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LadyHibiscus -> RE: Tributes and Genuine Dommes (1/16/2009 8:06:56 AM)
Okay. Do you mean that there are guys out there who will PAY for me to stay home and be a happy little knitwear designer? [8\|] Yeah, tell me one with unicorns next! I would love to be a wealthy housewife... I HATE working. HATE. I would love to work at the things I enjoy, rather than have to work to pay my freaking bills. But having someone KEEP me? Doesn't that equate to.... slavery, sorta?

PeonForHer -> RE: Tributes and Genuine Dommes (1/16/2009 9:53:57 AM)
But having someone KEEP me? Doesn't that equate to.... slavery, sorta? Depends on the spin one puts on it. You could say the same of royalty.

MsFlutter -> RE: Tributes and Genuine Dommes (1/16/2009 10:08:22 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: LadyHibiscus Okay. Do you mean that there are guys out there who will PAY for me to stay home and be a happy little knitwear designer? [8\|] Yeah, tell me one with unicorns next! If you find one of those, ask him if he has a brother. I would commit major felonies to be able to pass many undisturbed hours in my sewing room ! (Then you and I can collaborate !!)

Lockit -> RE: Tributes and Genuine Dommes (1/16/2009 10:14:22 AM)
Let's go for triplet's... I don't knit or sew... but I can design the room you both do these things in. But mine has to like rocks!

LunaVenus -> RE: Tributes and Genuine Dommes (1/16/2009 10:22:01 AM)
If I had too many responsibilities, I would NEVER see any slaves. I would simply not have the time. It's just that simple. So their supporting me like their wife is a small yet necessary ingredient in our relationship or I would not be able to be there for them at all. My slaves are demanding. They want all of me, and I give it to them.

Lynnxz -> RE: Tributes and Genuine Dommes (1/16/2009 10:28:28 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Calandra I sometimes require a tribute - a greeting card of the submale's choosing sent to Me by snail mail. Now a card can be as inexpensive as 25 cents or as expensive as 5 dollars, and postage is only a few cents (depending on where it is mailed from). Its AMAZING how many men will promise Me "anything" one moment, and will not carry out that one requirement. Who's fake now????? Oooo, I like that one.

beeble -> RE: Tributes and Genuine Dommes (1/16/2009 10:31:02 AM)
quote: LadyHibiscus wrote: Do you mean that there are guys out there who will PAY for me to stay home and be a happy little knitwear designer? Yeah, tell me one with unicorns next! OK. Once upon a time, there was a dreamy submissive guy who paid his Domme to stay at home and be a happy little knitwear designer. He also gave her two unicorns who were able to use their horns as giant knitting needles. They could knit so quickly that the Domme. soon became the richest little knitwear designer in the whole world! And then the dreamy submissive didn't need to work any more so he stayed at home with her and she (please tick all that apply) [ ] spanked/flogged/whipped him [ ] tied him up [ ] took him with her strap-on [ ] had sex with him [ ] locked him in chastity [ ] dripped wax on his body [ ] other (please specify) ........................................................ all day and all night. And they both lived happily ever after. The end. tucks Lady H. into bed and turns off the light Awww, isn't she sweet when she's asleep? beeble

Lockit -> RE: Tributes and Genuine Dommes (1/16/2009 10:34:04 AM)
ROFL... I like the way you think beeble!

CallaFirestormBW -> RE: Tributes and Genuine Dommes (1/16/2009 11:19:26 AM)
quote: How do you separate the real people on this site from the scammers? You do what everyone on both sides of the kneel has to do... you make contacts, get to know people, and behave liberally with the 'delete' key for the individuals who aren't suitable to your situation. If someone becomes rude or annoying, you incorporate 'block' into your repertoire, and you'll be all set. Don't expect to find someone overnight -- this is like anything else of value... you get what you pay for, and if you're looking for someone's time and involvement, then the currency of choice is your own time, involvement, and patience to develop the relationship. There are some folks here who are actually looking for, and glad to hear from the professional dominants who join us here -- and eventually, with enough awareness, the scammers end up getting bored and moving on to other more lucrative playgrounds.

beeble -> RE: Tributes and Genuine Dommes (1/16/2009 11:49:53 AM)
quote: CallaFirestormBW wrote: this is like anything else of value... you get what you pay for... Perhaps not the best metaphor to use to say that not everyone here is a pro. [;)] Also, what about the best things in life being free? There's always a contradictory proverb. beeble.

