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Are you willing to do anything it takes??? - 1/11/2009 7:39:05 PM   
MasterinDemand


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Status: offline 		Anything it takes to keep your master happy....

Be honest.
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RE: Are you willing to do anything it takes??? - 1/11/2009 7:42:05 PM   
Surata


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Status: offline 		Nope.  It might make me selfish in the eyes of others, but if I'm not taking care of myself first and foremost, I'm not a happy woman.

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RE: Are you willing to do anything it takes??? - 1/11/2009 7:47:56 PM   
BeIgnited


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Status: offline 		"My Master" as an abstract concept? No.

"My Master" as in the actual man? Yes. I can't envision a scenario in which what makes him happy is something that would be harmful to me or our relationship.

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RE: Are you willing to do anything it takes??? - 1/11/2009 7:51:27 PM   
mikierotten


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Status: offline 		Sure i think so, i am willing to suffer if it pleases my owner, i can endure a great deal of suffering, it is like a challenge to me.

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RE: Are you willing to do anything it takes??? - 1/11/2009 7:52:16 PM   
YourhandMyAss


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Status: offline 		Nope. First of all I don't do Master slave relationships, and secondly of all, My wants and desires count too. If what he wants would be a huge put out, like say moving to Petaluma and going back to living in a tiny travel trailer, I'd say, and I have said hell no, not only hell no, but you're going to have to go back alone if you truely wish to go back, because I refuse to move.

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ORIGINAL: MasterinDemand

Anything it takes to keep your master happy....

Be honest.



< Message edited by YourhandMyAss -- 1/11/2009 7:53:49 PM >

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RE: Are you willing to do anything it takes??? - 1/11/2009 7:52:37 PM   
IrishMist


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quote:

ORIGINAL: MasterinDemand

Anything it takes to keep your master happy....

Be honest.


Ok. Quite honestly, it was not my job to MAKE OR KEEP him happy. All that was required of me was that I follow orders; if following those orders caused him happiness, sadness, anger, or any other range of emotion...well, that was on his head, not mine.

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RE: Are you willing to do anything it takes??? - 1/11/2009 7:57:07 PM   
RedMagic1


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ORIGINAL: mikierotten

Sure i think so, i am willing to suffer if it pleases my owner, i can endure a great deal of suffering, it is like a challenge to me.

But what if your owner is more pleased by your not suffering?  "I would die for you" is much easier than "I will live for you."


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RE: Are you willing to do anything it takes??? - 1/11/2009 8:03:55 PM   
mikierotten


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Status: offline 		O.k. good point, Im open to exploring all possibilitys, variety. Lets get really hardcore first and then tone it down later, that way we can see how far we can go with life being death or death being life, you know what i mean. Explore!

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RE: Are you willing to do anything it takes??? - 1/11/2009 8:07:38 PM   
mc1234


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Status: offline 		It's easy to say 'yes, I would do anything he requests of me'.  This is because he has shown himself to always have my best interests at heart and I trust that I am safe with him.  

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RE: Are you willing to do anything it takes??? - 1/11/2009 8:24:56 PM   
peppermint


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Status: offline 		Happiness is an internal process.  No one can MAKE us happy.  If a Master chooses to be happy, he will be happy.  If a Master chooses to be unhappy, no submissive will be capable of forcing him to be happy...,no matter what the submissive does. 

So I suppose my answer to your question is "NO." 

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RE: Are you willing to do anything it takes??? - 1/11/2009 8:36:32 PM   
SassySarijane


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Status: offline 		It's not my job or within my power to "make" anyone happy. People choose how things affect them, whether that's happy, sad, angry, depressed/down pretty much (Depression as a disease is different than what I'm saying here). Now, in a relationship where trust is built and we know each other very well then yes I would pretty much be willing to do anything that pleases my owner, because I would know that he would not expect things I would be unable to do for either physical or moral reasons and would understand why I wouldn't do them. Makes all the difference for me in making that distinction.

