, but for some reason it seems to raise it's head when I'm posting online. So I'm going to tackle it the way I did IRL; keep doing it until I prove to myself that it's no big deal if somebody happens to disagree or think my question is stupid.

Hello Roguescharm,
I'm very happy that you've replied,
you're the kind of people I'm talking about.
It's a fear to overcome, and I know you can do it.

I hope to read you here more often,
[:D]
Warm Greetingz

GoddezzT`



lol, thanks.
The trouble I have now is that I'm so new I don't really know what to ask.
I'll just bumble along until I have a better idea.




longjohnsilver -> RE: I do wonder how many subs are reading the forum , but don't feel comfertable enough to respond ? (1/13/2009 6:26:47 AM)

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ORIGINAL: simpleplan2

I doubt if this is a sub thing...just a people thing.


I often read the forums, especially the Ask a sub, and Ask a Mistress forums, but I don't think I've ever posted anything outside the humor section (and only a couple there). I don't think it's limited to subs... it's a people thing like you said. I'm a chatterbox when I get comfortable, but that takes a looong time; same as in person.





stef -> RE: I do wonder how many subs are reading the forum , but don't feel comfertable enough to respond ? (1/13/2009 8:24:59 AM)

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ORIGINAL: joy4u2use

[8|]Let's see I have been on CM for 9 years now

Are you sure about that?  Since the site was started at the tail end of 2002, that would be quite a feat.

~stef




lally3 -> RE: I do wonder how many subs are reading the forum , but don't feel comfertable enough to respond ? (1/14/2009 5:59:20 AM)

im hugely opinionated and arrogant enough to believe that my opinions are worth making from time to time - and im thick skinned enough not to mind if someone has a pop at them - but i think that maybe some people arent sure of their opinions and are maybe a little afraid to expose themselves as 'silly'.

quite a few new posters start off with ........ 'this might sound silly but......'

i think when youre new and stuff, the ideas you have are kinda precious and fragile and your first tentative steps in trying to get a handle on yourself is very private and hitherto largely unshared.  so yes.




welcomerain -> RE: I do wonder how many subs are reading the forum , but don't feel comfertable enough to respond ? (1/15/2009 4:05:22 PM)

I don't think it's a sub thing. It's more of a general forum problem: a few posters and a lot of lurkers.

Collarme actually seems fairly healthy and open, and less prone to groupthink than some others I've been on, although a fair amount of that is inevitable.




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