SylvereApLeanan -> RE: Tributes and Genuine Dommes (1/16/2009 1:10:36 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: bisubboy1 To be blunt it seems like all the Dommes on this site are only interested in milking desperate subs for their money. Not all dominant women on this site want or will accept tribute. I have never asked for money or gifts from any sub with whom I've communicated. I have turned down numerous offers of everything from iPods to cash from men who wanted me to dominate them. For future reference, sweeping generalizations will rarely endear you to your target audience. You should try to avoid them as much as possible. quote: How do you separate the real people on this site from the scammers? Practice and common sense. If the picture or profile looks too good to be true, it probably is.

Aylee -> RE: Tributes and Genuine Dommes (1/16/2009 1:12:50 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: bisubboy1 To be blunt it seems like all the Dommes on this site are only interested in milking desperate subs for their money. Hey now! Money is not what you get, when you "milk" a male sub!

dreamerdreaming -> RE: Tributes and Genuine Dommes (1/16/2009 2:22:37 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Aylee quote: ORIGINAL: bisubboy1 To be blunt it seems like all the Dommes on this site are only interested in milking desperate subs for their money. Hey now! Money is not what you get, when you "milk" a male sub! LOL!

FullfigRIMAAM1 -> RE: Tributes and Genuine Dommes (1/16/2009 3:16:13 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: LadyHibiscus Okay. Do you mean that there are guys out there who will PAY for me to stay home and be a happy little knitwear designer? [8\|] Why would this be such a foreign idea Lady H? Have you never dated someone who made enough money to keep a home? Why would owning a man who can provide for you be as outlandish as a unicorn? quote: I HATE working. HATE. I would love to work at the things I enjoy, rather than have to work to pay my freaking bills. But having someone KEEP me? Doesn't that equate to.... slavery, sorta? I love my work. I told my sister that if it weren't for the number of hours I had to be there, it would be something I do for fun. Slavery? Are you kidding?! Having someone keep you financially comfortable is not the same as having someone keep you in a locked room, or in chains... Especially if you're directing him on what to do and how to do it all day, every day. M

LadyHibiscus -> RE: Tributes and Genuine Dommes (1/16/2009 4:01:21 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: beeble quote: LadyHibiscus wrote: Do you mean that there are guys out there who will PAY for me to stay home and be a happy little knitwear designer? Yeah, tell me one with unicorns next! OK. Once upon a time, there was a dreamy submissive guy who paid his Domme to stay at home and be a happy little knitwear designer. He also gave her two unicorns who were able to use their horns as giant knitting needles. They could knit so quickly that the Domme. soon became the richest little knitwear designer in the whole world! And then the dreamy submissive didn't need to work any more so he stayed at home with her and she (please tick all that apply) [ ] spanked/flogged/whipped him [ ] tied him up [ ] took him with her strap-on [ ] had sex with him [ ] locked him in chastity [ ] dripped wax on his body [ ] other (please specify) ........................................................ all day and all night. And they both lived happily ever after. The end. tucks Lady H. into bed and turns off the light Awww, isn't she sweet when she's asleep? beeble What a wonderful story!!! [sm=cute.gif]