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RE: Are you willing to do anything it takes??? - 1/11/2009 8:43:00 PM   
IrishMist


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"I would die for you" is much easier than "I will live for you."

How so true those words are; for anyone in any kind of relationship.

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RE: Are you willing to do anything it takes??? - 1/11/2009 8:44:04 PM   
MarksFantasyGirl


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ORIGINAL: BeIgnited

"My Master" as an abstract concept? No.

"My Master" as in the actual man? Yes. I can't envision a scenario in which what makes him happy is something that would be harmful to me or our relationship.



I agree with this.  Sweets is my best friend first, my boyfriend second, and my Master third.  He would never do anything to harm me in any way.  And I know that He wants me to be happy first and foremost.  Anything that makes Him happy, makes me happy as well.  Will I make sure dinner is on the tabel for Him every night when He comes home?  Yes.  Will I wash, dry, fold, and put away his laundry?  Yes.  Will I listen to His music even if I don't like it just because He wants to listen to it? Yes.  Will I move half way around the world if He was going?  Ok, that is a tough one, and I would probably say yes to be honest.  I'd love to get out of here, and start all over.  So that wasn't a good example.... But Will I stop talking to my family completely just because He didn't feel comfortable with them?? Hell no.  So I guess my answer would be "Within reason"

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RE: Are you willing to do anything it takes??? - 1/11/2009 9:04:58 PM   
ALAstella


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Status: offline 		No.

First of all I don't need to, because by the time I get myself into a dynamic you can rest assured that whoever is my dominant knows what I'm about and what makes me tick.

Secondly I wouldn't want to, I know myself and have my own hierarchy of values, and 'anything' is too broad a concept for the range of my submission or anything else I am capable of. Me being who I am is a core feature of my submission and I wouldn't ever seek to compromise this.

stella

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RE: Are you willing to do anything it takes??? - 1/11/2009 9:16:51 PM   
jen182


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Status: offline 		i would do quite a lot to make Him happy, but not anything, there are limits that dont get crossed

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RE: Are you willing to do anything it takes??? - 1/11/2009 9:26:00 PM   
WyldHrt


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Status: offline 		Good post, Stella (and the same to several others)!"

"Anything" is just too broad for the question to be answered in a meaningful way. It has often been said that most "no limits" subs/ slaves will find plenty of limits when asked the right questions. While I would do quite a lot, there are some things (suicide, amputation, kids, animals - just to name a few), that are just a no go under any circumstances. The sub/slave who agrees to puncture his/her eyeballs because Master wants a blind servant is seriously in need of help. 

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RE: Are you willing to do anything it takes??? - 1/11/2009 9:32:12 PM   
MarksFantasyGirl


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quote:

ORIGINAL: WyldHrt

The sub/slave who agrees to puncture his/her eyeballs because Master wants a blind servant is seriously in need of help. 


As is the Master willing to make such a request!

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RE: Are you willing to do anything it takes??? - 1/11/2009 9:47:59 PM   
LuckyAlbatross


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Status: offline 		I simply agree that anothers happiness is not within my realm to give or take. 

I would not do anything for another person- because giving up my sense of self is a disservice to all ultimately.  But death, giving up kidneys, murder, not going online, things like that- yeah sure no problem.

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RE: Are you willing to do anything it takes??? - 1/11/2009 9:52:16 PM   
odd0bob0tie0up


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Status: offline 		i imagine if i found a master he/she wouldn't ask me to do much more than i'm able to. if i found one who asked me to do something i'm not able, uncomfortable or illegal lol. i.d imagine i've been a poor judge of character

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RE: Are you willing to do anything it takes??? - 1/11/2009 11:14:25 PM   
littlewonder


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Status: offline 		Almost anything...I learned a long time ago to never say "anything".

I will do what is in my best capabilities to do to make him happy but I do have responsibilites that come before him.

Thankfully I have a rational Master.

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