LadyHibiscus -> RE: Tributes and Genuine Dommes (1/16/2009 4:04:10 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: FullfigRIMAAM1 quote: ORIGINAL: LadyHibiscus Okay. Do you mean that there are guys out there who will PAY for me to stay home and be a happy little knitwear designer? [8\|] Why would this be such a foreign idea Lady H? Have you never dated someone who made enough money to keep a home? Why would owning a man who can provide for you be as outlandish as a unicorn? quote: I HATE working. HATE. I would love to work at the things I enjoy, rather than have to work to pay my freaking bills. But having someone KEEP me? Doesn't that equate to.... slavery, sorta? I love my work. I told my sister that if it weren't for the number of hours I had to be there, it would be something I do for fun. Slavery? Are you kidding?! Having someone keep you financially comfortable is not the same as having someone keep you in a locked room, or in chains... Especially if you're directing him on what to do and how to do it all day, every day. M I dunno, M. I guess because all my money is gone to my healthcare and I have NO cushion left, I don't like the idea of being financially dependent on anyone. I have to have my OWN money, and how to get that besides earning it? Even if the man was paying the mortgage and the light bill, I wouldn't feel free to say, buy yarn! (you knew that was coming, right??)

FullfigRIMAAM1 -> RE: Tributes and Genuine Dommes (1/16/2009 4:13:29 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: LadyHibiscus I guess because all my money is gone to my healthcare and I have NO cushion left, I don't like the idea of being financially dependent on anyone. Aren't you the perfect domina for those men who will allow you near anything except their money? Are you kidding me? I don't value money enough to base my worth or anyone else's on it. I will date anyone I feel can add value to my life, whether he has a penny or a million dollars; however, if he has a penny, or a million, and says, these, you keep your hands off, he's out of my life. I knew a cutie like this, who thought that I could only have a say on what happens with his body; I hope his bank account is putting him in subspace now, lol. I cannot deal with cheap people, because I'm not. quote: I have to have my OWN money, and how to get that besides earning it? Even if the man was paying the mortgage and the light bill, I wouldn't feel free to say, buy yarn! (you knew that was coming, right??) If you own the man, why would you have an issue using anything he is or has? Practice this: write down a list of the colors of yarn you want, give it to him, and tell him to bring it on his way back from work, or on his way to pick you up for dinner, or have it at home when you get there. Easy, you see? [:D] M

azjojoba -> RE: Tributes and Genuine Dommes (1/17/2009 1:04:19 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: bisubboy1 I have been on this site for a few weeks and have written back and forth with a few Dommes. To be blunt it seems like all the Dommes on this site are only interested in milking desperate subs for their money. I am a sincere sub looking for a long term relationship with a real Domme, but I am very skeptical when after one or maybe two emails a woman that knows nothing about me or me about her is asking for a tribute. How do you separate the real people on this site from the scammers? Thanks! b. 9 out of 10 women on this site are scammers. All of them under the age of 30 want money. Most over 30 want to be married. The few who are left probably don't answer email. Your odds here aren't good unless you have an 8+ inch cock and lots of money. Sorry, but that's the blunt truth.

FullfigRIMAAM1 -> RE: Tributes and Genuine Dommes (1/17/2009 1:52:41 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: azjojoba 9 out of 10 women on this site are scammers. All of them under the age of 30 want money. Most over 30 want to be married. The few who are left probably don't answer email. Your odds here aren't good unless you have an 8+ inch cock and lots of money. Sorry, but that's the blunt truth. Either you're absolutely right, or most of the women here find you completely undesirable, and they'll use whatever means they need to make selves unavailable to you. Fortunately most folks here are too classy to tell you the blunt truth. [&:] M

beeble -> RE: Tributes and Genuine Dommes (1/17/2009 3:24:17 AM)
quote: azjojoba wrote: 9 out of 10 women on this site are scammers. All of them under the age of 30 want money. Most over 30 want to be married. The few who are left probably don't answer email. Your odds here aren't good unless you have an 8+ inch cock and lots of money. Sorry, but that's the blunt truth. Dude, the reason you haven't found what you're looking for is not the size your cock but the cock that's attached to it. Sorry, but that's the blunt truth. Interesting, though, that you should describe marriage as a `scam' when you're here to find somebody with whom you can cheat on your wife. beeble

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